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Reclaim sex - 'preclaim' sex?

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By *umi2 OP   Couple
4 days ago

Wild West Yorkshire

Lots of people say one of the best things with your partner having sex with someone else is the 'reclaim' sex - making love to your partner afterwards, knowing they've been fucking someone else.

We certainly find this is a huge turn on and we get an extra sexual buzz for days

Our question is, do people also fuck each other before a meet - sort of 'preclaim sex' - knowing that their partner will soon be fucking someone else?

Maybe we're just a bit slow on adding to the experience, but we've never deliberately had sex before meeting as a 'warm up' ...

And any other tips on how to extend or enhance the buzz of a meet up?

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By *irthandMirthMan
4 days ago

Essex ++

Need to be careful having preclaim sex as get older. Had a hotel meet with my ex with another couple around 60's. He was exhausted after about 5-10 mins. Not just limp dick but just tired and no energy. She was ok and we had good fun but she was clearly tired. They apologised and said been playing before we arrived - the excitement of being in hotel room all dressed up and the anticipation of meeting us had got to them. Wouldn't have minded but we had driven 90 mins and was planning a reasonably long evening of fun.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
4 days ago

Staffordshire

Definitely not before hand, but always afterwards.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
4 days ago

South East


"Lots of people say one of the best things with your partner having sex with someone else is the 'reclaim' sex - making love to your partner afterwards, knowing they've been fucking someone else.

We certainly find this is a huge turn on and we get an extra sexual buzz for days

Our question is, do people also fuck each other before a meet - sort of 'preclaim sex' - knowing that their partner will soon be fucking someone else?

Maybe we're just a bit slow on adding to the experience, but we've never deliberately had sex before meeting as a 'warm up' ...

And any other tips on how to extend or enhance the buzz of a meet up?"

Yeah, when in a club the first thing we do is go to a private room and talk about what we would like out of the day if possible (people at the club dependant). We will always have sex and talk about what we are going to do, I will always make her cum a couple of times, to get her really going and then we will go and try and make our plans come true.

It’s incredibly hot as is the reclaim sex and talking about the stuff we did.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
4 days ago

Cannock

Reclaim, definitely. We also get that extra buzz for days after.

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By *abulincsCouple
4 days ago

near a bridge

Sometimes pre and post all depends on the day lol

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By *pringbok95Couple
4 days ago

Limavady

Definitely not.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
4 days ago

Scotland

We don’t have penetrative sex as I like to save myself however hubby will often lick me to get me ready for our meet and that’s also the first thing he does after 😋

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By *igBeardyDanMan
4 days ago

Bilston

Im usually the one doing the bit in between the pre claim and reclaim sex so its interesting looking at the replies

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By *rTeeth777Man
4 days ago

d

Reclaim sex is the best ever (unless we’re both exhausted or long drive home) and never met anyone that excited me as much as the connection with my wife

Especially as often the party or club action has been like foreplay as we never had “regulars” so meets were often more like experimenting with new people

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By *rasshopper201Man
4 days ago

kendal


"We don’t have penetrative sex as I like to save myself however hubby will often lick me to get me ready for our meet and that’s also the first thing he does after 😋"
what a lucky man he is I’m jealous

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By *INKYLOVE69Couple
4 days ago

Chesterfield

We love the reclaim sex, it's always so hot

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By *wbcouple30Couple
17 hours ago

Rutherglen

We have "preclaim" sex. More as a warm up if you like. Weve only had a threesome twice but both times the warm up sex has been super intense and sexy. Obviously he just doesnt cum but hes got amazing stamina in my humble opinion haha. Reclaim sex also sexy af

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
17 hours ago

Exeter

We normally kiss passionately, fondle, then rub my clit and lips with a peach lube.

I'm wet and taste sweet when the fun starts with the other chap x

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
16 hours ago

Barnsley

No for us it's better saved till after. With a threesome I (Mr) hold off and come with the wife after he has gone sometimes

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By *orknmindy21Couple
16 hours ago

Newtownards

Definitely not beforehand but Definitely after mmmmm and we all go again

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By *ndian_jmCouple
15 hours ago

Wigston

We love this often last few days too

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