FabSwingers.com forum: Profile critique please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know we are forum regulars, but even we need to do put our money where our mouths are sometimes and ask for one of these.

Due to a change which was forced upon us, we've had to change our profile substantially in the last 24 hours and we would be interested what everyone's opinions are on the changes we've made.

I shall now retire with my tin helmet to a suitably deep bunker and await the onslaught....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pic’s or nice, description of you both Sounds like up employed a dictator to write it for you, your too demanding, Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know we are forum regulars, but even we need to do put our money where our mouths are sometimes and ask for one of these.

Due to a change which was forced upon us, we've had to change our profile substantially in the last 24 hours and we would be interested what everyone's opinions are on the changes we've made.

I shall now retire with my tin helmet to a suitably deep bunker and await the onslaught....

ted. "

A good, well-thought profile. Let's everyone know what you are looking for so if someone messages you who does not fit your criteria then it's their problem not yours.

If there's one negative thing that people may say (and we are just as guilty) is that the only pic of the male is a cock pic. Women are likely to want to see at least some sort of body shot to give them an idea of build.

Hope this helps

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Pic’s or nice, description of you both Sounds like up employed a dictator to write it for you, your too demanding, Just my opinion

I agree, but it will attract those they're looking for and allow those that don't like their demands to exclude themselves.

Personally, if I were a bi woman I would be put off meeting, as Ted sat in a corner, knob in hand hoping to play would be disconcerting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahahahahahahahaha poor ted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just felt that it was far too long, the division idea is a great idea but needs to be cut down a bit ie the information about Kik etc perhaps doesn't need to be in there, really it just needs to say that we only meet couples in a club and then the bit about meets and events. Pictures are nice though and I fabbed one with the nice net top and lacy knickers

needs more of Ted though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a very clear profile which outlines what you're both looking for and what you have to offer. It should only attract those who can fulfil your needs.

Lose the 'straight as this line' bit cos everyone knows that dotted line is morse code for 'bi as a pair of binoculars on a bike'

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Pretty good profile and pictures it clearly sets out your criteria. Not sure about the secret criteria but at the end, if you don't reply and it means you're not interested no one will want to spend time searching their profile for a mystery reason.

All in all I think you'll have a lot of success because you make yourself known in the forums too.

Good luck

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I like it especially the pics

If i were to make an observation it's the catchment area part. It's a personal observation but i wouldn't give that level of detail. The first 3 characters can encompass your area without being specific to your road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very well written and thought out profile

Nice pics and tbh we can't fault it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lose the 'straight as this line' bit cos everyone knows that dotted line is morse code for 'bi as a pair of binoculars on a bike' "

Might have known you'd come up with that!!!!

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like it especially the pics

Point taken. The reason that is in there is that on Ruby's old personal profile it said 'within 30 miles radius' of her location. She had guys who still thought 150 miles was less than 30 miles... loads of 'em actually! So I take your point, and I think we might keep that fact to ourselves and take it out..

ted.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Had to fab a couple of pics, Ted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...If there's one negative thing that people may say (and we are just as guilty) is that the only pic of the male is a cock pic. Women are likely to want to see at least some sort of body shot to give them an idea of build.

Hope this helps

I am a bit frustrated when it comes to the pics actually. Like a lot of couples, one of us is the photographer - and that happens to be me. We have got people we've met to take pics for us, but have ditched the vast majority as they were next to useless! Getting a GOOD shot AND preserving someones anonymity is not as easy as it seems. You can get plenty of average - or dare I say it, poor - pics, but I would sooner have a smaller number of good quality ones on show. I'm getting the cock shot reshot as a few ladies have said that it doesn't do it justice (Oh the flattery....! Lol!). There is one pic of me, but it's right at the end (the one showing a headless guy deep-sticking a woman). Obviously something we need to work on...

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pretty good profile and pictures it clearly sets out your criteria. Not sure about the secret criteria but at the end, if you don't reply and it means you're not interested no one will want to spend time searching their profile for a mystery reason.

All in all I think you'll have a lot of success because you make yourself known in the forums too.

Good luck

L "

Thanks for that. I put that in to test the water. Already a couple of guys have risen to the challenge, but two have failed... lol! Think you're right though - and it will be disappearing from the profile...

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had to fab a couple of pics, Ted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see people who put some effort into their profile. Too many people have 'fill in later' or something equally as shit, but you guys have went into some good detail about what you do and don't want.

What's mine like, if anyone can be fussed looking? Tried to be honest as possible, for how i felt at the time anyway!

Oh, and yes...those are fabulous breasts for any woman, never mind a 52 year old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just goes on and on!

Sorry

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I like it especially the pics

ted."

There will always be individuals who struggle to understand distance

The profile itself though is fine IMO

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