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By *oungandhung21 OP   Man
6 days ago

blackpool

It seems to me no one is interested in me because of my age is this a normal thing for this app and also everytime people go on about meeting they just ignore and never go through with it?

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By *awpleasureMan
6 days ago

Sutton Coldfield

You'd be better off attending some local clubs first, get chatting and hopefully receive a few notifications.

There are plenty of women who like younger men. Getting known in clubs is a great start tbh

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By *ourpornfixMan
6 days ago

East Cheshire

Perhaps change your tagline and status, which aren't really attractive.

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By *WB85Man
6 days ago

Staffordshire


"Perhaps change your tagline and status, which aren't really attractive."

I had to click the profile to see, and I do agree.

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
6 days ago

Sheffield

Love young guys so fresh and horny

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By *lizaDay91Woman
6 days ago

It'sASecret

I can see you've messaged me, but your message is two words long. I'm interested in meeting younger men, but only if they make an effort to read my profile and what I'm looking for, attach a clear face picture wuth their message and make an effort to tailor their message to me snd my profile.

People who just say "hi" are often messaging a lot of women and aren't making the effort to show that they're actually interested in the person they're messaging, and feel they'll be a good fit.

Too many men feel owed sex and go into this expecting instant gratification. That isn't the attitude to have. Take mutual physical and mental attraction as a bonus, not a given. Be willing to put in the effort if you're genuinely interested in someone.

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By *lizaDay91Woman
6 days ago

It'sASecret


"Perhaps change your tagline and status, which aren't really attractive.

I had to click the profile to see, and I do agree.

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Same here. If this person had bothered to look at even the first few lines of my profile they'd know I don't do random meets. I'm about high effort people. Sadly, many people think this site means instant sex.

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
5 days ago

x

OP you won't appeal to everyone on this site because some, like me, are not into younger guys.

For those that are, your action shots may put them off. At the end of they day though it is also the quality of your profile and your messages. Are they putting you across in the best light?

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By *aandLoCouple
5 days ago

Southampton

Agree with much that's been said.

You need a decent bio, a strong first message. Most importantly for us there must be decent photos; action shots will mean we will ignore any messages from single people, male or female. Too many consent issues for us.

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
5 days ago

London - South East and West

Would never contemplate meeting a 21 year old. I imagine they would be clueless about the care needed with peri menopausal women.

As you often see on these kind of threads, would you really meet a 99 year old woman or couple?

If i had clicked on your profile to check you out, I'd be frustrated that you hadn't cropped your photos to give the viewer a better look at your body. That said, I genuinely prefer a chunkier man with a dad bod tum, so I'd never message a slim man, aged 21 or 51!

Hope that helps.

Mrs

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By *ersatilefoxMan
5 days ago

Notts

While it has been suggested you go to clubs op, but my take on single men in clubs especially younger men, most club goers don't want them there, they are known as the wanking dead. You also get charged extortionate entry fees. And not everyone is into the club scene. My only club visit was awful. Yes the staff were amazing in welcoming me. But I spent most of the night on my own, hardly anyone wanted to chat.

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By *izandpaulCouple
5 days ago

merseyside

I'm very old but slways happy to neet younger guys but only when I go to clubs, private parties, naturist beaches and swingers holidays.

Your profile states you can hold a conversation etc, think you will do just fine at any club or social event.

Give them a whirl.

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By *ecoyLanternMan
5 days ago

Pembs

Hi, former young guy here!

In my experience, maturity and the way you carry yourself go a long way. If you're acting reckless and insensitive in a lad culturesque way, won't won't be getting very far. Learn how to hold a good conversation, communicate your expectations and above all be respectful and polite.

Sometimes you just need to age into things a little. I joined the site at 25, but my babyface was a huge turn off for a lot of older women. Sometimes the age gap can be a little uncomfortable for older women and couples. But with perseverance and patience, I'm sure you'll have some luck

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By *ymo999Man
3 days ago

hereford

I am not getting reply’s Hoping for either

Any mature lady’s that like what they see here drop a messsge x

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By *ilfLove2FuckCouple
2 days ago

London

Personally we love young bulls Some are energetic and full of stamina so the fun keeps going. Some are curious and it's fun helping them discover new kinks/positions etc.

You won't be everyone's cuppa tea and nor will we, so just trying and you'll eventually hit the jackpot...

If you are ever in Ldn, hit us up

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 days ago

Central

It's very difficult for all of you single men, regardless of your age. See how many posts are made every day by similar men. There are some people who you will match with, others not and especially if they have kids of a similar age.

Use the search to find people who like people like you. Good luck! X

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