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Successful first meet long last and l was ready to give up

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By *omo2026 OP   Man
21 hours ago

North West

So I'm off out the blocks and have had my first meet on here. I really was going to give up for the constant dead ends I've been wasting my time with.

As for the meet itself, I'd say it went well and was successful for both of us despite the nerves kicking in. Interesting to see if the nerves kick in for everyone and does it get easier over time. Needless to say once things settled I was just in the zone. Don't think I could have received a better verification from said meet.

Can't stop thinking about it and how I'm wanting more now.

How much is the first meet going to help me with the next one without the usual radio silence from most people..

Any tips

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By *ersatilefoxMan
21 hours ago

Notts

Of course the nerves kick in every meeting, especially if it is with someone new

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By *lack King DomMan
21 hours ago

London


"So I'm off out the blocks and have had my first meet on here. I really was going to give up for the constant dead ends I've been wasting my time with.

As for the meet itself, I'd say it went well and was successful for both of us despite the nerves kicking in. Interesting to see if the nerves kick in for everyone and does it get easier over time. Needless to say once things settled I was just in the zone. Don't think I could have received a better verification from said meet.

Can't stop thinking about it and how I'm wanting more now.

How much is the first meet going to help me with the next one without the usual radio silence from most people..

Any tips

"

It's going to help you really focus on who will actually suit what you're looking for rather than DM a bunch of singles, couples etc. It'll also stimulate you mentally and physically to be more positive about yourself and what you're looking for in your own self discovery. Finally, alot of ppl here can be assholes so it's a positive reward to meet someone that can see you for what you are and trust you

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By *irthandMirthMan
21 hours ago

Bishop's Stortford

I'm amazed you met somebody with your age range set 18-94. Reading Forum you'd think that would put everyone off, would you really fuck an 18 year old or would you really fuck a 94 year old? Must have been the lowering from 99 to 94. Anyways congrats and hope you have lots more fun.

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By *iss DevilWoman
18 hours ago

Bedford

OP, congratulations on your first Fab meet. I'd say don't expect a lot more offers in your inbox, verification is not a golden ticket to tons of pussy. Just keep doing what you did to get that meet, and maybe concentrate on her for a bit, as she seems to want more time with you?

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By *aomilatteCouple
18 hours ago

Midlands


"So I'm off out the blocks and have had my first meet on here. I really was going to give up for the constant dead ends I've been wasting my time with.

As for the meet itself, I'd say it went well and was successful for both of us despite the nerves kicking in. Interesting to see if the nerves kick in for everyone and does it get easier over time. Needless to say once things settled I was just in the zone. Don't think I could have received a better verification from said meet.

Can't stop thinking about it and how I'm wanting more now.

How much is the first meet going to help me with the next one without the usual radio silence from most people..

Any tips

"

We still get nervous (though not as much) after going to clubs for 10 years, not that we go that often. It looks like she wants to meet you again, so you should be alright for a 2nd meet. As said, don't expect to suddenly get loads of replies and meets just because of a verification.

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By *omo2026 OP   Man
18 hours ago

North West

Thanks everyone for your contributions. It's helpful x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 hours ago

East Sussex

Yeah I get nervous, Mr not so much.

I value discretion highly too.

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By *UBLINCASTLEMan
14 hours ago

DUBLIN

Try and get verified by the person you met, as getting verified is a vital step forward.

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 hours ago

Bedford


"Try and get verified by the person you met, as getting verified is a vital step forward. "
Erm... He is verified by the lady he met.

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By *ileHighMaverick85Man
13 hours ago

manchester

I am looking for my first meet also after giving up, re activating, giving up, re activating haha. This post gives me a slight reminder that it may happen. Nice one dude

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By *inkPomPomWoman
13 hours ago

Isle of Man

Well done for a first meet, just dont expect the floodgates to open now and have tonnes of options

You might have to wait the same amount of time again

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By *omo2026 OP   Man
13 hours ago

North West

Hey thank you for your message in the forum. There's one thing not to expect on fab and that's anything

I'm taking it all in my stride with that child like excitement to just meet meet meet but I know that's Fantasyland not reality. It's kind of addictive isn't it. How are you finding it

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By *inkPomPomWoman
13 hours ago

Isle of Man


"Hey thank you for your message in the forum. There's one thing not to expect on fab and that's anything

I'm taking it all in my stride with that child like excitement to just meet meet meet but I know that's Fantasyland not reality. It's kind of addictive isn't it. How are you finding it "

I prefer not to answer that question as I might catch a ban 🩷

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By *omo2026 OP   Man
13 hours ago

North West

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By *UBLINCASTLEMan
13 hours ago

DUBLIN


"Try and get verified by the person you met, as getting verified is a vital step forward. Erm... He is verified by the lady he met. "

I didn't look at his profile

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By *oiluvfunMan
13 hours ago

Penrith


"So I'm off out the blocks and have had my first meet on here. I really was going to give up for the constant dead ends I've been wasting my time with.

As for the meet itself, I'd say it went well and was successful for both of us despite the nerves kicking in. Interesting to see if the nerves kick in for everyone and does it get easier over time. Needless to say once things settled I was just in the zone. Don't think I could have received a better verification from said meet.

Can't stop thinking about it and how I'm wanting more now.

How much is the first meet going to help me with the next one without the usual radio silence from most people..

Any tips

"

Well as you actually have 3 verifications, after only being in here 6 months, I would say just keep on doing what you have been doing so far?

You've had more meets than I have in the last 2 years, so perhaps I should be looking for tips from you

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By *aomilatteCouple
12 hours ago

Midlands


"So I'm off out the blocks and have had my first meet on here. I really was going to give up for the constant dead ends I've been wasting my time with.

As for the meet itself, I'd say it went well and was successful for both of us despite the nerves kicking in. Interesting to see if the nerves kick in for everyone and does it get easier over time. Needless to say once things settled I was just in the zone. Don't think I could have received a better verification from said meet.

Can't stop thinking about it and how I'm wanting more now.

How much is the first meet going to help me with the next one without the usual radio silence from most people..

Any tips

Well as you actually have 3 verifications, after only being in here 6 months, I would say just keep on doing what you have been doing so far?

You've had more meets than I have in the last 2 years, so perhaps I should be looking for tips from you "

Good spot! His opening post says he's just had his first meet. His profile says that's his 3rd meet.

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By *omo2026 OP   Man
12 hours ago

North West

First "meet" with a female the other veris are socials

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By *ullrunMan
12 hours ago

Bradford


"So I'm off out the blocks and have had my first meet on here. I really was going to give up for the constant dead ends I've been wasting my time with.

As for the meet itself, I'd say it went well and was successful for both of us despite the nerves kicking in. Interesting to see if the nerves kick in for everyone and does it get easier over time. Needless to say once things settled I was just in the zone. Don't think I could have received a better verification from said meet.

Can't stop thinking about it and how I'm wanting more now.

How much is the first meet going to help me with the next one without the usual radio silence from most people..

Any tips

"

I genuinely am happy for u man it's hard out here

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By *oiluvfunMan
11 hours ago

Penrith


"First "meet" with a female the other veris are socials"

In that case then; we're level for 'meets', although your one in 6 months, trumps my 1 in 2 years. I have my fingers crossed for you, for the next 18 months....

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