FabSwingers.com forum: Need ideas!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys we're a young couple and have recently arranged a mmf with one my friends everyone involved knows its going to happen but how do we get it started on the night.my gf wants me to go to toilet while he makes a move on her.whats the best way for him to do so.cheers guys

Any suggestions greatly appreciated

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hi guys we're a young couple and have recently arranged a mmf with one my friends everyone involved knows its going to happen but how do we get it started on the night.my gf wants me to go to toilet while he makes a move on her.whats the best way for him to do so.cheers guys

Any suggestions greatly appreciated"

Hi guys! That would work - often the hardest part is for the third party to get involved. So leaving the two of them together briefly is less pressure for them. It may be as good for her to make the first move on him - with him being the 'guest' it'll dismiss any concerns.

The other alternative is for you guys to start playing - and for her to then invite him to join in! This is often what we do - although usually the guys don't need an invite and often just strip and join in!

I'm sure on the night it'll all just 'happen' - whichever way you approach it! Have fun and enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for idea guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some dice we roll. One says an action-kiss, suck, blow etc. The other a body part -neck, nipple, cock. Works for us and our new fbs love it too!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"We have some dice we roll. One says an action-kiss, suck, blow etc. The other a body part -neck, nipple, cock. Works for us and our new fbs love it too!"

This is a great way to get things going from my experience, its good for parties too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou but I think she just wants it to happen rather than force it if that makes sense lol.she wants me to come down to them both kissing then I just join in so need ideas on how he could make the move on her

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Thankyou but I think she just wants it to happen rather than force it if that makes sense lol.she wants me to come down to them both kissing then I just join in so need ideas on how he could make the move on her"

Some good cheeky and fun conversation to get everyone relaxed and in the mood, followed by a dose of confidence to make a move whilst you're upstairs then maybe

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Some good cheeky and fun conversation to get everyone relaxed and in the mood, followed by a dose of confidence to make a move whilst you're upstairs then maybe"

This goes for all parties by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that your girlfriend makes a move on HIM, while you're out of the room. He might be too nervous to make the first move.

All she needs to do is sit next to him, smile, and ask him if he would like to join you both for sex. If he's bottled it, he can do a runner, without 'losing face' in front of you. If he hasn't bottled it, they can snog until you rejoin them.

Happy days!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By SunnyOptimist Woman

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Chatrooms. That's all

I would suggest that your girlfriend makes a move on HIM, while you're out of the room. He might be too nervous to make the first move.

SHe far to shy to make the first move and he's had mmf before so know he definetly up for it and she wants me to come down to them both snogging so how could he make the move on her.im probably trying plan a bit to much just so eager lol

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By *MOOTH AND ROUGHCouple
over a year ago

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When we has our first MMF we meet for a drink we went to the room first then two minutes later the other male turned up. Mrs s greeted him at the door when he came in mrs s was between us then started off kissing the both of us and went from there xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

By SunnyOptimist Woman

1 minute ago!

Chatrooms. That's all

I would suggest that your girlfriend makes a move on HIM, while you're out of the room. He might be too nervous to make the first move.

If you've discussed it as per your OP and everyone knows it's going to happen - and he's done it before - then I can't see the problem!

Just get up, say you're nipping to the loo and leave them to it, saying "Feel free to start without me" !!

Simples!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just get up, say you're nipping to the loo and leave them to it, saying "Feel free to start without me" !!

That's probably my best bet if I say that as I'm leaving as it gives him the green light to crack on.cheers for the ideas everyone let you know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just get up, say you're nipping to the loo and leave them to it, saying "Feel free to start without me" !!

That's probably my best bet if I say that as I'm leaving as it gives him the green light to crack on.cheers for the ideas everyone let you know how it goes"

But do leave it a little while - if you literally go to the loo and back again as normal, then probably not going to be enough time. Leave them for five/seven minutes or so.

Before you start the evening it's a good idea to think about the seating, who will be where etc. What you don't want is you two on a sofa facing him on another chair on his own. There may be awkwaqrdness so you need to agree first who is going where, and subtly direct the action. Hope it goes well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

think about the seating,

I was thinking for me and him to sit on sofa while she sits opposite us wearing something revealing so she can catch him having a sneaky look now and again.leave them alone for about 5 mins.thankyou

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