FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

menopausal women interests shift

Jump to newest
 

By *nourtime OP   Man
1 week ago

London /Surrey/Hampshire

Can menopausal women experience a complete (180-degree) change in their sexual interests?

For example:

• Preferring older men before menopause, but only wanting younger men afterward

• Enjoying only male-female sex before menopause, but wanting orgies or group sex afterward?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 week ago

East Sussex

Maybe and posdibly it's nothing to do with menopause and everything to do with the change in attitude that sometimes accompanies growing older

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xSirenaxxWoman
1 week ago

x

No, menopause isn't some magical switch that suddenly changes a woman's entire sexuality overnight.

It's far more likely to make her less willing to tolerate mediocre sex, selfish behaviour from a sexual partner, and years of unresolved issues. A lot of women simply reach a point where their tolerance for crap sex runs out. So they either stop having sex altogether or take the opportunity to explore what actually gives them pleasure.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ormalfornorfolkMan
1 week ago

Norwich

I’m pretty sure I haven’t been through menopause, but I find getting older means you don’t try nearly as hard struggling to make people like you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
1 week ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"No, menopause isn't some magical switch that suddenly changes a woman's entire sexuality overnight.

It's far more likely to make her less willing to tolerate mediocre sex, selfish behaviour from a sexual partner, and years of unresolved issues. A lot of women simply reach a point where their tolerance for crap sex runs out. So they either stop having sex altogether or take the opportunity to explore what actually gives them pleasure."

I haven’t gone through it yet but what you have said makes perfect sense and for my older lady friends that’s pretty much their attitude to it too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lainJane23Woman
1 week ago

Liverpool


"No, menopause isn't some magical switch that suddenly changes a woman's entire sexuality overnight.

It's far more likely to make her less willing to tolerate mediocre sex, selfish behaviour from a sexual partner, and years of unresolved issues. A lot of women simply reach a point where their tolerance for crap sex runs out. So they either stop having sex altogether or take the opportunity to explore what actually gives them pleasure."

Well typed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ools and the brainCouple
1 week ago

couple, us we him her.


"Can menopausal women experience a complete (180-degree) change in their sexual interests?

For example:

• Preferring older men before menopause, but only wanting younger men afterward

• Enjoying only male-female sex before menopause, but wanting orgies or group sex afterward?"

Whys that mate you going through the menopause?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtycp1 V2V CLUBCouple
5 days ago

Nuneaton, Warwickshire.

My sex drive increased massively during menopause

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *dinburghWomanWoman
5 days ago

Edinburgh


"I’m pretty sure I haven’t been through menopause, but I find getting older means you don’t try nearly as hard struggling to make people like you."

I have and the second part is definitely true.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oomuchformealoneCouple
5 days ago

bradford

Ummm yes, I was practically a nun before menopause and wasn't very interested.

Wish I'd felt like this all my life!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ools and the brainCouple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.


"My sex drive increased massively during menopause "

Mrs did now has dropped off MASSIVELY 😳.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edsandhertsbonkersCouple
5 days ago

Luton

As a woman 😉 I give far less of a crap about what I should be doing at almost 50 and go after what makes me happy .

Libido and desire changes massively during menopause . I have had weeks where I couldn’t care less and others where I’m horny as hell .

I know a lot of women reach that point in their life and they feel like it’s now or never and so making some different decisions before they feel they are too old to is a massive pull

I know I’m keen to get as much in while my body is still good .

Support and talking always the way x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *oomuchformealoneCouple
5 days ago

bradford

Has she got hrt?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top