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By *K.older.Straight.Guy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

MILTON KEYNES

Hi everyone,

Just out of interest, do all of the couples who look for a single straight guy to join them for a threesome have to be hung model type looks and dominant or is there an interest for guys to have average size average looks and just normal ?

Interested to know if I’m wasting my time with hundred of responses

Thanks

Mark

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
2 weeks ago

near you...

May come as a shock but I tend to want to meet guys who are fun, sane and fuckable. Is it different for men? Lx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

The very short answer to your question is 'no'.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
2 weeks ago

Somerset

We don’t look for straight men but occasionally do look for bi men so our feedback may have some relevance. We don’t look for models looks, a big cock, a specific skin colour, tall men, rich men or any of the other things single men often believe the lack of are holding them back. What we do look for in a single man is first and foremost to be single. Part of that that means being able to accommodate in their own home, not a hotel. Yes, many genuinely single men can’t do that for a variety of reasons but it’s something we enjoy. Apart from that, to be respectful, nice and able to meet weekend evenings. A positive verification for a face to face meet that was more than a social from a similar couple helps. That’s it really. Timing is everything. We very rarely play with single males so if they message us, it’s very unlikely to go anywhere. When we are looking, we reach out to someone who looks like they fit the bill and equally would enjoy meeting us. There are of course lots of things about a profile that would put us off (but equally, may appeal to others). The words bull, cuck, ruin. Bragging about their prowess and promises of making her squirt. Action shots, no pics, too many dick pics, terrible spelling, text speak.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We when looking for single men want the basics..

Cock larger than 3 inches.

Attractive.

Decent body and by decent we mean not ridiculous skinny or ridiculous obese but normal with lumps and bumps is fine.

Intelligent, we don’t mean you have to have a PhD but to be able to hold a conversation.

Respectful.

Reliable.

Massive extra points if you geeky or funny or even better both.

Not overly pierced or tattooed.

I don’t feel like we asking for much from what we looking for, tons of men on here fit the bill but just not local enough for it to work

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands


"Hi everyone,

Just out of interest, do all of the couples who look for a single straight guy to join them for a threesome have to be hung model type looks and dominant or is there an interest for guys to have average size average looks and just normal ?

Interested to know if I’m wasting my time with hundred of responses

Thanks

Mark "

Hung doesn't come into it.

Dominant is a no.

Model type looks? Well handsome goes a long way.

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By *pongeFab-SwingPantsCouple
2 weeks ago

Upside down Pineapple under the sea

when we look for single males at clubs we always look for personality and charisma and confidence without arrogance. It's all well and good having a six pack and a ten inch cock but if you can't hold a decent conversation it's a non starter for us.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

You will need 1 of the couple to find you attractive and for the other, to also find compatibility. Most people are not mutually compatible, so realistic expectations take this into account

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By *wingshot321.Couple
2 weeks ago

Nearby

I'd say natural selection comes into place here, same as if you were in a pub, I'm going to be interested in the best looking guy that ticks all my boxes on that occasion, will they turn up at my door that's another thing entirely

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

We are looking for someone friendly who can have a conversation and doesn't always think with his cock. Obviously she had to be attracted to them too

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By *randMrs45Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Absolutely not, attraction and the vibe with the guy more so, cock size doesn’t enter into for us..

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By *abulincsCouple
2 weeks ago

near a bridge

We would think each and every couple has their own demographic of what they are looking for read profiles and go from there we think

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By *andystick72Man
2 weeks ago

kinky Street

You'd be surprised op

I'm a silver fox ,not got 6 pack ,my job keeps me active ,and believe me I can't complain, hotwifing, couples, and single women ,it's all about connection, having a laugh ,everyone feeling at ease ,

My advice would be ,don't try and be someone your not ,just be your yourself ,approach all parties with manners and respect ,no sex talk ,that will come later

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
2 weeks ago

New Cumnock

If we pick a single male then we prefer to have a connection with him first, we go off vibes. But having said that, I do prefer bearded men, it's just my kink.

CG x

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
7 days ago

Cambridgeshire

Everyone is different, but a rule of thumb is that people tend to prefer other people who are a similar level of physical attractiveness to themselves.

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