FabSwingers.com forum: How to start with photo swapping and sexting

By *orksexplorecouple OP Couple
1 day ago

Bradford

Hi, we are J (M, Bi) and L (F, straight) a couple in our late thirties from Yorkshire, taking steps to open up our relationship. We are only looking for virtual experiences.

We are fairly new to fab and whilst we chatted to a few people a few months ago, we never really got past that stage. L especially found the 'admin' side of trying to chat to people and build a bit of a connection tricky, and that's why we stepped away for a bit. It felt too much like a dating app with too much small talk and that was a turn off for her.

We are wondering if there's an easy way to start this up with less need for small talk, and would welcome any thoughts from those people who are doing this. Photo swapping and sexting is all we are looking for.

Feel free to DM if you're interested but also we do genuinely want advice from people more experienced to help us get going

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By *WANDTGCouple
1 day ago

Borough of Greenwich

You're on the forums , so go to search and put in "sexting" you'll see numerous chats, choose one then see what they have to offer.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
16 hours ago

Cambridgeshire

I think the problem you face is that people on here generally fall into one of two groups. They either see what you're looking for as a gateway to a physical meet, or they're picture collectors who are normally fakes.

The other problem is that it's difficult to write any genuinely sexy messages without a bit of knowledge about the person you're sending them to, and that takes a bit of small talk to get there.

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By *iss DevilWoman
16 hours ago

Bedford

OP, I have to admit, I'm very surprised you found it difficult on here to get what you're after. If you look in the "Introduction" section, most of the posts there are from men who are looking for that.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
15 hours ago

Norwich

I think you do need a little bit of background about someone to make things sexy, otherwise the chat can become quite bland, even if enhanced by pictures. It’s interesting and sexy to learn a bit about what makes people tick, and how they present to the world outside of fab or the context of a chat. You can usually tell within a few messages whether you will click with someone. I do find that getting the right dynamic just using fab is difficult. Happy to chat more and offer advice (to anyone) even if I’m not what you’re looking for.

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By *edalogangstersCouple
9 hours ago

Scotland

"OP, I have to admit, I'm very surprised you found it difficult on here to get what you're after. If you look in the "Introduction" section, most of the posts there are from men who are looking for that. "

I think (i could be wrong) they are looking for couples to participate. Not just single men.

We've encountered similar things

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