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How to start with photo swapping and sexting

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By *orksexplorecouple OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Bradford

Hi, we are J (M, Bi) and L (F, straight) a couple in our late thirties from Yorkshire, taking steps to open up our relationship. We are only looking for virtual experiences.

We are fairly new to fab and whilst we chatted to a few people a few months ago, we never really got past that stage. L especially found the 'admin' side of trying to chat to people and build a bit of a connection tricky, and that's why we stepped away for a bit. It felt too much like a dating app with too much small talk and that was a turn off for her.

We are wondering if there's an easy way to start this up with less need for small talk, and would welcome any thoughts from those people who are doing this. Photo swapping and sexting is all we are looking for.

Feel free to DM if you're interested but also we do genuinely want advice from people more experienced to help us get going

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By *WANDTGCouple
3 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

You're on the forums , so go to search and put in "sexting" you'll see numerous chats, choose one then see what they have to offer.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
3 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

I think the problem you face is that people on here generally fall into one of two groups. They either see what you're looking for as a gateway to a physical meet, or they're picture collectors who are normally fakes.

The other problem is that it's difficult to write any genuinely sexy messages without a bit of knowledge about the person you're sending them to, and that takes a bit of small talk to get there.

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, I have to admit, I'm very surprised you found it difficult on here to get what you're after. If you look in the "Introduction" section, most of the posts there are from men who are looking for that.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I think you do need a little bit of background about someone to make things sexy, otherwise the chat can become quite bland, even if enhanced by pictures. It’s interesting and sexy to learn a bit about what makes people tick, and how they present to the world outside of fab or the context of a chat. You can usually tell within a few messages whether you will click with someone. I do find that getting the right dynamic just using fab is difficult. Happy to chat more and offer advice (to anyone) even if I’m not what you’re looking for.

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By *edalogangstersCouple
3 weeks ago

Scotland


"OP, I have to admit, I'm very surprised you found it difficult on here to get what you're after. If you look in the "Introduction" section, most of the posts there are from men who are looking for that. "

I think (i could be wrong) they are looking for couples to participate. Not just single men.

We've encountered similar things

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By *ussydocMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I think it depends on what you are looking for if you are after a chap to talk to you about your photos and send some cheeky ones back then that will be easy to find.

If you want the chats to be more in depth more interactive and tap into your personal desires and links then takes a few messages back and forth.

Have had a few great chats with couples and singles so it’s certainly possible

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By *inky PerkyCouple
3 weeks ago

Narnia

As with anything on FAB, you do have to put the work in.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
3 weeks ago

SW Scotland


"Hi, we are J (M, Bi) and L (F, straight) a couple in our late thirties from Yorkshire, taking steps to open up our relationship. We are only looking for virtual experiences.

We are fairly new to fab and whilst we chatted to a few people a few months ago, we never really got past that stage. L especially found the 'admin' side of trying to chat to people and build a bit of a connection tricky, and that's why we stepped away for a bit. It felt too much like a dating app with too much small talk and that was a turn off for her.

We are wondering if there's an easy way to start this up with less need for small talk, and would welcome any thoughts from those people who are doing this. Photo swapping and sexting is all we are looking for.

Feel free to DM if you're interested but also we do genuinely want advice from people more experienced to help us get going"

Have a look at Tele groups as there’s no end of people wanting to pic swap and sext on there

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
3 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"Hi, we are J (M, Bi) and L (F, straight) a couple in our late thirties from Yorkshire, taking steps to open up our relationship. We are only looking for virtual experiences.

We are fairly new to fab and whilst we chatted to a few people a few months ago, we never really got past that stage. L especially found the 'admin' side of trying to chat to people and build a bit of a connection tricky, and that's why we stepped away for a bit. It felt too much like a dating app with too much small talk and that was a turn off for her.

We are wondering if there's an easy way to start this up with less need for small talk, and would welcome any thoughts from those people who are doing this. Photo swapping and sexting is all we are looking for.

Feel free to DM if you're interested but also we do genuinely want advice from people more experienced to help us get going"

I think it’s hard to send sexy horny texts when there’s no context and also you specify you won’t show faces which is fair enough but we personally couldn’t send naughty and sexy messages to someone we don’t know if we fancy or not? Your best bet is single men but I dare say they will use it just to get them selves off and won’t be giving you what you want ?

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