FabSwingers.com forum: Women looking for women?

By *ampWithABrain OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm not just looking for women but just wondering. Do the interested women on here never mail each other? Too swamped by the men if like me you're bi?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've messaged plenty of women, not had many meets this way, so tend to just meet with women in clubs.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I have a few single ladies I message regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message women & get women messaging me but it is harder. Fabs has a wealth of incredible men but some great single women too. Finding one that isn't coupled up or with a fb/bf is like gold dust but worth it

Keep looking, you'll find one

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"I message women & get women messaging me but it is harder. Fabs has a wealth of incredible men but some great single women too. Finding one that isn't coupled up or with a fb/bf is like gold dust but worth it

Keep looking, you'll find one

x "

So I'm gold dust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to meet with women, only way I've managed is through threesomes

I'm either out of age range or they're just not interested

lol

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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago

bristol

Keep looking, you'll find one

So I'm gold dust

well I can be gold dust.. Or fairy dust..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That rules us out as we are looking for lady for threesome and are fbs..........

We looking for a lady that lives locally to have regular fun.

We are a horny sexy fb couple that have good hygiene and expect same with lady and discretion a must.

So hard on here finding a lady with all timewasters etc........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who are genuinely Bi or Gay and who are genuinely looking to spend time alone with other women, one-on-one, are very rare on here.

Many of us who have been looking for other women on here have probably given up (like me!) and now look elsewhere...

I've met some lovely women here, only to have them want to involve a man in things somewhere - not what I'm looking for!

Either I want to meet a woman, or I want to meet a man - but not both!!! I don't want to mix my pleasures, simple as that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women for women are on here, you just have to have a little bit of luck and lots of patience.

My single female friends and I are always on the look out for other single women, and yes it is so annoying when they turn round and ask for a mff 3 some

(hence why I no longer meet with couples)

Keep smiling ladies, you are in the right place

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

There are a handful of lovely ladies I message regularly...and of course I shamefully and openly as well as outrageously flirt with them in the forums...

But it took me a few months to get there....patience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to meet women too and don't feel confident enough to meet couples yet.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

Mostly contacted by the "female" part of a couple asking me to join them for FFM. I offer to allow the female to join me alone and hubby can watch on cam from their home. That doesn't go down to well lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a handful of lovely ladies I message regularly...and of course I shamefully and openly as well as outrageously flirt with them in the forums...

But it took me a few months to get there....patience!

being lovely and having a great sense of humour helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be better sites than this if you want to meet girl on girl only. Have you tried googling and see if you can find something along those lines.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"There are a handful of lovely ladies I message regularly...and of course I shamefully and openly as well as outrageously flirt with them in the forums...

But it took me a few months to get there....patience!

being lovely and having a great sense of humour helped

x "

Mwaa

right back at ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet more women one on one or in a purely female group setting. I have never met a woman off here and the ones I've spoken to in the past (like one or two) haven't been able to hold a conversation.

Always craving a woman's touch

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I welcome all messages from women but it usually ends up I'm too old or too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I exchange messages with women fairly often. Although I've met tons more guys I actually prefer bi or lesbian women. It's just much harder to find local ones I click with xx

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"I'd love to meet more women one on one or in a purely female group setting. I have never met a woman off here and the ones I've spoken to in the past (like one or two) haven't been able to hold a conversation.

Always craving a woman's touch

Same here, but a lot of the times nothing comes out of the conversation (I am talking pre-pandemic, on my old profile). Sometimes a male partner pops out all of a sudden, and she "only" meets with him, but he "only wants to watch". Sometimes it's me, getting this uneasy feeling that I can't really explain that stops me from chatting. Or, last but not least, the conversation just goes nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hard to find a girl nearby who I click with.....starts off well then messages tail off or just no attraction. All I want is some girly fun and laughs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve struggled when just looking for a girl. They always end up as not being female or just happen to have a male that wants to meet me on their own

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Have alot of women message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do chat with ladies, but very wary as most of the time they arent fab verified so worried they could be single bloke Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So hard to find a girl nearby who I click with.....starts off well then messages tail off or just no attraction. All I want is some girly fun and laughs

Ditto. Im not keen on travelling for meets but it looks like it may have to go that way because there few ladies local. X

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I can't seem to find any ladies that are local to me....

I chat with a few women but none are local to me so it just seems to be chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above really. I’ve been burnt too many times before that now it seems I almost start off any conversation with a cynical expectation that they’re really a guy or part of a couple or ,more often than not, a bot.

It’s sad really but maybe when things start to open up a bit again I might let my guard down and start conversations with a more optimistic outlook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message them not met any off here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s harder talking to women I have found than men but I have met a cpl of ladies

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We do exist but seem to be well scattered around the country.

I have a very delayed social from before Covid to rearrange, so it does happen.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I do chat with ladies, but very wary as most of the time they arent fab verified so worried they could be single bloke Px"

Yes, very much this. X

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By *lex_the_CATCouple
over a year ago

Chester

i do have a partner but i can meet totally alone with a single fem or fem half of a couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always craving a woman's touch

That sounds like something I’d like to try

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By *exywoman77Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Its always difficult to find a female who meets alone, I have sent messages, then it turns out it's a single guy

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

"I do chat with ladies, but very wary as most of the time they arent fab verified so worried they could be single bloke Px"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish we was lucky enough to be on somebodies radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.

When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.

Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

Would love to meet a local lady for some one on one fun but, despite sending messages, it is never materialised. Sometimes I just crave a womans touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.

When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.

Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?

I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I get lots of flirty, hot women in my inbox...‘I’m totally straight so not sure why haha! But I think there’s lots on here! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.

When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.

Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?

We do seem to very well spread out...

I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away? "

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.

When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.

Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?

I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away? "

YES!! I Noticed this. We aren't used to it so it's all awkward and seems harder.

I think for me I have got so used to guys being a bit more pushy/forward to take it from chatting to actually meeting, and with women we both don't want to seem pushy so noone actually moves it forward and then we both give up thinking the other can't be that interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had more success finding other women on apps like Blendr than on here

usually a few flirty chats that either go a bit too far too quick or when you ask to take the next step (other contacts, arranging to meet socially when allowed) then often don’t here from them again

not sure if its due to me being on a couples profile, the amount of messages single women get or maybe its just me (likely a mix of all 3)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES!! I Noticed this. We aren't used to it so it's all awkward and seems harder.

Perfectly summed up! If a guy fancies you he makes it plain. If I fancy a guy I’m no shrinking violet but when it comes to other women I’m worried I’ll offend them so it ends up going nowhere.

I’m looking forward to bi nights starting up again at clubs. It really is so much easier. Shame as there’s some gorgeous ladies on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do seem to very well spread out...

I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away?

In the past on the forums there have been a few attempts to sort out a night for any ladies interested in meeting but it’s never come to anything and then of course came Covid.

There’s lots of ladies that contribute to the forums that it would be great to meet in real life for various reasons

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I am looking for women too lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I MAY of had some last fun from here quite recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what happens to me a threesome is fun but it's fine for me to see a woman on my own and I'd like to.

What has happened is the woman agrees and then starts saying can my man just watch or just cum over your face

Only met one that would meet but because I'm a 15 minute drive away she said I was too far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I MAY of had some last fun from here quite recently

You guys look amazing please message if you'd like to it wouldn't let me message as I'm not a site supporter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it difficult on here

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Always craving a woman's touch

I (Luke) find this very sad and disrespectful. In my relationship with Hannah, if she finds a woman she wants to see on her own and that's clearly what the other woman wants, neither of us would dream of making any attempt to get me involved in any way. Hannah has had sex with a woman a couple of times since we've been together and I played no part in it.

I would consider it a lovely thing if Hannah saw a woman on her own if that's what they both wanted. She's unlikely to actively search for it, but if it came about through somebody else kicking things off I would be supportive without seeing it as an opportunity to muscle in on it. It would be about them, not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few lovely ladies here, plenty of fun to be had. Just need to filter through the fakes which sadly is about 8 out of 10 convos I have x

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Well we do meet women ( and the occasional elusive unicorn) The m half is happy for me to meet women alone but equally happy to watch or join in - I prefer him joining in but would consider other ways xx

I think it’s affected by wether you are truly bisexual or just curious- I like to think I’m neither - I am bi enthusiastic lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely comment Luke. It exactly sums up how we feel about this.

I have met other females at home and Abby has played no part at all. She either went out to see friends or kept a low profile downstairs.

It is possible for females to enjoy solo meets but it involves building trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nightmare...most are attached to a guy who just needs to be involved

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