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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do ppl feel about having a baby with another man to humiliate there partner. My partner loves seeing me with other men whilst he's dressed up and feminised. Something we've talked about is getting pregnant with another man and my partner living with it.. The humiliation. Its such a turn on for us both want to hear your opinions and experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you both may stop just for a second and think about the proposed child! just our opinion

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

Not the brightest of ideas when new life involved ..think about it logically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems a little extreme

child: Dad why was i born ?

Dad: because your mother likes humiliating me

Child:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems a little extreme

child: Dad why was i born ?

Dad: because your mother likes humiliating me

Child: "

great point,

and it made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually id say each to there own.

But on this occasion we'd say have a good think, this could cost your relationship.

Would you aim for a Asian gent to seed or are you happy with any ethnic/ Caucasian.

then you guys have to think about your family/friends.

then there your child in later life!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow...no words come to mind on this

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

totally over the top this is supposed to be fun love my wife with other guys but this is way to far

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

This is a joke thread, isn't it?

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By *hundercats69Couple
over a year ago

CT14

I don't think it is a joke unfortunately.... I don't get it either but i do know someone who has done it and was still meeting different men the whole way through pregnancy also. As far as i know, the child (only recently born) is going to be brought up that husband is the father.....

We have a cuckold relationship but its not a lifestyle for us its for fun. I don't think I could either lie to that child and risk the potential complications (health history etc) or tell people the truth, even with some things being more socially acceptable that's taking it a bit far!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"seems a little extreme

child: Dad why was i born ?

Dad: because your mother likes humiliating me

Child: "

Pmsl

On a serious note though, I suggest taking a step back as the others have said. Is this taking it abit too far? I think it may be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and get phsycological help. Sick pair.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cor'bloody'Blimey.....WOW!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong wrong wrong on every level...

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Go and get phsycological help. Sick pair. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sad

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

this is going waaayyyyy to far and not funny, don't do this to any child..its cruel and STUPID

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

this is going waaayyyyy to far and not funny, don't do this to any child..its cruel and STUPID

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By *uck_us_hardCouple
over a year ago

N.E Lincolnshire

Holy moley, not cool!!!???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everybody needs to calm down its a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called breeding but I don't think it actually happens. Does ur partner not produce sperm? In which case I can see why people may do this. Not very different to going to a sperm doner when couples can't naturally conceive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a joke thread, isn't it?"

I hope so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My partner can't have children. So I don't see it being any diff to going to a sperm bank.

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

Our input to this would be ... You do not start the thread as a 'fantasy'. If you want a degree of respect I would close the thread down, as the way you describe things any prospective meet may consider this to be something you actually want to achieve, potentially without their consent.

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

If you were really approaching it from an 'unable to have children' view point then in our opinion we can see this ... however it would not be something that would have any relevance to humiliation. Maybe the humiliation element as part of your meet but certainly not in the production of life. Having just had a baby and having tried for longer than we would have hoped I think you need to think long and hard how where your motivations lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is bad. We all play a game on here but that to far outside the box. What if he wanted to see u kill someone ?? Some lines are meant not to be crossed. Just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were really approaching it from an 'unable to have children' view point then in our opinion we can see this ... however it would not be something that would have any relevance to humiliation. Maybe the humiliation element as part of your meet but certainly not in the production of life. Having just had a baby and having tried for longer than we would have hoped I think you need to think long and hard how where your motivations lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is your way of bringing a new life into the world, you really do need help.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

words fail me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its a good idea at all someone else to get you pregan

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I like how first of all it was just a "fantasy" and one or two posts later the big reveal is her partner now cant have children.

The internet and sex should either be outlawed or have some sort of rigorous personality/IQ testing done before you're allowed on any sex sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All we would say its something you both should think very carefully about it and if you go ahead make sure the guy is sti etc free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many guys have pm'd offering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was reading the Guardian a few weeks ago about a web site that's been set up for people who want children by either artificial insemination or via the lady have full unprotected intercourse with the "donor" male so this kind of thing does go on.

The fact that there is a "dating" site full of people looking for a sperm donor reinforces this

However I think the subtle difference is that these people can't have babies naturally themselves and its not for sexual gratification

I won't condone your fantasy but as others have said its not going to show you in a good light and the ramifications of this on you as a couple and the prospective father would be far reaching both legally and emotionally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a fantasy and he can't have children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but wrong on all levels.

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

We have childbirth issues but this would NEVER be a option uts wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: This is the Swinging Support and Advice forum. And really, no-one is going to Support this idea.

If you want to talk about your fantasies, then post in the Stories and Fantasies forum.

If you want children but can't have them naturally with your partner, then talk to your doctor about Artificial Insemination by Donor. Screened sperm, legal ramifications fully documented etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you are seriously thinking of having a child with another man for a sexual kick then yous serious need to go and seek professional help something along the lines of a psychiatrist. A child is not an object to be used in a way for you to fulfil your fantasies. How would the child feel if they knew they were brought into the world for a awful sexual kick. It is totally sickening to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv heard off sum unhinged things but this is scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask Elton John see what he thinks

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"This is a joke thread, isn't it?"

I'm running with that!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Go and get phsycological help. Sick pair. "

Simply: this!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Everybody needs to calm down its a fantasy"

Ask admin to move it to stories and fantasies then.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"My partner can't have children. So I don't see it being any diff to going to a sperm bank."

So it's not fantasy then?!! Make your mind up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner can't have children. So I don't see it being any diff to going to a sperm bank."

I seriously think that you're massively attention seeking but I'm sure your "full

inbox" tells you otherwise...if only the block button hides your forum posts from me like it does on another site I belong to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find the reality differs immensely from the fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong in every way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do ppl feel about having a baby with another man to humiliate there partner. My partner loves seeing me with other men whilst he's dressed up and feminised. Something we've talked about is getting pregnant with another man and my partner living with it.. The humiliation. Its such a turn on for us both want to hear your opinions and experiences"

Just how fucked up are some people?

Then you go on to say its a fantasy then your partner cant have kids.

What you need to do is make your mind up first about your 'story' or 'fantasy' then post it on here. You'll have a lot more credibility that way and less people thinking you are just a sicko.

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

funny none of the so called bulls verified them on the profile probably some sad guy who has a thing for indian wemon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bizarre !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst the suggestion and idea of this sounds immoral the fantasy aspect is massive within the cuckold lifestyle, pregnancy play is just one variation on the theme.

Fantasy time is one thing, reality would be a whole different thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that anyone would have a child for any other reason than to love them unconditionally shocks me.. Children are/should not be part of some bizarre adult game

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"Its a fantasy and he can't have children."

It's a fantasy and he can't have kids!! Fantasys come and go, granted your fella may like humiliation a little now.. But for the remaining years of his life he'll have to feel that way

I'm no shrink, but seriously if you want kids together there's many other ways other than completely emasculate your man..

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