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By *Luckylad33 OP   Man
6 days ago

widnes

Why is it i don't get messages back from woman

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
6 days ago

isle of munters

A women will look at a profile and decide whether on not they will reply based on info.

If there's no information about you then you won't get replies.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
6 days ago

Manchester(ish).

No reply is a reply.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 days ago

Carlisle usually

What are you sending to them OP?

Hard to know without an idea of the content.

Though, as mentioned already, many will check a profile before opening a a message, and if the profile doesn't interest them, it would have to be an outstanding message to overlook that, if they open it at all 💜

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

Your status would put me straight off op, it's supposed to be mutual fun, not ladies entertaining you.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

Also most will delete a profile that has no public avatar.

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By *sm265Woman
6 days ago

Perthshire

Based on what is on your very limited profile, I would be very unlikely to even open a message to be honest.

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By *wingshot321.Couple
6 days ago

Nearby


"Why is it i don't get messages back from woman "

9 times out of ten they are just not looking for anything atm

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By *WANDTGCouple
6 days ago

Borough of Greenwich

As others have said silhouette profiles get blocked , if you're hiding behind that, then what else are you hiding.

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
6 days ago

x


"Why is it i don't get messages back from woman "

Honestly, the simplest answer is probably the right one: the women you're messaging aren't interested in you.

Your profile says you can't accommodate, which may put some women off, and, without seeing your messages, it's entirely possible they're just not very good.

Not every non-reply is a mystery. Sometimes you're just not what that particular woman is looking for.

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
6 days ago

London - South East and West

Out of dates photos and dirty fingers.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 days ago

Carlisle usually


"Out of dates photos and dirty fingers.

"

Oh.

I hadn't even looked.

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
6 days ago

London - South East and West


"Out of dates photos and dirty fingers.

Oh.

I hadn't even looked. "

Mrs DD notices every small detail, and I mean EVERY SMALL DETAIL..!!!

She keeps me right on my toes 🙄

Mr DD

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 days ago

Carlisle usually

No, dirty fingernails are always an instant from me. I just didn't actually bother to click on the gallery the first time around 😂💜

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
6 days ago

London - South East and West


"No, dirty fingernails are always an instant from me. I just didn't actually bother to click on the gallery the first time around 😂💜"

Who'd want dirty fingers in and around their lady parts...not me!

Mrs

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By *inkPomPomWoman
6 days ago

Isle of Man

You can't accom or travel?

Where are you planning to have sex?

You haven't put much effort into your profile, and the status of 'women come entertain me' is just grim

Hope that answers your question

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By *rectus HumongusMan
6 days ago

uranus

Am sure same person posted same thing other day

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By *Luckylad33 OP   Man
6 days ago

widnes

Thanks for that. Ive miss read this website by the comments in here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 days ago

Central

Do you genuinely believe that you are giving yourself your best shot, at letting others pick you? It's very competitive amongst single men, so the pickers will only choose a man from amongst you, if you stand out as the best fit for satisfying their needs, when they are fully attracted to him.

Nobody gets picked, when they can't find that you are right. It's your job to ensure that they know that you could be.

If in doubt it if next to nothing is given to them, people move on, to the many other messages in their inbox, or men that talk to them in clubs.

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By *igan_bi_sviewMan
5 days ago

WIGAN


"Why is it i don't get messages back from woman "

End of the day if you don't do anything for them they are not going to reply .... Ladies on here must get shit loads of messages from dick led guys .... Just accept and move on ... Don't take it personally

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By *r SensualMan
5 days ago

London

The “Need a teacher” part I’d say is probably off putting too. Don’t know many women (if any at all) who are willing to or have the bandwidth to teach anyone like that…

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually


"The “Need a teacher” part I’d say is probably off putting too. Don’t know many women (if any at all) who are willing to or have the bandwidth to teach anyone like that… "

Nah. Us women love doing unpaid mental labour for men. It's like our whole purpose in life 💜

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By *lowercandyWoman
5 days ago

Lancashire


"Thanks for that. Ive miss read this website by the comments in here

"

What were your expectations from FAB

At the end of the day we are here for many reasons, many interests and are all unique in what/who we like

A profile is basically a shop window

As a single guy there's way more of you on the site and you have to put effort in..

Consider what you were thinking would happen

Then take the rose coloured glasses of... No one is falling at anyone's feet...

However there are plenty single guys who really enjoy FAB

So it's possible

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By *eroLondonMan
5 days ago

Covent Garden


"Why is it i don't get messages back from woman"

Because no woman on here is worthy of your fine ínbòx, dear fellow.

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By *WB85Man
5 days ago

Staffordshire

No reply is a reply, just not the reply you'd like.

Keep that in your mind and it will help your mind.

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By *ore_Than_VanillaMan
5 days ago

Cheddar

To get a Reply, your profile and message needs to be better than the other 500 they got sent today.

It's that simple.

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