FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please

By *miley_charlie OP Man
7 days ago

Pendle

All advice welcome =)... Been on here over 2 years now.. had lots of views but not many replies..

Would love some feedback as to what I may be doing wrong other than not going to clubs. TYIA =)

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By *ngry IngridWoman
7 days ago

Cardigan

First thing I notice is that all your photos have emoji's across your face. If you don't want to have your face shown, just crop it out.

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
7 days ago

isle of munters

Looking for couples but then contradict yourself by only ff couple.

You don't need to write your height in your bio as it's already in the category.

Emojis are quite childish, there's other ways to block your face out.

Dick pics in private gallery leave something to the imagination.

Your into role play so maybe write more on that?

Hobbies? Non sexual interests? Something that someone might feel they could connect with?

Sorry to be harsh

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By *ollie and hughCouple
6 days ago

Leighton Buzzard

Get rid of the emojis, have full body pics, doesn't need to be naked, maybe some nice attire. Put dick pics in private gallery. Maybe make your bio a bit longer, something more about yourself as it seems a bit generic. We're all here to have fun, but what makes you stand out from all the other single guys?

Also to note, fab is heavily saturated with single men, so it's a lot more harder for your profile to stand out more. So attending socials/clubs would be best too, as word of mouth goes a long way and you can boost those verifications up.

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By *eddy- SEMan
6 days ago

eltham

I would also love some feedback from women and couples. It’s really hard to break through and getting chatting. I feel once people give me a chance I do ok, but so many messages go unread

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By *miley_charlie OP Man
6 days ago

Pendle

Not harsh and much appreciated thank you x

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By *miley_charlie OP Man
6 days ago

Pendle

Thanks for your advice =) x

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By *lowercandyWoman
5 days ago

Lancashire

"All advice welcome =)... Been on here over 2 years now.. had lots of views but not many replies..

Would love some feedback as to what I may be doing wrong other than not going to clubs. TYIA =)"

Photos: you have a whole body swap the photos for things you are willing to show instead of all the emojis, however have a face pic to at least send with a message.

You have a small age range then you have shunk the pool further by saying you want an FF couple...

The blub now is out of sync with the information above it and doesn't really say much about what you want/offer

Your profile is your shop window and if you were walking by would you stop?

Also this is my thing I really dislike the "job" excuse..

Do you message people who are seeking what you offer

Do you send an actual message or just hi, do you relate it to their profile

Have you looked at going to some of the organised socials

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By *rincessr84Woman
4 days ago

Ards area

"If you're into a bit of fun" that rules me out then, I hate fun, thats why I'm on fab

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 days ago

Carlisle usually

"You have a small age range then you have shunk the pool further by saying you want an FF couple..."

I mean, there's 107 ff couples looking to meet a man within that age range within 1500 miles, and the count cap of 300 is reached for men seeking such within 5 miles. I don't like those odds 😂

As has been said, the emojis look childish, using more body shots with the face cropped rather than pasted over would improve chances considerably.

The blurb says what the profile data does with a generic likes fun and discretion tacked on. That doesn't tell anyone anything. What do you actually want, what do you offer, what makes you stand out? If there's no information there I know I'm not going to chase, I'll just look at the profile of the next message and see if that one actually tells me anything useful in terms of compatibility and attraction 💜

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By *entlemanG8orgeMan
2 days ago

Nearby

Get rid of the smiley face!

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By *he Happy ManMan
20 hours ago

Merseyside

It never ceases to amaze me how many people ask for advice on their profile and then ignore the advice.

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