FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies Who Enjoy Foreplay

By *rchitectonic OP Man
5 weeks ago

London / Essex

I have found that women on here increasingly just want plain fucking, sometimes blindfolded rather than the intensity of kissing (though I get not everyone may be into it and some may reserve foreplay for their partners), being touched, teased, nipple fun and receiving oral sex. As a guy with a passion for giving oral and how arousing this can be, I find the idea of a fuck and go meet unappealing but I find this increasingly common now (or not exactly fuck and go but fuck only meets). Do ladies no longer enjoy foreplay?

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By *antra MassageMan
5 weeks ago

Yoniville

My experience is very different. I offer a massage, which might last 2 hours. That's 2 hours of foreplay. I'm not interested in a quick fuck. That's boring. I make it clear in my profile, and also when we meet. No woman has ever turned me down.

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By *iss DevilWoman
5 weeks ago

Bedford

I very much enjoy foreplay, a lot of my meets (particularly first time with someone new) are just foreplay, no fucking. However, I am currently not looking for anyone new.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

East Sussex

No foreplay at all just penetration?

Not for me but I'm happy for other people to enjoy things their way

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By *b03Man
5 weeks ago

Exeter

I've never had someone say no to foreplay even if it's a quick meet.

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By *oyalewithcheeseCouple
5 weeks ago

Stoke

we very much enjoy foreplay, as we like BDSM, play and rope play, we did a lot of fucking when we wear a lot younger so not top of the list, for us xx

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By *eggy 70Couple
4 weeks ago

Romford

I would love foreplay

Haven't had that for a long long time now

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By *acko452Man
4 weeks ago

maldon

Foreplay is non negotiable for me.

I get off on seeing someone caught in the moment of being pleasured

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By *ore_Than_VanillaMan
4 weeks ago

Cheddar

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By *ore_Than_VanillaMan
4 weeks ago

Cheddar

I'd find no foreplay boring, unfulfilling and I'd feel used. If you just want penetration, use a toy.

My kick is giving prolonged and varied pleasure, building over hours. I don't to one offs, I don't do quickies, I don't do vanilla and urgent penetration is definitely not my goal.

However, I don't do just vanilla and I don't judge, each to their own.

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

My journey has been the absolute opposite....far more about the foreplay, exploration and sensual aspect.

I think our profile plays a huge part on the type of person we attract.

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By *arriedfun69Man
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Love foreplay but my wife not so much and literally wants to get straight to the main event with my cock inside her & then after we finish ..she’s the ons who rolls over to sleep

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By *helroyCouple
4 weeks ago

Skegness

foreplay takes a big part of our playing wife not into fuck and go

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Maybe southern women are built different. I don't think I've found any up here that would even consider a fuck and go.

That said, if someone insists on oral as a form of foreplay, then I don't meet them.

Is it any foreplay or just women not wanting oral? The latter I can understand. Strangers slobbering down there doesn't do it for me personally. But I still enjoy a lot of foreplay 💜

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By *manteeCouple
4 weeks ago

Manchester

We much prefer a lot of kissing and foreplay as part of the build up to fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I like to explore a womans body for a little bit. Might as well stay home and have a wank otherwise

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By *rchitectonic OP Man
4 weeks ago

London / Essex

Thanks for all your responses. It must be a London thing.

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By *wingshot321.Couple
4 weeks ago

Nearby

I do like it when Mark eats my bum

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By *enninemarkMan
4 weeks ago

huddersfield/manchester

Definitely foreplay for me. Love it. The sensations the build up, the fun playing around! Can't beat it. (Well that can be part of foreplay....beating it!)

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By *otshot14Woman
4 weeks ago

tunbridge wells

Can't be foreplay,a slow build up turns me on more than sex

It's the chase the thrill

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
4 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Thanks for all your responses. It must be a London thing."

It's a London thing and also all your photos are of your cock not your tongue or lips so..........Lol!

If you present yourself as a dildo, you will be treated as a dildo.

I do not present as a hole because I'm not a hole and I don't want to be treated as one.

Some women only post their vagina dripping with cum so.........that's what blokes will expect when they turn up.

If you only post your feet expect the foot fetishists to be out in numbers.

Not yucking anyone yum but how you present yourself is how people will approach you.

I have a very nuanced way of dealing with sex and I need to be with people compatible to me in that way. It's not usually anonymous gangbangs with strangers. I need to connect in person usually. I never connect online sexually fully.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
4 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"I have found that women on here increasingly just want plain fucking, sometimes blindfolded rather than the intensity of kissing (though I get not everyone may be into it and some may reserve foreplay for their partners), being touched, teased, nipple fun and receiving oral sex. As a guy with a passion for giving oral and how arousing this can be, I find the idea of a fuck and go meet unappealing but I find this increasingly common now (or not exactly fuck and go but fuck only meets). Do ladies no longer enjoy foreplay?

I love foreplay but many men are not that good at it. Mainly because most porn doesn't show it.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
4 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"My experience is very different. I offer a massage, which might last 2 hours. That's 2 hours of foreplay. I'm not interested in a quick fuck. That's boring. I make it clear in my profile, and also when we meet. No woman has ever turned me down. "

Excellent.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Love foreplay, starting off with kissing and caressing and then moving to touch. I like it to be slow and sensual. Then leading to further. Defo not into being blind folded or just wam bam thank you mam, not our style.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
4 weeks ago

Isle of Man

I want pretty exclusively foreplay

What you describe sounds awful to me

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By *orraghCouple
4 weeks ago

Mullingar/Kildare

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By *mandasteveCouple
4 weeks ago

Enfield

I do love foreplay but sometimes you just want the cock in you.

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By *ew year new nameWoman
4 weeks ago

Bolton

I once met a bloke for a social that got very flirty so went back to his with high expectations and he went straight in, no foreplay. I was drier than popcorn by the time he'd done.🫤

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By *ur little secret 20Couple
3 weeks ago

manchester

I love foreplay 🥵

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By *essTTWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Foreplay is a must for me, especially since i like big dicks

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
3 weeks ago

If there is no foreplay I’m not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Foreplay is essential for me , I would not do anything else without it

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By *urvygalnorfolkWoman
3 weeks ago

Norfolk

Ooooh yessss!! Love it all… the kissing, the stroking, the teasing, the build up, the hot hot passion… sex isn’t all about putting the p in the v!

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
3 weeks ago

Debauchery

Very much into foreplay….. even when I’m having a quickie there is an element of foreplay first. Sometimes it can be better.

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
3 weeks ago

OP maybe it is the women you are choosing to interact with because I would say most women do want foreplay and fuck and go is rather unfulfilling.

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By *ibs4Man
3 weeks ago

Romford,poitiers france and torrevieja spain

Never heard of such a thing everyone enjoys foreplay

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By *ersatilefoxMan
3 weeks ago

Notts

Definitely exists. One of my early meetings on here was literally she walked in dropped her dress, bent over. Cock in , wanted as fast a fuck as I could, wiped and walked out.

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By *evious daveMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

how can you not have foreplay

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By *sWyldWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love it and enjoy giving it , just as much (if not more ) than receiving it. I love when it gets so intense I need him inside me but then it starts all over again. The idea of fuck and go or even a quick meet doesn't appeal to me at all. X

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By *enninemarkMan
3 weeks ago

huddersfield/manchester

I love foreplay, and that includes the conversation, the mind has to be in the right place and then the body will respond so much better. Great sex is should include the whole body and mind, that's when the pleasure is at its most intense. I especially love giving oral, but that is part of a bigger picture!

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By *aandLoCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

For us a private meet needs to involve lots of build-up and foreplay. That's a huge part of the enjoyment.

Lots of licking, sucking, nibbling, different positions and combinations, sometimes the fucking isn't even how we all cum, but another aspect of the whole time together.

Everyone has their needs and preferences though so there's a place for everyone.

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By *ongjonsliver555Man
3 weeks ago

London

Fore play has always been my favourite part, an hour or two of kissing, caressing, sucking and licking before fucking always makes for a better orgasm

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By *heSuccubusWoman
3 weeks ago

Darlington

Quick easy sex is boring and of no interest to me. Even before the foreplay I love playing with the chemistry, building tension, getting to know what makes someone tick.

I love going for coffee or sometimes dinner, and reveling in the anticipation and build up... this is probably one of the reasons why I get stood up so often! Haha

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By *alLucyCouple
3 weeks ago

Dumfries

Foreplay is a must for Lucy. She detests massage, but flirting, kissing, touching, fondling, nipple play , oral and fingering are absolutely essential to get her going.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

Everyone is different OP, I like foreplay but its not essential. In clubs ideally I like being fucked hard by different men.

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