FabSwingers.com forum: Scams

stoke

So I’ve had this before but didnt let it go as far as I did this time so this is twice this has happened.

I messaged a girl, they said they would like to see a full body naked pic in the mirror holding 3 fingers up to prove I’m real. I reluctantly did so. I was already so sceptical about this situation bc it felt just like the first time. This time I went further with it: they said the photo I sent was too blurry. I said but you can tell it’s me when u compare it to my other photos. I then explained quite a lot of things and more photos were sent all proving I was real yet she still demanded this specific photo and for it to be clear photos. I said send a photo of you holding up a fist with your tongue sticking out which she did after some time at this point I was so confused bc I was sure it was a scam but she did what I asked and to my surprise it was a pretty young girl doing a very specific thing I’d asked her to do not some middle aged Indian bloke behind a computer like I thought. So then I sent another photo of me naked and another with 3 fingers up and she didn’t accept it. she was very specific about the 3 fingers being up and it being clear the fact that she needed that specific thing so badly and couldn’t accept that I was real from the plethora of evidence I had given I had to block her,

Did I just save myself from being scammed or did I just ruin my chances with an absolutely stunning girl

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

Isn't there something about asking for pictures holding up three fingers to prove that you're not AI?

I don't know if you've missed out on your chance of meeting a woman or being scammed but I wouldn't be sending naked photos performing any action once let alone several times.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Here. There.

"Isn't there something about asking for pictures holding up three fingers to prove that you're not AI?

That’s for video. Hold up 3 fingers, or pass hand in front of face (which disrupts filters)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Isn't there something about asking for pictures holding up three fingers to prove that you're not AI?

That’s for video. Hold up 3 fingers, or pass hand in front of face (which disrupts filters) "

Ah right. Thank you

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By *itladwithstamina OP Man
5 weeks ago

stoke

But why would I have to be naked

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By *ikeandMilfCouple
5 weeks ago

somewhere

We had someone ask us for face pics before, and then said they were too blurry. (Which they weren’t at all)

Makes it hard to trust anyone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"But why would I have to be naked "

Universal mum mode activated:

That would be the question I'd be asking myself.

As a general rule don't send naked photos to anybody in which you can be identified. If you do and they ask for repeat photos it's time to end the conversation. I can't say if the person you spoke to was genuine but it's not uncommon for men to do things for an attractive woman in the heat of the moment that they wouldn't normally. Im future try to pause and think is this sensible or at the very least try to make sure it really is a gorgeous young woman who wants to meet you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

I think with getting to know and evaluate people that it's an interactive process, where you progressively reveal more of each other. This doesn't need to include any nudity

I cease contact with people, if they are unreasonable or cross my boundaries. The only important thing is that you are comfortable and consent. I leave people behind, when it's clear we are not mutually compatible, as most of us are not. Never give them another thought. Just learn what you need to, to help your future decisions

And report any one with inappropriate behaviour, though this woman may be perfect, others are not

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
5 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

"Isn't there something about asking for pictures holding up three fingers to prove that you're not AI?

I don't know if you've missed out on your chance of meeting a woman or being scammed but I wouldn't be sending naked photos performing any action once let alone several times. "

This.

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
5 weeks ago

isle of munters

"But why would I have to be naked "

Because it was a guy pretending, wanted his wank fodder and then he was done

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By *anus7Man
5 weeks ago

Chesterish

Ffs, do not show your face ,or any distinguishing marks in a photo, until you've at least met, and don't be fooled by any full face pictures the other person sends...you just don't know if it's a scam.

You're quite right to be careful

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By *WB85Man
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

A verification photo, I've always done this with people and always do it in return. From the very beginning I feel it helps to build trust.

I will ask for something random....like choose a kitchen utensil for example....and then send a picture of me holding it.

I like the idea. Some people dont like doing it in return, and to me that feels like they have something to hide....so it goes no further.

Each to their own I guess.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"A verification photo, I've always done this with people and always do it in return. From the very beginning I feel it helps to build trust.

I will ask for something random....like choose a kitchen utensil for example....and then send a picture of me holding it.

I like the idea. Some people dont like doing it in return, and to me that feels like they have something to hide....so it goes no further.

Each to their own I guess. "

But naked? Or should that be butt naked 😬

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"But why would I have to be naked "

Someone could be screenshotting them if it was on here I know there are 2 other apps that you can't screenshot off of.

Just be more vigilant

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By *WB85Man
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"A verification photo, I've always done this with people and always do it in return. From the very beginning I feel it helps to build trust.

I will ask for something random....like choose a kitchen utensil for example....and then send a picture of me holding it.

I like the idea. Some people dont like doing it in return, and to me that feels like they have something to hide....so it goes no further.

Each to their own I guess.

But naked? Or should that be butt naked 😬"

Yeah thats pushing it.

I've never asked for a naked pic.....then again, nobody has asked to see me butt naked either.

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By *ustBoWoman
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"A verification photo, I've always done this with people and always do it in return. From the very beginning I feel it helps to build trust.

I will ask for something random....like choose a kitchen utensil for example....and then send a picture of me holding it.

I like the idea. Some people dont like doing it in return, and to me that feels like they have something to hide....so it goes no further.

Each to their own I guess. "

I've nothing to hide but I wouldn't do this for anyone. They can take me or leave me but I refuse to have to prove I'm real to anyone on here and I personally find people like this to be pushy and I refuse to jump through hoops for anyone ,just like I would never ask anyone to jump through hoops for me also.

And that would be my response to the OP on here also. Why the need to jump through hoops especially when told your efforts weren't good enough anyhow .

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By *WB85Man
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"A verification photo, I've always done this with people and always do it in return. From the very beginning I feel it helps to build trust.

I will ask for something random....like choose a kitchen utensil for example....and then send a picture of me holding it.

I like the idea. Some people dont like doing it in return, and to me that feels like they have something to hide....so it goes no further.

Each to their own I guess.

And that would be my response to the OP on here also. Why the need to jump through hoops especially when told your efforts weren't good enough anyhow ."

Interesting take on my opinion.

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By *b03Man
5 weeks ago

Exeter

AI is at the stage where alot of these tricks don't akways work, really it's a game of cat and mouse these days.

Funny how the old methods are now more reliable like actually agreeing to meet in a public place are going back into vogue, eh?

With that said there's lots of idiots using obviously fake stuff that's easy to dispel or beat.

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By *ricky ToolMan
5 weeks ago

Craigavon

Had a local couple do thsi exact same thing to me last night. Very demanding about sending direct pics. Me naked with 3 fingers up, then a hard cock pic 3 fingers up, then a face pic with 2 fingers.

All to prove I'm not fake?! We'd exchanged face pics and a few videos etc. But when they started that whole 3 fingers thing I told them no, but was free anytime for coffee if they wanted proof I was real. Thi k they took it thick so doubt they'll take up my offer!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The other year I had someone demand that I prove that I'm real.

I pointed out that I've got 300 verifications.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

Google Joel Dommet catfish before you send any kind of naked photo

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By *irty130Couple
4 weeks ago

Bristol Area

Is it possible that they wanted this specific pic because they were being asked by someone else for the same thing and your pic could be forwarded on?

Like bank scammers asking for the one-time code you were sent

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Here. There.

"Is it possible that they wanted this specific pic because they were being asked by someone else for the same thing and your pic could be forwarded on?

Like bank scammers asking for the one-time code you were sent"

👆 smart thinking.

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