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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." They’re allowed to have preferences too and with the recent stories in the news of men arranging for other men to r**e their unaware wife then I don’t think a single man wanting to speak to the female of the couple is a bad thing in fact I’d say well done hes being very sensible | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." Only being able to speak to the husband is a huge 🚩 There are plenty of ‘couples’ where often it’s “only male playing” or the woman just never seems to be around but the man wants you to talk in explicit detail what you want to do to his ‘partner.’ | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." Coz they are entitled twats who don't deserve the time of day, move on and talk to the more polite and respectful guys (yes, there are some) xx | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for. Coz they are entitled twats who don't deserve the time of day, move on and talk to the more polite and respectful guys (yes, there are some) xx" Entitled because they want to speak to the female half of the couple? I would call that sensible not entitled | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." This is a simple answer as others touch on but regardless of single or couples everyone is allowed to make choice, no one is obligated to reply to anything personally a quick thanks no thanks is polite but not everyone does. Just touching on the bit about about people thinking a couples account is actually a single bloke I am very savvy spotting such accounts and there are quite a lot sadly. | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." Probably a lucky escape if thats how he behaves | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for. Coz they are entitled twats who don't deserve the time of day, move on and talk to the more polite and respectful guys (yes, there are some) xx" I think the entitled twats are those who believe that men on fab don't have options and should be grateful for any attention. I'm polite and respectful in every conversation I've ever had on fab. Unfortunately a large proportion of couples who contact me have zero respect for me as a person and I'm more than happy to block them. | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." Every time that happens I would just think well that's another dickhead we are glad we didn't meet. | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." A big fat LOL at this post… yes, any man is well within his rights to hit that block button on someone he doesn’t feel compatible with, the same you’d exercise the same action if the roles were reversed. Me personally I’m not meeting no couple on my own without any prior conversation with BOTH halves of the couple. | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for. A big fat LOL at this post… yes, any man is well within his rights to hit that block button on someone he doesn’t feel compatible with, the same you’d exercise the same action if the roles were reversed. Me personally I’m not meeting no couple on my own without any prior conversation with BOTH halves of the couple. " This. I'm not even a single guy but phew the venom. | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for. A big fat LOL at this post… yes, any man is well within his rights to hit that block button on someone he doesn’t feel compatible with, the same you’d exercise the same action if the roles were reversed. Me personally I’m not meeting no couple on my own without any prior conversation with BOTH halves of the couple. This. I'm not even a single guy but phew the venom. " Some believe these things don’t apply or they’re exempt from having it happen to them. To say I’m surprised would be a lie because I’ve been here long enough and seen it all. Have had meets in the past where the pre meet comms was all with the male half & they’ve not been overly enjoyable for one reason or another. | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for. Every time that happens I would just think well that's another dickhead we are glad we didn't meet. " I don't think a man blocking because only the male half of a couple is talking on the profile makes him a dickhead. In fact I think it actually shows intelligence and shows they are someone who actually cares about consent from the woman involved. And he isn't walking in to a set up like so many men on here try to do with their partners. | |||
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"The filtering options on here are limited - you can hotlist people you're interested in but there's no way to mark profiles that weren't interested or didn't reply so if you don't want your search results repeatedly showing people who won't reply/meet then the only option is to block. Single guys (in our experience) predominantly want to hook up so it makes sense not to filter out by whatever means available. On other sites we've used they have a thumb up / thumb down option that is not visible to the other party unless both parties Thumbs Up each other. Kinda miss that on Fabs." When on a profile, click menu and your private notes. It allows you to leave a notes as to why they arent suitable. Its often easier to just block. | |||
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"What’s with single guys on fab eh, blocked because we don’t just agree to meet them within 5 minutes of chatting and because my wife prefers husband to do the talking and finding a few suitable guys that have what we are looking for." Know what you mean. We constantly get messages from single guys saying things like 'I'm available, wanna fuck now?' Like their doing us a big favour. Mostly I do ignore them, but every now and then I do get back to them an ask if that line has ever worked for them in the past and also say that we are looking to meet up, but with a message like that it definitely won't be them. So far none of them have ever got back to me on if it works n some of them do block us. We just put it down to guys wanking on their phones. | |||
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