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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a single parent and so can only meet during the day mainly I can meet evenings but its rare due to getting babysitters I know this will cut my chances of a meet down but there is not much I can do about that, I am thinking of adding something like due to being a single parent I can mainly only meet during the day, is it best to have that on there or leave it out? also is it ok to put your personal interests on so people know a bit about your personality and your interests or just stick to putting what you are looking for, Thanks

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

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Lots of single parents out there, male and female so highlighting this on your profile would I think be useful as some would presume you may be playing away from home. I think a little of what you like and dislike also will help on your profile. Happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can ever put too much information on your profile, I think it saves wasting peoples time, our own profile is testament to that and although some probably think it's too much like reading a book we get many comments supporting it.

Your single parent status is important, personally when we see a single guy who only meets daytimes we automatically assume that he is "playing away" we know we are occasionally wrong but for us better to be safe than sorry, we just will not play with anyone who is cheating on a partner be they male or female.

Interests are important to us too, we like to see what people are looking for before we contact them, it saves wasting time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i met a profile being so honest and open i wud def read it , rather than a 2 liner.....xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you say interests and likes and dislikes do you mean things in the bedroom or life away from swinging like for example I love top designer clothes, goin to watch the football with the lads politics, career stuff etc etc or is ok best to put both ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put it all in!! the more people read the more they can decide if you the kind of person they want to meet and shows your capable of more than just sex and can hold a conversation etc! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I don't if someone wants just sex but I prefer a good conversation also and get to know at least a bit 1st I think I will put everything and be totally honest up front and open then they will know if we might get on ok even put what my job is where I like to holiday music interests how many kids I have etc what do you think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

save that for when your chattin!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"save that for when your chattin!! xx

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good point , thanks also I meant to say I don't mind If only want sex but prefer conversation also ! Thanks for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a wee look at your profile it looks fine!! if u want to add the bit about your home circumstances to explain why you can only meet at certain times then thats fine!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The beauty of sites like this is you can find like minded people. Some people don't want to know the names of their playmates let alone if they prefer tea to coffee. If you are looking for more than a poke it's good to put some info on what you like on your profile.

As a single man I think it's imperative to point out you're a single parent hence can only meet during the day as others have stated the assumption will be you're married and playing away.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"had a wee look at your profile it looks fine!! if u want to add the bit about your home circumstances to explain why you can only meet at certain times then thats fine!! xx

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oh thanks I am going to try and do a bit more work on it I thinks it's only fair to say when I can meet an about the kids don't wanna waste Anyones time or mine any tips on how to make it stand out I was thinking of becoming site supporter an changing my user name as I don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i honestly think its fine!! its certainly a lot more detailed than the usual profiles xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i honestly think its fine!! its certainly a lot more detailed than the usual profiles xx"
thanks for your help

if anyone else wants to have a look and let me know great the more feedback the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am a single parent too and i know where your coming from. And there is something naughty about daytime meets. and love having de ja vu in the play ground other parents think im crazy when im there giggling with my legs twitching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am a single parent too and i know where your coming from. And there is something naughty about daytime meets. and love having de ja vu in the play ground other parents think im crazy when im there giggling with my legs twitching."
yeah it puts me on a high for rest of the day and my energy level is the best during the day as I don't do a physical job

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