FabSwingers.com forum: Single success on fab / what’s working for you guys?

By *ezza226 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Town

Hey everyone,

Been on Fab a while now and honestly can't complain, had plenty of really good meets and met some lovely people so far.

Just always trying to improve my game really and make sure I'm doing things right. For me it’s usually just about being upfront, not being a pushy prick, and just keeping it super chilled.

Wanted to see what everyone else's experience is like lately?

Couples - what actually makes a single stand out to you in the inbox? Like what's an instant green flag?

Other singles - what’s your number one rule for vetting people so you don't waste your time?

Keen to hear what everyone thinks anyway, couples, guys, girls, whoever. Cheers!

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By *ightDesiresCouple
3 weeks ago

Northampton

For us and we like messages from a a single guy who addresses us as a couple and not just focusing on Missy , the message shows they have clearly read our profile, they don't send a dick pic and are just genuinely being nice and respectful , doesn't need to be a long message by any means a nice introduction is what we like , we will 9/10 always reply to these messages even if it's a no thanks.

We feel if someone has actually taken the time and effort to write us a decent message we at least owe them a response even if we aren't interested .

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By *erdyguy45Man
3 weeks ago

Solihull/milton keynes & other

Have to admit same here and really enjoying the scene.

For me socials have been the biggest success and a lot of fun. Attending those events does so much more than just being on Fab, and meeting face to face in no pressure environment makes it so easy to connect and make contacts.

I prefer to meet regular with connects but not adverse to one time meets as well.

Males moan so much that it's hard on here but don't realise that there needs to be some effort put in and thought.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
3 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Congrats on your excellent time had

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Men gotta start reading profiles tbh

Most of my conversations die in the water because men don't pay attention to location etc

Everytime I message I guy first I get aired

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By *heTattooedDomMan
3 weeks ago

Winnersh

I go to socials without any expectations and chat to people.

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By *lim_bbcMan
3 weeks ago

barking

I always try to have a friendly phone with the couple it shows that youre normal and sane

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Everytime I message I guy first I get aired "

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Apologies, I'm not familiar with that term — what does it mean that you get "aired"?

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By *rad670Man
3 weeks ago

South Lakes

You have to address couples as two people, be respectful, curb bad and explicit language and be prepared to send more than a line of message when trying to have a conversation.

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