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By *he2ofus2026 OP   Couple
2 days ago

Ebrington

We are new to this and looking for my first lady to have a play with.

Does admitting this is my first rodeo put people off?

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By *omingo77Man
2 days ago

preston

We all have to start somewhere , don’t worry about it to much just go with the flow . Everything happens for a reason

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By *maginitivemindMan
2 days ago

notts

Just try things out and when you find out what hits the spot enjoy the ride if that not mixing too many metaphors

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, some bi ladies won't want to be a first, some will..so it depends on the lady.

The main thing I'd say is you don't have any pics of the man on your profile.

If he's involved, you would be best to add some pics of him too. Is he only going to watch or will he be joining you?.Maybe be clear on that in your bio and what any lady who meets you could expect.

Bi women are the most sought after people on here, so it's not easy to attract them apparently.

Lots of couples/men want an ffm, so you do need to stand out and show both of you off.

The best advice I've seen on threads like this, is go to a club. It seems to be easier to connect and meet ladies there, rather than just using fab.

Good luck.

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By *inkerbell_and_silverfoxCouple
2 days ago

London

Not at all - we were swinging and bi newbies once - hope you find some playmates and enjoy yourselves

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 days ago

Carlisle usually

I mean, it puts me off personally, but will it put all women off? Probably not, plenty want to experiment.

The only way to change it is to find someone who doesn't mind it 💜

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By *WB85Man
2 days ago

Staffordshire

I prefer people to go out and explore a little first before I get involved.

I've seen people arguing before during and after a first meet when things haven't been discussed properly. I don't wish to be part of that.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
2 days ago

Bognor Regis

I've been a first for a few couples before and I'm not so keen myself.

There are some that don't mind though.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 days ago

Midlands

No, it's exciting taking a womans bi cherry.

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By *he2ofus2026 OP   Couple
2 days ago

Ebrington


"No, it's exciting taking a womans bi cherry."

Gutted we were debating The Attic last night but didn't go, what a missed opportunity potentially.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
2 days ago

Sheffield

We do all have to start somewhere yes, been honest is important though.

It’s not something I’d want to delve into with the woman of a couple. But I’m sure there are some women that would be comfortable with that.

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By *aandLoCouple
2 days ago

Southampton


"We are new to this and looking for my first lady to have a play with.

Does admitting this is my first rodeo put people off?"

I've certainly found there's quite a lot of reticence on Fab from experienced bi ladies about meeting me as a 'beginner.'

However, in clubs chatting to women and couples it's not been an issue for FF play as part of a couple swap/group play. Perhaps that might be a good way to start for you. xx

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