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By *heekycppl2016 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Worthing

Hi. Ok so have tried a few devices. When taking off there is sometimes red marks from chastity cage where hubby has got hard, tried device with slit in the end and that leaves an indent for a couple of days. Also when getting aroused in cage it pulls the hole thing including base ring forward. Is this normal? If use smaller base ring hubby’s balls change colour. Also metal vs plastic and what size. 5 inch hard 2 inch flaccid ( sometimes and inch ) x

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By *liceWalkerTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Nuneaton

In my experience in a past life it is very likely to happen that it pulls away like that , many now either but a specially designed belt to hold it closer or you can just use like ribbons for the same effect .

Long time use is going to leave marks, due to the pressure especially if he enjoys it lol .

This is probably outdated info tho it's been a while since I dabbled and its a belt I used now not a cage .

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By *heekycppl2016 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Worthing

Thanks x

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By *aul_the_nudist_cuckMan
4 weeks ago

WREXHAM

My dick is not even 1 inch so I don't have that trouble with it moving

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By *otmyrealnameistakenMan
4 weeks ago

Kent


"Also metal vs plastic and what size. 5 inch hard 2 inch flaccid ( sometimes and inch ) x"

My advice would be to go for a metal cage, i've found these to be more comfy and better for hygiene, i began with a plastic cage, got smelly after a couple of days and it broke too.

I'd say if he's 2" flacid you'd probably want a cage about 1 3/4". Personally i find i simply cannot get hard in my cage so i don't have those issues you wrote about.

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
4 weeks ago

East Anglia

my man is caged permanent it took a lot of fitting different sizes etc to get it right

I used to strap him to a cross and really get him hard to check for pull off

He says it’s morning wood that was problem but now fitted correct all hood

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By *otfunx1Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

All comes down to being correct fit, to prevent any chance or erection or arousal. We are looking a nub one next as think current one is starting to get to big

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
4 weeks ago

East Anglia

I use a nub occasionally on him

Sometimes he has a cage on that allows him a bit of growth but it’s loaded with very sharp spikes lol

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By *heekycppl2016 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Worthing

Is it normal for ring to pull forwards when excited

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By *otfunx1Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Is it normal for ring to pull forwards when excited "
yeh if you can get excited at all it pulls forward. Its why our next cage will be smaller as think getting to small for currant one

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
4 weeks ago

East Anglia

Yes but correct fitting stops a lot of it along as you can’t slip out naughty boy x

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By *heekycppl2016 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Worthing

Oh can’t slip out. Do get ted marks that last a few days after when taken off after evening of teasing and denial. Yet to cum in it though x

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
4 weeks ago

East Anglia

My man has been caged well over a year now we both love it I am his Dom but he is my boss at work lol

His cum is through pegging to keep him healthy

I do occasionally change the cage he doesn’t do it

Longest he has been out as such was one night but he was fully restrained I fancied just a naked body next to me with a morning wood to then ice and cage lol

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By *olcuckcplMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I can’t get hard when in my cage! I think there is is also something psychological about being caged

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By *w_cuckCouple
3 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

It took me trying quite a few different cages until I found the right one that I could wear for most occasions.

Try wearing a chastity belt to stop the cage moving when getting erect. But in time you will be able to control not getting and erection.

Stick with it as the pleasure is amazing when you get the right cage

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By *issymimiMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I can’t get hard in my cage. I’ve got a cag-ink - remote controlled, electric shock cage which is thrilling and sensitive. I enjoy having the control over locking / unlocking by my master or owner. X

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By *entCplBayCouple
2 weeks ago

Herne Bay

Very naughty but totally erotic


"My man has been caged well over a year now we both love it I am his Dom but he is my boss at work lol

His cum is through pegging to keep him healthy

I do occasionally change the cage he doesn’t do it

Longest he has been out as such was one night but he was fully restrained I fancied just a naked body next to me with a morning wood to then ice and cage lol "

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By *otfunx1Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Its most intense orgasm when she makes me cum from pegging while caged

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bolton

You can buy an elastic "belt" which has a press stud at each end, you feed that through the cage one end then go around the back of your waist then feed it through the cage at that end also, snap the press studs shut and it helps keep the cage in place x this will also prevent the cage from sneaking forward when poor cucky gets the urge to fight the restraint lol x message me if you need a pic of what I mean x

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By *ameshelenCouple
2 weeks ago

London

seeking advise on citable cock cages--please message us

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By *oundwifesCouple
2 weeks ago

london

I e used one for a few years it does leave marks but they do fade

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By *heekycppl2016 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Worthing

Who has successfully managed to get someone to cum in there chastity cage x

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
2 weeks ago

Newport

Metal ones are too heavy and always slid off when getting hard. The cockring size is important and found that softer plastic ones are better and don't leave marks as much. House of denial is a good place to look

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By *dris1980Man
2 weeks ago

Tonbridge

I’ve never had a plastic one as I was advised that they can crack/break and therefore always had metal ones. The most important aspect is to get the base correct. If you get one thats the right size/diameter nothing should slip off.

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By *ouple4bullsCouple
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

My husbands cage is pinching

At the balls and they change colour. We want to have him wearing it longer, how can we fix that?

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By *otfunx1Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Who has successfully managed to get someone to cum in there chastity cage x"

Yeh while being pegged

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By *dris1980Man
2 weeks ago

Tonbridge


"My husbands cage is pinching

At the balls and they change colour. We want to have him wearing it longer, how can we fix that?"

I’d say you need to go up a size if it pinched and restricts blood flow to the balls.

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By *heekycppl2016 OP   Couple
1 week ago

Worthing

Are cheap cages just as good as the top end prices.

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By *ottsguy40Man
1 week ago

kirkby in ashfield


"Are cheap cages just as good as the top end prices."

Can be just make sure there made of the right material

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By *heekycppl2016 OP   Couple
1 week ago

Worthing

Have a cheap one off an online one, seems comfy, but looking at replacing with a Hera for long term wear. Or is cheap ok for long term x

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By *issandSub77Couple
1 week ago

Wakefield


"Have a cheap one off an online one, seems comfy, but looking at replacing with a Hera for long term wear. Or is cheap ok for long term x"

Hera cages are awesome.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
1 week ago

Leeds


"Hi. Ok so have tried a few devices. When taking off there is sometimes red marks from chastity cage where hubby has got hard, tried device with slit in the end and that leaves an indent for a couple of days. Also when getting aroused in cage it pulls the hole thing including base ring forward. Is this normal? If use smaller base ring hubby’s balls change colour. Also metal vs plastic and what size. 5 inch hard 2 inch flaccid ( sometimes and inch ) x"

We have same problem, ours is a plastic one and the ring is either too tight or slips off. Haven’t found anything better yet but let us know what you find please x

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By *ustcyberMan
7 days ago

North Herts


"Have a cheap one off an online one, seems comfy, but looking at replacing with a Hera for long term wear. Or is cheap ok for long term x"

Love my Hera and my Cobra, both great for long term wear. I also have a knock off Holy Trainer which, with regular cleaning is fantastic.

Note to everyone asking, you do need to experiment to find what works for you. Ironically cheaper cages often come with multiple base rings - worth experimenting with them. Smaller cages often work better than cages with room to grow. It’s amazing what you can fit in with a bit of patience. If you’re trying to cage whist hard it’s never easy. Take time to relax or use a bag or peas to accelerate the situation. Take a break if you get sore or irritation. Clean regularly, can be fun when supervised. Good luck!

Always happy for messages.

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By *ameshelenCouple
7 days ago

London

Appreciate chat and advise on sene ting suitable cock cage

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By *ustcyberMan
7 days ago

North Herts


"Appreciate chat and advise on sene ting suitable cock cage "

Looks like men are blocked - feel free to DM

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