FabSwingers.com forum: Women's past lovers

By *dnfuntimes OP Man
4 days ago

Langley

Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lasphemousGirlWoman
4 days ago

Cambs

What in the 1950s nonsense is this?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Secret OnesCouple
4 days ago

Nottingham

No. I like and enjoy knowing about my wifes previous partners and people she meets

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arysueCouple
4 days ago

West Wales

Its a swinging site , of course ive met many many men with my husbands knowledge

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heonixrising500Man
4 days ago

Barnsley

I prefer a woman with experience

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
4 days ago

Bristol/ Daventry

If people have a problem with my past they’re not for me. Equally if they think I’ll ever be monogamous they’re not for me. I won’t even date someone who wants anything but ethical non-monogamy. It’s not the American 1950s, a very specific and atypical moment in time that seems to be fetishised at the moment.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otfunx1Man
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Can tell she was experienced when we got together. Said she had been with 5 other guys but i think its few more. Said some were 1 offs after night out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
4 days ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"Can tell she was experienced when we got together. Said she had been with 5 other guys but i think its few more. Said some were 1 offs after night out"

Who cares and why does it matter? She’s the same person.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
4 days ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Also, women who have experience is a good thing. They have had others and still choose you. Inexperienced women might wonder what if, and feel like they’re losing out if the partner isn’t great.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *acky RacersCouple
4 days ago

Lincoln

"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"

Only if they're marrying inadequate men who shame them about embracing their sexuality...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dnfuntimes OP Man
4 days ago

Langley

Just be honest I say. Always the best way.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *DerryMan
4 days ago

Dublin/Derry/Belfast

I would assume everyone tells the truth as it’s nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about no matter what it is

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex

I don't, I can't because I don't know. 🤷‍♀️.

If someone asked me I'd tell them to mind their own business anyway, it's got nothing to do with them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
4 days ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"Just be honest I say. Always the best way. "

Says the married man on fab…. Trying to even the score perhaps?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orthfieldsNickMan
4 days ago

West London

Someone once told me to double what a woman tells you and half what a man says.

I don’t really care either way, and haven’t even kept count myself recently

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *p478Man
4 days ago

norfolk

I dont care how many my fb has had, more the better. I love hearing about it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *WB85Man
4 days ago

Staffordshire

Its irrelevant.

I hate discussions about body counts and all that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ervyplumberMan
4 days ago

hartlepool

Love my wife telling me about past lovers good or bad

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xSirenaxxWoman
4 days ago

Gloucestershire

No longer married .... Why would I bother lying, if a man can't cope with me having previous lovers then he is too insecure and not welcome in my bed.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herrybakewellCouple
4 days ago

Staffordshire

We've both had more lovers since we've been married than prior.

Jay finds it a hilarious fact that he likes to share.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reakishly HungMan
4 days ago

London

Why wouldn't you prefer a woman with experience?

The sex is always way better!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
4 days ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"No longer married .... Why would I bother lying, if a man can't cope with me having previous lovers then he is too insecure and not welcome in my bed. "

This this this this. No one has the time to nurse a fragile ego.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nourtimeMan
4 days ago

london

My ex had fucked almost everyone !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riel13Woman
4 days ago

Northampton

I am all for people not wanting to be with someone else due to body count but being a dick about it, once you have split up is just childish and why some people lie... Until people can take truth, lies will be told

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
4 days ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

I don’t think body count matters at all, I’ve slept with men who have been with lots of girls, yet their performance was shocking. Slept with men who have only have a few and they have been incredible.

Given we are on a swingers site surely people’s body count goes up all the time…

The only down side I guess to a high body count is if you never moved away and bump into past partners or lovers!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 days ago

Newry

"I don't, I can't because I don't know. 🤷‍♀️.

If someone asked me I'd tell them to mind their own business anyway, it's got nothing to do with them "

👆 This

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 days ago

wonderland.

"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"
my husband was first attracted to me due to me being a greedy girl. He knows I have no clue as to the actual number just that its easily in thr thousands. But 30 years of gangbangs will do that lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilva69Man
3 days ago

stockport

Very guarded in details I found

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riel13Woman
3 days ago

Northampton

Might aswell tell the truth... Someone who couldn't handle your truth isn't for you, right? Lying and being with someone you don't trust sounds a bit more shit than the alternative

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eepshow1Man
3 days ago

London

I love a woman who likes a lot of cock and is quiet open about it. We're only here once so may as well get stuck in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ourpornfixMan
2 days ago

East Cheshire

"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"

About the same percentage as men who lie about how many women they have slept with, although women claim fewer and men claim more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elightfulMan
2 days ago

Ipswich /Colchester

The more the merrier. I love hearing about my wife's previous men.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 days ago

Glos

No why should I?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lex.and.SexCouple
2 days ago

Bedale/Leeds/Stanley

Some do. Some don't.

The old rule of three probably holds some truth for non-lifestyle people.

Why a swinger ever would is beyond me though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mizhereMan
2 days ago

Thame and surrounds

Ex never did

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilady_cncWoman
2 days ago

Swadlincote

"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"

Asking body count is a fast way to a block.

It's irrelevant and if it does matter to you, you are very much on the wrong site

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * L RipleyWoman
2 days ago

Buckinghamshire

OP, all women are different and are not a hive mind. I've never dated anyone who has asked me, but if the question arose;

a) I genuinely have no idea, and

b) it's literally none of their business.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 days ago

Central

There's no difference between all genders and nobody should be given shame, for having a fully natural and healthy sexual interest.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enelope2UWoman
2 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"

No because it's irrelevant I've slept with plenty and some I'd repeat on an instant some lied simply to fuck so has nothing to do with me. If a guy asked how many were honest great guys. What made them stand out then I'd give too fucks... otherwise it's irrelevant and useless to know.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *othario lMan
1 day ago

Burnley

My OH has told me quite a lot about her past conquests as it turns us on and quite a few are on her socials.

One kept asking her out for a drink, and as we are honest and open about these things, she told me about it and their past dynamic. We chatted and we agreed it could be fun to take him up on his offer, believe me it certainly was.

As some have said, its about trust and being secure, and it benefits our relationship.

I dont understand squashing a woman sexual energy when it should be encouraged to be expressed.....call me old fashioned haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ayd100Man
1 day ago

clitheroe

"Also, women who have experience is a good thing. They have had others and still choose you. Inexperienced women might wonder what if, and feel like they’re losing out if the partner isn’t great."
Exactly ,wife had only ever been with me, she always said she was curious and eventually did the deed with someone else,she never looked back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *teve miller200Man
1 day ago

manchester

My wife had two other guys before me. Love her talking about their cocks. One I know now and every time I chat I think…. You have fkd my wife mmmm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eautifully TwistedWoman
1 day ago

Bognor Regis

No I don't lie because I'm not ashamed.

Not sure why it's important though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sm265Woman
1 day ago

Perthshire

I dont lie about it. But I also dont generally feel the need to tell anyone how many people I've slept with.

Historically women were shamed for having had multiple partners, whilst men were often applauded. Sadly that is still sometimes the case.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread