FabSwingers.com forum: new male can't seem to meet

By *iscreetL OP Man
5 days ago

Blackpool

hi guys I have been on this site for a while and I don't seem to get any messages of anyone who is serious any help would be much appreciated Blackpool

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By *WB85Man
5 days ago

Staffordshire

Theres lots of similar threads and your profile is similar.

No profile pic for many is a no. It doesn't have to be your face....just something fun and friendly.

2 public pics....both your dick. Is that all you have to offer?

Very basic bio...doesn't really sell yourself and the 420 reference may not help.

Seriously though....treat fab like a regular dating site, you wouldn't have your dick on public show there.

Good luck.

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By *issmorganWoman
5 days ago

Calderdale innit

So all we know is you're 420 friendly, 21 and have a penis op.

Would you meet yourself based on that?.

The warning at the end, is as long as what you've written.

It needs other pics and more info.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
5 days ago

Essex

You ignored all the advice given in the other thread you started even after someone said you’ll be back asking why you’re not getting any meets.

Your profile is terrible do better before you start trying to contact people.

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By *harAndBryCouple
5 days ago

Downham Market

"hi guys I have been on this site for a while and I don't seem to get any messages of anyone who is serious any help would be much appreciated Blackpool "

You've literally been given the answers both here and in your previous post. You're now showing yourself as someone that can't be bothered to put any effort in at all.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 days ago

Didcot

"hi guys I have been on this site for a while and I don't seem to get any messages of anyone who is serious any help would be much appreciated Blackpool "

Drop the 420 reference for a start, I'm surprised Fabswingers allows mention of illegal substances, or at least slang terms for them, Fabguys has a zero tolerance policy, even mention of legal highs are banned.

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By *onyHoveMan
5 days ago

North East

Read similar threads...you will find plenty of sage advice throughout

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By (user no longer on site)
5 days ago

Your profile is rubbish it says and shows nothing except you are 21, you smoke and have a cock.

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By *rectus HumongusMan
5 days ago

uranus

With you being on the site a while you should know the score regarding amount of males to females.

Not exactly rocket science and to see the problem.

Males are like a tiny fish in the ocean.

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By *rectus HumongusMan
5 days ago

uranus

"Your profile is rubbish it says and shows nothing except you are 21, you smoke and have a cock."

Well said, as a male myself it does my head in the same questions by men

Just wish they read the multitude threads on this topic.

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By *rectus HumongusMan
5 days ago

uranus

"hi guys I have been on this site for a while and I don't seem to get any messages of anyone who is serious any help would be much appreciated Blackpool

You've literally been given the answers both here and in your previous post. You're now showing yourself as someone that can't be bothered to put any effort in at all."

I guess based on the o p starting same thing time after time perhaps he needs help from mummy how to converse with women😄

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By *ink vixenCouple
5 days ago

Medway

It certainly is a mystery and there’s literally nothing you can do about it is there?

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By *onyHoveMan
5 days ago

North East

It's crazy.

If there's something that piques my interest here I do a forum search and have a read. It's always illuminating.

There's a wealth of great information on them there pages!

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By *ndy_blue_eyesMan
5 days ago

Dewsbury

Ye I'm afraid it's not a great bio might appeal to a 20 year old idk but your looking upto age 40 just can't see it working for a lady old enough to be your mum.

Do a local search who's near without filters this might give you some answers. I did one recently 1 female 3 couples 4tv and 53 guys. Not great for a average guy

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By *lan157Man
5 days ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Here is what you do OP. You get yourself a regular girlfriend and you suggest to her that you should try swinging. She agrees and you go off to clubs and meet meet other people and your swinging. Much easier than being a single man on fab .

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By *iss DevilWoman
5 days ago

Bedford

OP, I'm not going to repeat what others said, but I have one question- did you go to the event at Club Play that you asked to be added to the list for? If yes, ask the club/host to verify you, as that is going to help, to some extent. Your profile does need a lot of work, and many people on here would not want a 21 year old anywhere near them as they may have kids your age, or look for more mature people.

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By *ornyste 1000Man
4 days ago

Durham Langley Park

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By *oobsAreMyKryptoniteMan
4 days ago

Bicester

Am I the only one who read this and checked out his profile, and was confused - where does it say he's had a penis operation?

"So all we know is you're 420 friendly, 21 and have a penis op."

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
4 days ago

isle of munters

"Am I the only one who read this and checked out his profile, and was confused - where does it say he's had a penis operation?

So all we know is you're 420 friendly, 21 and have a penis op."

Lol OP is opening post, op is opening poster

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By *eeshellsCouple
4 days ago

Reading

To put it bluntly: You haven't bothered with your profile, so why would we even bother replying to you?

Are your messages as lacking in content as your profile?

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By *ornyste 1000Man
15 hours ago

Durham Langley Park

Any advice are is it me

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