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"Condoms and lube" Possibly a little blue pill help too. | |||
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"Make sure boundaries are discussed properly and they get respected. People misunderstand the term used and expect nothing is off limits. " Yes that’s has been discussed but will again on the night there are clear and easy to follow rules | |||
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"Condoms and lube Possibly a little blue pill help too. " I didn’t even think of a blue pill never used one before 😖 | |||
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"I’ve participated in a couple of group sessions. My advice would be to relax and enjoy it. It’s completely different to what you see in porn, all mine have been very chilled, respectful and sexy. It’s a wonderful uplifting, liberating and joyful experience so I really hope you enjoy it " That’s exactly what I was looking for! | |||
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"I’ve participated in a couple of group sessions. My advice would be to relax and enjoy it. It’s completely different to what you see in porn, all mine have been very chilled, respectful and sexy. It’s a wonderful uplifting, liberating and joyful experience so I really hope you enjoy it " It's really refreshing to hear a guy describe a sexual experience in this way  | |||
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"Been invited to a group meet mainly a couple of guys with one women to be ‘used’ and possibly another couple What would advice would you give someone going to one of these situations for the first time What should a person bring etc " I generally list it out like: Boundaries and hard limits Protection expectations (open to redicuss and flexible to change) Who is allowed to participate and who isn't Whether photos/videos are strictly prohibited Consenting (not trying to hurt anyone ) For new groups: Arriving with an open mind but low expectations (as a previous member stated, this is not like a porn studio , there'll be nerves, last minute cancellations etc ) Taking time to observe before participating Having your own transport home if possible or pre arranged transport home (let's make sure we arrive and leave together and safely) Having a check-in plan with a trusted friend or partner of the group For things to bring: Protection Test results Hygiene wipes Change of clothes Toilet utilities Phone charger lol | |||
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"Unfortunately it got canceled but thanks for all the advice! All solid bits of advice to remember for next time " Blue pill is not a bad shout even if you’ve not required one in the past. We went to a group meet and for the first time ever I got stage fright!! The more I fought it the worse it got. Never had that problem since and the Lloyd’s pharmacy own brand sindenafil (spelt that wrong for sure) are as good as the branded ones. | |||
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"Been invited to a group meet mainly a couple of guys with one women to be ‘used’ and possibly another couple What would advice would you give someone going to one of these situations for the first time What should a person bring etc " Make sure it's not a scam. Do not send money to anyone. | |||
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