FabSwingers.com forum: First time bottom

By *anmol OP Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

About to experience my first time at being bottom for a bi couple. A bit apprehensive. Bit worried it could go wrong - but feeling very horny at the thought of it. Came close once during a naturist massage but never quite happened. Any thoughts on making it a positive experience?

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4 weeks ago

Have you had practice with toys? Butt plugs, dildos etc? I’d recommend that first to see how you feel.. then plenty of lube.. douching first too.. and make sure you trust the guy to stop pushing in when you say stop.. it has to be slow and careful to start with.

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By *anmol OP Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Had a partner who enjoyed it more than vaginal sex. I was mainly top. She used a butt plug and vibrator on me once. The vibrator was painful - and a bit messy. But remember the experience being very pleasurable- which has led me to where I an now.

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, don't expect to be able to take cock straight away, without any prep. Pop*ers may help relax you a bit, but don't even think of using any numbing cream there, that's a recipe for disaster. As the previous poster has said, make sure the other guy is aware it's your first time, and make sure you can trust him to go slow. Find a position that's comfortable - doggy might be good, or going on top of him as then you'd be controlling how deep he can go. Use plenty of lube. And if it gets painful/uncomfortable, just stop.

Have fun.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
4 weeks ago

rochdale

Practice!

Then practice again. Build up to it with toys & plugs until you're comfortable and relaxed.

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By *anmol OP Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Thanks. I suspect we will play with a few toys first. Ease into it. The female partner has a small strap-on. We will probably that first.

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By *anmol OP Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Thanks - I’m sure it will be fun - whatever happens.
"OP, don't expect to be able to take cock straight away, without any prep. Pop*ers may help relax you a bit, but don't even think of using any numbing cream there, that's a recipe for disaster. As the previous poster has said, make sure the other guy is aware it's your first time, and make sure you can trust him to go slow. Find a position that's comfortable - doggy might be good, or going on top of him as then you'd be controlling how deep he can go. Use plenty of lube. And if it gets painful/uncomfortable, just stop.

Have fun. "

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
3 weeks ago

London - South East and West

How did it go?

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By *ecretpantyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

lisburn

Yes interested to see how it felt.

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By *exyPlayTimeWoman
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Hope it went ok and you had lots of fun! I always find that sleeping with a trainer butt plug in place the night before makes it easier xx

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By *anmol OP Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"How did it go?

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hi it went well. Painful at first then very pleasurable - sometimes almost too pleasurable. Felt a bit worried about emptying my bowels, but apparently that feelings quite common. Loved receiving oral while being fucked. Never cum so hard before. Will definitely be trying again.

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By *anmol OP Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"How did it go?

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hi, it went well - see above 👆🏻

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By *anmol OP Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Hope it went ok and you had lots of fun! I always find that sleeping with a trainer butt plug in place the night before makes it easier xx

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. That’s a good idea. We used toys before the main event, which I think made things easier.

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