FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong

By *teph199 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Watford

Been on this site for a while now

Just finding it really hard to get a meet I find I don’t either get no reply or on odd occasion I do and start chatting get ghosted

I am never rude or offensive tend to be pretty honest about my situation but still so hard

I just think most females and couples on here tar guys all with the same brush which I do get but just so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

you seem to have a preference for TVs so, you know, knock yourself out, keep doing that

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By *teph199 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Watford

It’s not a preference

More of an extra option

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Your most up to date pic is 5 years old op. Maybe add some new ones, that aren't just dick pics.

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By *ackInBlackMan
2 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Get along to any localish Fab socials. Be confident without being cocky. Be talkative without going OTT. Always be polite and well mannered. Don't dress like a chav. You'll find these simple things will soon start to open doors for you. I can offer you the same advice for attending any swingers clubs you may have in your area.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

What situation are you being pretty honest about?

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By *b1980Man
2 weeks ago

Burnley

Im same what can I change x

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Would you really meet an 18 or 90 year old? Be more specific of age ranges.

Add a profile pic, doesn't have to be your face or even naked....but it looks better than blank.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No profile picture? Not even opening the message.

Look at the gallery and it's all cock shots? Delete.

Most recent pictures are almost 6 years old? Delete.

Cheating on the Mrs? Delete.

There's a lot of hurdles to even get a message read to be honest. And given how many people wouldn't even open it I doubt it matters much what it even says 💜

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

As others have said, your photos are really out of date. That'd be a problem. Also, I'd try to make them more deliberate, less "quickly pull my pants down and take a picture". For better or worse, pictures that are well taken (and recent!) will get more attention.

The "situation" you allude to will also put many people off.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
2 weeks ago

andover

I won’t give you profile advice because you didn’t ask for it….but we would most likely block you based on that alone

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
1 week ago

South East

"Been on this site for a while now

Just finding it really hard to get a meet I find I don’t either get no reply or on odd occasion I do and start chatting get ghosted

I am never rude or offensive tend to be pretty honest about my situation but still so hard

I just think most females and couples on here tar guys all with the same brush which I do get but just so frustrating

You only have 3 pictures which are all of your cock and 5 years old, your bio says nothing really about you or what you’re looking for. It’s not a very stand out profile if you’re actively looking to meet

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
1 week ago

South East

"Im same what can I change x"

For some reason you’re making out that it’s a couples profile but is a single man profile

There are 11 videos and 18 pictures and everyone of them is of your cock, whilst you may think it’s impressive, trust me, no one wants to see 11 videos and 18 pictures of it. You have no bio to speak off and your profile pic is a cock. You have no verifications, it’s a zero effort, very confusing profile that we would block if you messaged us

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By *ildSilkCouple
1 week ago

Nr Bridgend

"Im same what can I change x

For some reason you’re making out that it’s a couples profile but is a single man profile

Apart from that though…

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

It’s probably the flaccid thin cock pics.

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
1 week ago

Gloucestershire

You have no profile pic

Your only public pics of your cock

You can't accommodate and can only meet week day daytimes

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By *ndy_blue_eyesMan
1 week ago

Dewsbury

Same here absolutely no luck. Sent dozens of messages always attach a clear recent photo with message. Try to pick something out of their profile to talk about. Had a few not for me/us messages rest are read no reply or just deleted. Guess it's just a numbers game so many guys on here.

Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
1 week ago

South East

"Same here absolutely no luck. Sent dozens of messages always attach a clear recent photo with message. Try to pick something out of their profile to talk about. Had a few not for me/us messages rest are read no reply or just deleted. Guess it's just a numbers game so many guys on here.

Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go."

Your 58 and your age range is 24-99

You have one pic that shows nothing about you

Your profile lacks detail about you. And what you’re looking for and you have no verifications.

It’s not a numbers game it’s about standing out with that profile you don’t

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By *ndy_blue_eyesMan
6 days ago

Dewsbury

Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go.

Your 58 and your age range is 24-99

You have one pic that shows nothing about you

Your profile lacks detail about you. And what you’re looking for and you have no verifications.

It’s not a numbers game it’s about standing out with that profile you don’t "

Definitely a numbers game quick look on near me 1 female, 3 couples, 4tv and 53 guys

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
6 days ago

South East

Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go.

Your 58 and your age range is 24-99

You have one pic that shows nothing about you

Your profile lacks detail about you. And what you’re looking for and you have no verifications.

It’s not a numbers game it’s about standing out with that profile you don’t

Definitely a numbers game quick look on near me 1 female, 3 couples, 4tv and 53 guys "

Yes but if you don’t have a good profile that stands out then there could be 1 man and you still wouldn’t get the response you’re looking for

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