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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok this is prob more female issue. Am I only one who can have good/bad sexual experience with a guy regardless of if is nsa or relationship. end up developing feelings for them and trying to make a relationship happen even tho i know the situation and wanted it for what was. Happens with every guy I sleep with. Usually short term but annoying result. Being a woman sucks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe give it a break and look for a relationship instead? X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ok this is prob more female issue. Am I only one who can have good/bad sexual experience with a guy regardless of if is nsa or relationship. end up developing feelings for them and trying to make a relationship happen even tho i know the situation and wanted it for what was. Happens with every guy I sleep with. Usually short term but annoying result. Being a woman sucks!! "

I started off that way, especially if the sex was good. It gets easier though.

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok this is prob more female issue. Am I only one who can have good/bad sexual experience with a guy regardless of if is nsa or relationship. end up developing feelings for them and trying to make a relationship happen even tho i know the situation and wanted it for what was. Happens with every guy I sleep with. Usually short term but annoying result. Being a woman sucks!! "
No you arent. I let my feelings develop for someone here - lost him for ever I think. Still on my friends list, so I live in hope but makes it difficult to move on. Hasnt happened since - I cant allow it to happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe give it a break and look for a relationship instead? X"

Been looking for relationship 3 years with no luck so thinkin enjoy being single xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your rabbits guys!! I can her the water boiling lol.

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

Yes it does happen. I felt just like you a few weeks ago and posted my heartache on this forum. Look under the title I'm in love with my fb. Lots of people do. don't feel stupid. Its a human instinct response xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here....even a slight twinge of th green eyed monster......but gave myself a slap and a head wobble,,and said no I'm busy when he's asked to meet up so I'm over that now......I will meet him when I want to, on my terms. Yeah bein a female sucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hide your rabbits guys!! I can her the water boiling lol.

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I think u will find my rabbit is plastic and battery operated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings can never be helped when your intimate with someone. I used to have the Old Fashioned view that you only had sex with someone you were in a realtionship with. It is hard to get away from that kind of thinking

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Ok this is prob more female issue. Am I only one who can have good/bad sexual experience with a guy regardless of if is nsa or relationship. end up developing feelings for them and trying to make a relationship happen even tho i know the situation and wanted it for what was. Happens with every guy I sleep with. Usually short term but annoying result. Being a woman sucks!! "

Maybe I'm a hardened bitch but never encountered this problem. In fact, if a guy gets too clingy he's gone.

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By *aula.ceciliaWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Decided quite a while back to be a whole person, not half a couple,,, and, hey,, now i dont have a clingy needy hanger on around me I have loads of freinds!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in this lifestyle feelings for people are just part of it. I've had a couple of long term relationships with guys I've met in here and fallen head over heels in love with another (thankfully it was reciptocated but circumstances prevented anything). Over the years I've developed a different mindset to it all, I've managed to turn off the green eyed monster and also stopped thinking one shag will lead to anything.

I also don't think this is just a female problem, there are guys out there with the same problems.

Meeting someone for more is not that unusual on here or in this lifestyle, but if you go into every meeting thinking he could be "the one" that's when problems start. Just relax and let things develop naturally, least meeting via FAB you know you have sex in common, which is half the battle in any relationship x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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Maybe I'm a hardened bitch but never encountered this problem. In fact, if a guy gets too clingy he's gone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were to say I had never felt there could have been something more with all the gents I had played with, then I would be lying.

However, such feelings were far and between, it happened once or twice in the past 4 years or so, and I was brought back to reality very soon by lack of further contacts.

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