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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. " Sorry you met such an egotistical, obnoxious guy - to say that to your husband! These guys are totally about their ego and what they want. Tone deaf to what actually turns the lady on, and gives her a pleasurable experience. Guys definitely struggle with the concept that for me it's not an orgasm. They are separate things; they can happen simultaneously or separately. Any guy proclaiming to be able to make me do anything is an absolute turn-off. | |||
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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. " Well said, it’s such a strange thing to boast about. Women who squirt will normally squirt it normally has little to do with the person they are playing with. | |||
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"Not sure what all the hype is about yes made a woman gush but being covered in juices is not a real turn on " i can assure you being covered in juces is indeed a turn on for many | |||
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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. " Why didn't you steady the guy's hand? | |||
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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. " __________________________ Well said! | |||
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" Any guy proclaiming to be able to make me do anything is an absolute turn-off. " Totally agree with this ... squirting and fisting... dislike anyone attempting either on me. | |||
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" This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. " Then why do you meet them and let them do it to you? 🤔 | |||
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"Not sure what all the hype is about yes made a woman gush but being covered in juices is not a real turn on i can assure you being covered in juces is indeed a turn on for many" Yeah I know quite a few women who love it. Of course it's not for everyone, just like anal isn't , but seems a bit odd that the OP keeps meeting people and letting them do it to her if she doesn't like it. What's the partners view? Is he saying anything ? I have a couples profile , I know what my lover likes and doesn't like and no one touches her in any way she doesn't like , | |||
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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. " Sorry to hear this. I always like to fully discuss what all like or not and always respect that. The end results are so much better then and fun for all. It’s sad some don’t respect others and reason why my wife not on here anymore as too many arrogant guys thinking can do what they like and no consideration for others | |||
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"Also, slapping your cock on faces and pussies it’s porn and it’s shit " Lots of women enjoy it, especially pussy but a few on the face too.....it's obviously not your thing, but it's not just porn. I'm sure lots of things happen in bedrooms that you also see when you watch porn, that's expected. If you think it only happens in more it might be down to inexperience ? | |||
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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. " Yes that sounds like a big negative on his behalf So what he made you squirt Some of my most intense orgasms have been without squirting Probably another reason that goes against meeting men and sticking to just bringing women in to play with | |||
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"Hilarious how this has touched a nerve with some guys, who are now throwing their toys out of the pram and inboxing me 🤣🤣🤣" Highlights the attitude of some as my earlier post. Why do this | |||
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"Perhaps I’m one of the rare ones who actually doesn’t enjoy it. If during play the lady does, then fine, I’m happy for her. I’m more interested in her openly enjoying the experience and not aiming to make her cum or squirt. If either happens, as I said, good as long as it’s what she wanted. Iv had a lady squirt and then ask if I enjoyed it? What am I supposed to say? So I response with as long as your happy, relaxed then I’m all good. " For me, it's less binary. Its not whether I enjoy something or not but, if I enjoy it, HOW I enjoy it. I'd rather have a guy with an average dick who knows how to ask, listen and adapt then a big dick with a big dick. | |||
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"… I am more confident now to say... "thats not pleasurable let’s do something else" but often kills the vibe and I've checked out at this point. … Mrs x " Completely agree! To those who say just communicate, this is exactly what happens. Or they stop for 30 second and then go back as if I might have changed my mind. It completely kills the vibe which is awkward when in a full swap/orgy. | |||
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"… I am more confident now to say... "thats not pleasurable let’s do something else" but often kills the vibe and I've checked out at this point. … Mrs x Completely agree! To those who say just communicate, this is exactly what happens. Or they stop for 30 second and then go back as if I might have changed my mind. It completely kills the vibe which is awkward when in a full swap/orgy. " Yes. I do communicate, and so many won't take no for an answer. | |||
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"Also, slapping your cock on faces and pussies it’s porn and it’s shit " Like and enjoy both of these if we’re honest | |||
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"Im constantly being asked, as soon as i say ive never squirted before. Its like a challenge and they say i can make you 🫣 it puts me off as soon as they say that." _____________________________________________ | |||
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"Best just to tell guys you don't squirt as you have excellent bladder function and control, but if they insist !!!" , most men if you tell them that they will practically beg you to let them try ,it's like it's there mission to make every woman squirt n cum | |||
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"Best just to tell guys you don't squirt as you have excellent bladder function and control, but if they insist !!!, most men if you tell them that they will practically beg you to let them try ,it's like it's there mission to make every woman squirt n cum" 💯 This! If you say you don't squirt, their eyes light up and you can almost here a little voice inside their head going "ooooooo challenge" | |||
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"Absolutely 💯 OP Some guys seem to think by making a woman squirt/gush means she has orgasmed. " I admit I used to believe that, and porn is to blame, like often. It's also a simplification, when you think like that: It's not always obvious to tell when a woman orgasms and every woman will reach it in a differrent way, whereas squirt is 1)very obvious when it happened and 2) fairly straight forward to reach consistently. So when you think squirt=orgasm, you automatically go for that. | |||
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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. Sorry you met such an egotistical, obnoxious guy - to say that to your husband! These guys are totally about their ego and what they want. Tone deaf to what actually turns the lady on, and gives her a pleasurable experience. Guys definitely struggle with the concept that for me it's not an orgasm. They are separate things; they can happen simultaneously or separately. Any guy proclaiming to be able to make me do anything is an absolute turn-off. " I'm glad you said this, it isn't an orgasm for me either, I thought I was missing something lol. I can squirt/gush lots but rarely a guy gives me an orgasm, although an old friend would give me many orgasms yet I never squirted with him (I miss him) | |||
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"Misogyny is a hell of a drug. Chaps, listen to women, their pleasure is not about you, and you really don’t know better." 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😘 | |||
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"Also, slapping your cock on faces t’s porn and it’s shit Like and enjoy both of these if we’re honest " Yeah, but does your Mrs? | |||
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"Best just to tell guys you don't squirt as you have excellent bladder function and control, but if they insist !!!, most men if you tell them that they will practically beg you to let them try ,it's like it's there mission to make every woman squirt n cum" Best to ask them if they want to accompany you to the loo when you are having a pee, that's squirting for you right there. | |||
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"Honestly guys, when I see you write that you can make a woman squirt, there is nothing more likely to make me hit block. This is after years of meets with guys jabbing clumsily at the same spot inside me in hope of achieving the ultimate indicator of their sexual prowess. It’s not sexy, it’s shit. I’m not a fruit machine that pays out if you press the right buttons. Most of the time in these encounters, I don’t even want to cum. I want to be mentally stimulated more. I’ve literally had one guy force an uncomfortable orgasm out of me accompanied by ‘squirting’ - by aggressively prodding that area. He was satisfied, having achieved the result HE wanted. He then started trying to explain to my husband how he did it - information my husband certainly did not need or want! Sometimes when me and my husband have sex it happens, and yes it’s nice. But DON’T go into sex looking to achieve it. That’s not how you give women pleasure. It should be something that MIGHT happen in certain circumstances, it shouldn’t be a goal. " This x | |||
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