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By *all_Dark_Handsome99 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Ash

Hi Ladies, just looking for a bit of advice, Im lacking alot in self confidence recently and am starting to give up hope on this site, I know Im average at best, but I get 0 interest from woman what so ever, Im always polite, never over confident or full of myself, theres photos of me on my profile, not with my cock out.

Just wondering what Im doing wrong, or can improve?

All Im looking for is a woman who wants to bury my face between her legs on a regular basis, or even just once lol.

Seriously, the only messages I get are "Not my type sorry", or gay guys looking for a challenge 😅

Thank you for your time xx

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
2 weeks ago

London - South East and West

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
2 weeks ago

London - South East and West

I think the smiley 8th Aug pic would be a much nicer profile picture.

I'd delete the bubbles one (they dont add anythinh) and the sticking out tongue one (it appears childish.

Also, this is a site for sex, not dating, id add a couple of naked full body shots.

Hope that helps.

Mrs

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Downham Market

Take out the bit about squirting. So many guys see it as a challenge that they HAVE to make a woman squirt (without accepting that not all women do, can it want to) and I find it a bit of a red flag.

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
2 weeks ago

isle of munters

Age range?

Smile

Sounds a little force ful in the squirting

Hobbies? Non sexual Interests?

Hope you take the advice because your very attractive and seem like a cool dude

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By *ose_and_OakCouple
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

I think you need to tell people what you’re looking for and what you offer.

I’m another vote for getting rid of the bit about squirting - I don’t think any woman has met a man because some other women have squirted while playing with him and it just conjures up images of someone determinedly trying to prove they can make it happen.

R

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ditch the photo with your tongue out. Its childish and unappealing.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 weeks ago

South East

Get rid of the squirting stuff, women either do or don’t, it’s not normally based on the man and it’s the first thing that turned off about your profile

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 weeks ago

South East


"Get rid of the squirting stuff, women either do or don’t, it’s not normally based on the man and it’s the first thing that turned off about your profile "

Also ditch the tongue pic and the stern faced ones and lead with the smiling pics

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Please do take the excellent advice that people have written here already.

100% get rid of the tongue poking out pic. Your other pics are so much better.

For me personally, I will never ever do anything other than block a guy who mentions squirting. As has been said before it’s a massive red flag for so many reasons.

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By *oobsandbeard69Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

In addition to everything above, get offline and go to socials/ clubs. You can post a meet on here and get talking to potential people before you go. It gives people a better understanding of who you are and whether there’s a potential connection…

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