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"That was a 1 off, however it’s taken along time to get that meet and as I say no one seems to want to meet " They do. The people you are reaching out to just don't want to meet you. | |||
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"That was a 1 off, however it’s taken along time to get that meet and as I say no one seems to want to meet They do. The people you are reaching out to just don't want to meet you." Oooch 😧 | |||
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"I’d really like to meet a couple on here, however it seems a difficult/impossible ask. Any suggestions that may boost my chances " Are you a BBC reporter? | |||
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"I’d really like to meet a couple on here, however it seems a difficult/impossible ask. Any suggestions that may boost my chances Are you a BBC reporter?" ..its a trap  | |||
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"That was a 1 off, however it’s taken along time to get that meet and as I say no one seems to want to meet They do. The people you are reaching out to just don't want to meet you. Oooch 😧" I wasn't being mean, it's the truth. People are meeting up with each other everyday on here. If he is struggling or getting knocked back, the people he is reaching out to just don't want to meet him. | |||
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"You've wrote 50 words on your profile, you've wrote more in this thread How is your profile going to entice or intrigue people when you've not really wrote anything? "Appreciate the response however from looking at your profile you hardly have a lot within your bio | |||
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"Also other way around too...we where in hotel on Saturday and looking for meet into early hours and couldn't find anyone to meet us even guys didn't reply apart from cpl that messed us around for cpl hours." Pity you don't meet TVs, I'd meet you guys in a heartbeat x | |||
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"Can I just say my bio isn’t AI generated like I’m being called out for " If people are thinking it is AI, even if it isn’t, that’s not a good sign. People do meet, even in Redditch | |||
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"Can I just say my bio isn’t AI generated like I’m being called out for If people are thinking it is AI, even if it isn’t, that’s not a good sign. People do meet, even in Redditch " It’s just one women with an opinion whose been blocked | |||
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"I’d really like to meet a couple on here, however it seems a difficult/impossible ask. Any suggestions that may boost my chances " My recommendation to every single male who actually wants to meet, & not just antagonise the couple/woman, is firstly read their profile in its entirety(not just pictures whilst skim reading what they want to see on the profile) & then understand how that pertains to them & what the male has written on his profile. That’s always a good start. A few lines that encompasses what they seek with pics is a good way to start. Most couples don’t want chapter & verse nor do they want a ‘hi’. Of course we can’t speak for everyone here but that’s mostly those we have spoken to over the years. Don’t be crude, rude or think you’re funny. It’s so easy to misinterpret messages on here or any texting app. | |||
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"That was a 1 off, however it’s taken along time to get that meet and as I say no one seems to want to meet They do. The people you are reaching out to just don't want to meet you. Oooch 😧" My first thought. Brutal. Could of been put a bit nicer. | |||
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"You've wrote 50 words on your profile, you've wrote more in this thread How is your profile going to entice or intrigue people when you've not really wrote anything?
Appreciate the response however from looking at your profile you hardly have a lot within your bio "Ouch!! She's not the one on a forums twisting about not being able to get meet and the poor lady is quite open in the fact shes grieving at present. If thats how you talk to people I'm not really surprised you haven't managed to connect with a couple to a level where they want to meet you  | |||
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"So just meet people in the real world? That's also still an option " no no no, real people that’s dangerous thinking | |||
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"I’d really like to meet a couple on here, however it seems a difficult/impossible ask. Any suggestions that may boost my chances " Do you honestly think that your profile shows any effort or gives any reason for people to meet you instead of someone who's put some thought and time into their pics and profile text? PS. We meet. | |||
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"You've wrote 50 words on your profile, you've wrote more in this thread How is your profile going to entice or intrigue people when you've not really wrote anything?
Appreciate the response however from looking at your profile you hardly have a lot within your bio "Yes but her profile explains why tbf | |||
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"You have to bear in mind how many messages couples probably receive off single male accounts." Honestly, we don't get that many. On a normal day we might get twenty or so. More if we put up a pic. But numbers...let's say we meet once a week (we don't, but we'd like to), that's 50 meets per year. Let's assume that 10 of those are people we've seen before, so 40 "new" guys each year. 20 messages each day, that's 7,300 or so in a year. 7,300 and we need 40. That's just a half of one percent, and we think that we might be unusual for even wanting to meet once a week! Now, let's go the other way and assume there are 100,000 active Fab users, and probably 100 single guys to each couple or single woman. Each couple or single woman would need to meet two new guys each week for everyone to get a meet. Those numbers might be way out, Fab doesn't give them out. | |||
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"We meet. Mainly in clubs but we've met single men too. But we've gone looking ourselves rather than rely on what drops in our inbox because quite frankly most profiles that get in touch tell us nothing, are awash with either multiple dick pics and nothing else or photos that are 95% some random woman and a hand/cock, are from people that can't accomodate, married folk playing away or the messages either contain some fantasy wank fodder scenario they have in their head or they're aimed at just one of us (usually tits). Single men often don't do themselves any favours in their approaches. And I say that as someone who was on here as a single guy for a long time myself. Obi" Completely agree with this. We get dozens of messages a day and 99% of them are terrible, I mean really bad. It’s really not hard to stand out because the standard of messages are that poor that anything half decent stands out like a sore thumb | |||
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"You've wrote 50 words on your profile, you've wrote more in this thread How is your profile going to entice or intrigue people when you've not really wrote anything?
Appreciate the response however from looking at your profile you hardly have a lot within your bio "Couple of things, She will by the nature of the site she will get messages as unfair as you might see it, she doesn’t need to try as hard as you. Secondly she states she is currently grieving and actively asking for no messages, so why would she have lots of text You’ve had a bit of a mare here lol | |||
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"You've wrote 50 words on your profile, you've wrote more in this thread How is your profile going to entice or intrigue people when you've not really wrote anything?
Appreciate the response however from looking at your profile you hardly have a lot within your bio
Couple of things,
She will by the nature of the site she will get messages as unfair as you might see it, she doesn’t need to try as hard as you.
Secondly she states she is currently grieving and actively asking for no messages, so why would she have lots of text
You’ve had a bit of a mare here lol"Also she wasn’t the one asking for suggestions, he was…  | |||
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"You've wrote 50 words on your profile, you've wrote more in this thread How is your profile going to entice or intrigue people when you've not really wrote anything?
Appreciate the response however from looking at your profile you hardly have a lot within your bio
Couple of things,
She will by the nature of the site she will get messages as unfair as you might see it, she doesn’t need to try as hard as you.
Secondly she states she is currently grieving and actively asking for no messages, so why would she have lots of text
You’ve had a bit of a mare here lol
Also she wasn’t the one asking for suggestions, he was… "Exactly 😂😂 | |||
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"The fact you can't accommodate, makes you look married.... That won't help." Nobody with an ounce of sense would accommodate.....for the same reason couples also won't. To keep everyone safe. | |||
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"Nobody with an ounce of sense would accommodate.....for the same reason couples also won't. To keep everyone safe." Seven years, almost always accommodate and never had an issue. | |||
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"Nobody with an ounce of sense would accommodate.....for the same reason couples also won't. To keep everyone safe. Seven years, almost always accommodate and never had an issue." I'm so pleased to hear it. I just see it as only taking one bad meet for whatever reason and it can end messy. Our family home is just that. | |||
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"The fact you can't accommodate, makes you look married.... That won't help. Nobody with an ounce of sense would accommodate.....for the same reason couples also won't. To keep everyone safe. " We accomodate at mine. I know plenty of others that do too. 🤷♂️ In nearly 20 years I've lost count of the number of people's houses and flats I've been to. Obi | |||
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"The fact you can't accommodate, makes you look married.... That won't help. Nobody with an ounce of sense would accommodate.....for the same reason couples also won't. To keep everyone safe. We accomodate at mine. I know plenty of others that do too. 🤷♂️ In nearly 20 years I've lost count of the number of people's houses and flats I've been to. Obi" Again, I'm pleased for you....but you must admit there's an element of risk. And instead of someone having the address of a hotel, they know where you live. | |||
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What's been said, how your response is to it, what and you're communicating, etc, is usually a real treasure trove to learn from | |||
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"The fact you can't accommodate, makes you look married.... That won't help. Nobody with an ounce of sense would accommodate.....for the same reason couples also won't. To keep everyone safe. We accomodate at mine. I know plenty of others that do too. 🤷♂️ In nearly 20 years I've lost count of the number of people's houses and flats I've been to. Obi Again, I'm pleased for you....but you must admit there's an element of risk. And instead of someone having the address of a hotel, they know where you live. " Everything in life carries an element of risk. You can mitigate those risks with a bit of due diligence or you can just wing it and think that meeting at a hotel offers more security. It doesn't. I/we don't arrange meets at the drop of a hat or in any hurry. If we didn't have enough trust in someone to let them in, why the fuck would we ever consider getting physical with them? Obi | |||
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"Im glad it works for you. We also haven't had any bad experiences, but we have heard from those who have. As individuals we choose what works best for us. " I agree completely. I just wouldn't accuse those who chose to meet at home as lacking an ounce of common sense. 🤷♂️ Obi | |||
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"I’d really like to meet a couple on here, however it seems a difficult/impossible ask. Any suggestions that may boost my chances " First glance at your profile and initial thought 'can't accom, cheating'. A few more photos would be good too.... | |||
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"I’d really like to meet a couple on here, however it seems a difficult/impossible ask. Any suggestions that may boost my chances " I have been using this site for a long time I’ve only met 1 couple on here which was a few weeks ago she walked all over me (and that’s meant as wrote so sexy ) anyway it’s rare and few and far between on here if you want to meet couples go to socials , nudist spas , nudist beaches I have had a lot more luck there with couples ,1 couple I met a couple of months ago the guy could not rise to the occasion and the female missed wanking a hard cock i offered mine exploded and massive load I offered to return the favour and gave her a bit of oral which she liked a lot (he wouldn’t do it ) both offered to meet again which we do once a fortnight they are in Spain for a couple of months now so on the hunt lol | |||
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