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Wifes bi side finally out.

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By *omethingsublime OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Wales

Together 10 years and married.

I knew she had had bi fun in the past through when we was first courting, d*unken boasts more thsj anything. But after years of saying nothing, we had it out in the open. Not in an negatuve manner but we was in normal conversation on a saturday night and ended up on the subject. Where she came sround to mentuoj it agaun and although shyly, govinto detail about her experiences. So i sauf your bi them and she believes no as we are married and wouldnt never do it now anyway. But that being said, the sex we had not long after was far from our usual rough and tumble, she was hot to trott! Filth!

Now the thought of her playing with anither woman does excite me as it would 99 percent men, but id wish to let her know. I believe it would be healthy if i didnt supress her lusts and kinks if its sexual only. But i understand life is not a fantasy, what would you guys next move be?

She only watches lesbian porn btw?! What do you guys think?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

You could suggest she make a solo or couples profile on here.

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By *omethingsublime OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Wales

Im very nervous to do that! I was thinking of maybe putting on sone lesvian porn next time we have sex, and talk it in during sex, maybe comw out the other side with an answer?

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

She's been watching lesbian porn for quite a while hasn't she? It sounds like she's been into women for a long time. You could go to a club, there's often other women looking for FF fun.

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By *all me FlikWoman
3 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"Im very nervous to do that! I was thinking of maybe putting on sone lesvian porn next time we have sex, and talk it in during sex, maybe comw out the other side with an answer? "

why are you nervous of her having her own profile when you have one...seems a little one sided?

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By *aandLoCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton


"Im very nervous to do that! I was thinking of maybe putting on sone lesvian porn next time we have sex, and talk it in during sex, maybe comw out the other side with an answer? "

You need to talk to her in a relaxed way about trying something new. Ask if she's thought about FF fun, then if she says yes suggest you make a couples profile on here. No obligation but to get a feel for how you might explore that side of her desires together.

And delete your solo profile, unless you think she'll be turned on by you cheating on her.

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By *aste the ChocolateMan
3 weeks ago

leeds

I really love girls that like girls too aha

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Im very nervous to do that! I was thinking of maybe putting on sone lesvian porn next time we have sex, and talk it in during sex, maybe comw out the other side with an answer?

why are you nervous of her having her own profile when you have one...seems a little one sided?"

This. Seems a bit have your cake and eat it op. If you want your wife to explore her sexuality for her, then encourage it and ask her if she'd like to explore it more.

If you just want get her to do it to get you off, that's a different matter and it's probably best left alone.

Either way talk to your wife and ask her what she actually wants. It may just be a fantasy when she horny and not something she wants to persue in reality.

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By *omethingsublime OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Wales

That was the point of the post. Im not goign to lie and say the idea of seeing my wife play wouldnt excite me. Im thinking maybe i should open the door for her myself and not supress her sexuality for the sake of marriage, which i can see past. It definately needs some weighing up. How would you feel if your husband said it was ok to play with other women? She may take it as an insult to marriage?

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By *omethingsublime OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Wales


"Im very nervous to do that! I was thinking of maybe putting on sone lesvian porn next time we have sex, and talk it in during sex, maybe comw out the other side with an answer?

why are you nervous of her having her own profile when you have one...seems a little one sided?"

Im not nervous of her having her own profile, im nervous to ask her if she wants to consider it?

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands


"That was the point of the post. Im not goign to lie and say the idea of seeing my wife play wouldnt excite me. Im thinking maybe i should open the door for her myself and not supress her sexuality for the sake of marriage, which i can see past. It definately needs some weighing up. How would you feel if your husband said it was ok to play with other women? She may take it as an insult to marriage?"

You know her better than us, however if she watches lesbian porn she may be open to exploring. You'll only know by asking if it's something she'd like to try.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"That was the point of the post. Im not goign to lie and say the idea of seeing my wife play wouldnt excite me. Im thinking maybe i should open the door for her myself and not supress her sexuality for the sake of marriage, which i can see past. It definately needs some weighing up. How would you feel if your husband said it was ok to play with other women? She may take it as an insult to marriage?"

I'm straight so that absolutely wouldn't be for me, as he knows. He's one of the small percentage who isn't bothered watching 2 women together.

You'll only know the answer by asking her though op. Be careful though, don't make her feel like she's going to be performing for you or it's all for you.

Just an open chat, if she is bi does she want to explore it further with your blessing.

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By *oup4coup30Couple
3 weeks ago

KING'S LYNN

Go to a club I believe it could surprise you both i believe from personal findings clubs are best place to lean the bi side you can chat with those that are new to bi too

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By *omethingsublime OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Wales

Im not sure if we are the couple to go to a club, would be more likely to play behind closed doors

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands


"Im not sure if we are the couple to go to a club, would be more likely to play behind closed doors "

We always play behind closed doors in a club, most clubs have lockable rooms.

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By *omethingsublime OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Wales

I mean more the social sode of it, if anything i think we would both enjoy being watched by people. Just not the social side of it, especially with a young family we dont want to be known locally as swingers. Maybe if we went abit off the door step?!

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