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By *elix OP   Man
3 weeks ago

tralee

Hey, just would like some feedback on my profile if people have time?

I would like to become more involved in the community but my work hours are not conducive to meet ups so for now I just have my profile to work from.

Thanks all I appreciate everybody reading this post.

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

It’s 34% negative.

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By *elix OP   Man
3 weeks ago

tralee

Damn so specific yet lacking information 🤣

Now if I could lower it to 31% negative then its 69% positive

Nice 😅

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair


"My theory on sexuality. Is some people are 100% straight some are 100% gay, the rest of us fall somewhere in between."

And?


"Me, I'm mainly attracted to women like 70% I include trans women here as its feminine energy that I am attracted to."

Okay. Duly noted.


"But...I'm also attracted to the male physique like 30%.... I mean cocks are fun and some men are beautiful no denying it."

Thanks for clarifying.


"Anyway I'd love to hear from Cis and Trans Women who like bi guys. It can seem that a lot of women are not into bi guys which is fine that's your choice and has nothing to do with me. but surely not all women dislike bi guys?"

You want to hear back? Based on what? You haven't said anything notable about yourself.

There's also an element of negativity and resentment.


"For the record I am proudly bisexual and will not change my profile to straight just to chat and possibly meet with women. That's lying to myself and to others, and not a nice thing to do to someone who has their own reasons for not wanting to meet bi people."

Superfluous comment. Serves no purpose whatsoever.


"Anyway cheers for reading, feel free to message me."

Words fail me on this one.

It's a generic profile that offers little of substance. It speaks volumes but actually says very little. It's garrulous.

Your photos are fine however. One or two are too dark and/or blurred.

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By *acavityMan
3 weeks ago

Redditch

You have reinvented the Kinsey scale.

But you take a lot of time explaining who you want to meet.

But very little about why they should meet you, rather than the next person.

Sell yourself more, demonstrate that you are the best choice for a fun time for the person reading your profile

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"You have reinvented the Kinsey scale.

But you take a lot of time explaining who you want to meet.

But very little about why they should meet you, rather than the next person.

Sell yourself more, demonstrate that you are the best choice for a fun time for the person reading your profile "

This op

I feel much of the profile is about your sexuality, over what you're into or why soomeone should pick you.

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By *elix OP   Man
3 weeks ago

tralee


"My theory on sexuality. Is some people are 100% straight some are 100% gay, the rest of us fall somewhere in between.

And?

Me, I'm mainly attracted to women like 70% I include trans women here as its feminine energy that I am attracted to.

Okay. Duly noted.

But...I'm also attracted to the male physique like 30%.... I mean cocks are fun and some men are beautiful no denying it.

Thanks for clarifying.

Anyway I'd love to hear from Cis and Trans Women who like bi guys. It can seem that a lot of women are not into bi guys which is fine that's your choice and has nothing to do with me. but surely not all women dislike bi guys?

You want to hear back? Based on what? You haven't said anything notable about yourself.

There's also an element of negativity and resentment.

For the record I am proudly bisexual and will not change my profile to straight just to chat and possibly meet with women. That's lying to myself and to others, and not a nice thing to do to someone who has their own reasons for not wanting to meet bi people.

Superfluous comment. Serves no purpose whatsoever.

Anyway cheers for reading, feel free to message me.

Words fail me on this one.

It's a generic profile that offers little of substance. It speaks volumes but actually says very little. It's garrulous.

Your photos are fine however. One or two are too dark and/or blurred.

"

Lots of info here thank you for this and judging by other comments I clearly have lots of work to do on my profile description.

Thanks for the honest words

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By *elix OP   Man
3 weeks ago

tralee


"You have reinvented the Kinsey scale.

But you take a lot of time explaining who you want to meet.

But very little about why they should meet you, rather than the next person.

Sell yourself more, demonstrate that you are the best choice for a fun time for the person reading your profile "

Thank you, I see now that I have got caught up in how I thought I was stating who I am but actually putting people off. Lots of work to do here, but for tou taking the time to write this I appreciate.

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By *elix OP   Man
3 weeks ago

tralee


"You have reinvented the Kinsey scale.

But you take a lot of time explaining who you want to meet.

But very little about why they should meet you, rather than the next person.

Sell yourself more, demonstrate that you are the best choice for a fun time for the person reading your profile

This op

I feel much of the profile is about your sexuality, over what you're into or why soomeone should pick you. "

Hey, yup that has become abundantly clear lol, it's a chastening moment but sur, I'll take it on the chin and start over. Thank you also for the feedback.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I like your artistic photos

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By *elix OP   Man
2 weeks ago

tralee


"I like your artistic photos"

Thank you Sally. I appreciate it.

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By *elix OP   Man
2 weeks ago

tralee

Ok. So I went off and licked my wounds after the harsh but eye opening comments I thought about what I want to say and how I want to say it.

I've included what I like the people I want to meet and also what I am hoping to find.

If there is anybody left that could take a look I really appreciate it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Ok. So I went off and licked my wounds after the harsh but eye opening comments I thought about what I want to say and how I want to say it.

I've included what I like the people I want to meet and also what I am hoping to find.

If there is anybody left that could take a look I really appreciate it."

It reads well, gives me a sense of the man behind the photos and explains what you're about

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By *elix OP   Man
2 weeks ago

tralee


"Ok. So I went off and licked my wounds after the harsh but eye opening comments I thought about what I want to say and how I want to say it.

I've included what I like the people I want to meet and also what I am hoping to find.

If there is anybody left that could take a look I really appreciate it.

It reads well, gives me a sense of the man behind the photos and explains what you're about "

Thank you I just updated it a bit more but I really appreciate the comment 🙏

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I think it’s a very good profile now. The new wording is a million times better.

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By *elix OP   Man
2 weeks ago

tralee


"I think it’s a very good profile now. The new wording is a million times better."

Thanks folks. I really appreciate the feedback. One person on a different forum said one of my pics looked like I was on the toilet 😳 I was sitting on a white chair lol, I dropped that pic haha

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