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By *ight cock OP   Man
1 week ago

everywhere

Hello people. Hope everyone is okay. I need some advice. Ill finish it in short. My wife likes to watch porn while we both have fun. She always like to watch either gangbang or mmf. I am just not sure if she likes it to do it or its just watching thing. I have also bought white pens sleeve. And when I use it, she feels like she is having different nationality guy having fun with her. We Asian by d way. I just cant ask if she wants to try it in real or its just watching video and enjoy. If anyone can tell me how I can introduce her to here or start swinging lifestyle. Appreciate if anyone gives me the real example how they been started. Thanks in advance.

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By *ight cock OP   Man
1 week ago

everywhere

Appreciate if reply in private message. Thanks.

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

Why can't you ask her?

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By *ight cock OP   Man
1 week ago

everywhere

Just worried if she goes mad haha. But she watch those categories when we are together.

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just worried if she goes mad haha. But she watch those categories when we are together."

If you think she's enjoying the roleplay, the only real way to move towards meeting is... talking about it, yes?

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By *ight cock OP   Man
1 week ago

everywhere

You're absolutely right.

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By *tormchasingCouple
7 days ago

Billericay

Communication is so utterly important for a couple swinging.

If you can't even ask her what she enjoys, personally we would not advise this lifestyle for you as a couple

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By *uvs2snogMan
7 days ago

Now living in Spain

Maybe next time you are watching it together and she is very turned on try saying ‘ mmmm imagine me and another guy doing this to you’……

See her reaction….

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By *ideshaft1971Man
7 days ago

Midlands


"You're absolutely right."

I think she’s definitely going to be up for it but you need to just rest the water by asking about her trying it

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By *ullrunMan
7 days ago

Bradford

Maybe mention it in a jokey kinda way and see how she responds

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By *issmorganWoman
7 days ago

Calderdale innit

I'll say the same as I do in every other thread started like this.

Talk to her and ask op, open communication is the only way forward.

Swinging won't be for all and some things are just a fantasy for many people. They don't mean they want to make them a reality.

Ask her if she has any fantasies she'd like to try out with you for real? Mention swinging, but be prepared that the answer might not be what you want to hear.

If so, drop it and don't try to persuade her or change her mind.

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By *rMan321Man
7 days ago

Somewhere Cold

Show her your verifications, so she can see how much fun it is.

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By *iss DevilWoman
7 days ago

Bedford

OP, just because your wife likes watching particular porn genres, it doesn't mean she's prepared to try that in real life. You're not going to know until you actually ask her.

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By *ellinever70Woman
7 days ago

Ayrshire

I like watching violent drama programmes

I don't want to run amok and do people in

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