FabSwingers.com forum: Help

west mosley

I’ve been on here a while as a single man, but I Haven’t met anyone yet, I’ve spoke to a few people but not gotten further unfortunately, any advice on what to do?is my profile okay? What can I improve? Or am I doing anything wrong ? I seem to just attract men / cross dressers

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By *redBlogs123Man
3 days ago

here and there

If you're not interested in guys or tv's you can block them from contacting you.

Profile seems ok although seems like you could be more specific about what you are looking for and what you bring to the party.

The pictures are all a bit "samey"

Your profile is your shop window. My experience having been on and off this site for a good few years is that not all single females go window shopping. (Purely my opinion I'm sure there's single females that do).

You have to go on the "charm" offensive. Take time, a lot of time messaging profiles within a reasonable radius of your location. Don't send some throw away one liner, crude opening or something you wouldn't say to the person face to face at a bar/coffee shop.

Make your message relevant to the profile you're engaging with, be respectful and if it's a couple then address both. Ask open ended questions and let them know what you're interested in, attach tasteful recent pictures.

Check your sent messages after a week or so if it's still unread and you're still interested in them a polite bump might help, you'll be aware women can get hundreds of messages so this might get your unread message back to the top of their list, but this could be a controversial approach but I've had some success in the past.

Treat no reply as a no thanks. Woman and couples simply don't have the time to reply to every single message, and for god sake don't remessage over and over trying to persuade the recipient otherwise.

If a meet is really what you want then you could always get over to your local club on a newbie night. I'm sure there's a few in the Brighton area.

Lots of others will have their own opinions, strategies and ways they use fab, find out what works for you and stick with it.

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford

The fact that you have no preference when it comes to age or body shape tells me you'd either fuck anything that moves, or you're trying to please everyone, which is not possible. Do have an honest think about it and be more specific.

The previous poster gave you some very good advice, too.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
3 days ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

You have a good figure and profile is a bit basic but not horrific , you do say size isn’t a preference but does that mean you not fussy as everyone wants to feel wanted?

If you were local we would have certainly looked you up x

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By *enchCoachDriver OP Man
3 days ago

west mosley

Thank you

! And when I say about the size etc- I don’t actually have a body type, more of a personality type of guy. And with age I don’t mind as long as it’s not like grandma if you know what I mean 😂 - thank you for the advice x

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford

"Thank you

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By *heSuccubusWoman
3 days ago

Darlington

18-99 year olds, no preference on size or looks..... your profile screams that you will do anyone!

I'm sure you wouldn't, but that is the vibe it gives.

That said, in your photos I wod probably give you a reply if you were local

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By *enchCoachDriver OP Man
3 days ago

west mosley

I’ve changed the age range now didn’t realise it was set so high, and no honestly I have no preference on body size, you could be slim or large I genuinely don’t care, as long as you have a good personality it’s fine. - thank you for your help. I appreciate it a lot

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By *eroLondonMan
3 days ago

Mayfair

I'm sorry to hear that you're not having much luck. I can understand it can be quite challenging.

I think the issue is perhaps your profile - nothing specific but a little bit of everything:

"Just your average guy ??"

Your headline comment: is this ^ a statement or a question?

"Just a guy looking for fun with woman or couples."

There is nothing unique in that statement. There are thousands of guys looking for fun with a woman or couples.

"Message for face photos due to the job I have. I can’t be showing my face on public photos."

No one is asking or expecting you to have your face on display in your profile. You can crop your face out of your photos. The "job" part comes across a pointless.

"I have no preference in age, or body type. Everyone needs fun here and there, just as long as you’re a nice person, and have good hygiene."

This is uninspiring and offers very little substance.

"I drive a vip coach for a living, ever thought of fucking on a mobile hotel? Let me know - you’ll never of been a coach like this"

You may as well take this paragraph out. After a whole year on here it's obvious no one finds this offer appealing.

"6ft 2, average sized cock, bald, and a beard."

Your just offering basic statistics and nothing interesting about yourself.

Your photos look similar, similar pose and theme. You need more photos and more variety.

I think you need to rewrite your profile text...and most women on here will recognise an AI attempt!

Good luck. 🌿

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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3 days ago

Central

You might be doing nothing wrong, as the vast majority of people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Here in Fab, it means that messages don't get a physical response, as no reply= no thanks.

You can potentially get to socials and clubs, to get to know people

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 days ago

Tonypandy.

I always suggest checking out a local organised social as a great way to meet new people and get your face known.

Most of my private / 1-1 meets have come as a result of people I've met via organised socials.

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