FabSwingers.com forum: Profile review

By *455IDY OP Man
16 hours ago

durham

New to the scene and fab in particular- trying to make the best profile (and first impression) possible; would love to have imput from my “target audience” I guess 😂 anyway- I hope you guys like what you see x

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By *ose_and_OakCouple
16 hours ago

Tamworth

In the main it’s not bad. You could do with explaining more about what you hope to find and what you offer but you’ve given a good insight into your personality.

Maybe revisit your photos - they’re a bit samey.

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By *eeshellsCouple
16 hours ago

Reading

Hallelujah, someone who has paid attention and crafted a semi-decent profile before asking and so doesn't need to have all the same mistakes pointed out.

Recommended tweaks would be: pictures are quite samey. Some variety would be better, maybe less clothes on one picture.

Otherwise main priority is what you are bringing to the party - why choose you?

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By *455IDY OP Man
16 hours ago

durham

So both replies have said “why choose you”, could I ask for some pointers as to what exactly it is that would be good to put in? I’ve noticed vulgarity is frowned on so saying “I have a big -“ won’t go down well haha I have a few ideas but don’t want to be generic so specifics would be appreciated

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By *455IDY OP Man
16 hours ago

durham

Ideas for photos would be great too if you have any poses or even abstract ideas (like the coffee cups in one profile that’s replied)

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By *iss DevilWoman
16 hours ago

Bedford

Regarding photos - some people like a somewhat teasing photos, maybe a torso shot with the shirt undone, or even bare torso but still in trousers? Another idea could be, bare torso and belt/, button in your trousers undone, without revealing anything?

Regarding bio - sounds good, in my opinion. You are still young and new to here so I'm guessing you haven't found your "niche", something that you particularly enjoy.

Also, congratulations on getting out there and getting your first veri, it shows you are not just after a quick hook up, but dipping your toes in the lifestyle. Keep it up.

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By *redBlogs123Man
16 hours ago

here and there

Not bad at all chap, and a verification within 2 weeks of joining is no mean feat. Keep doing what you're doing.

Next step is to find a way of approaching other members. Work out what works and what doesn't. It's very difficult to get noticed so make your messages count. Go on the offensive, don't wait for opportunities to fall in your lap.

IMO polite intros work best. Don't open with anything you wouldn't openly say in public. Be respectful and tailor your messages to the profile you're messaging.

If it's a no reply or unread I've found a gentle bump sometimes gets my messages to the top of the queue when online, but don't pester. If read and no reply take that as a no thank you.

When messaging couples include both. Again nice and respectful.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
16 hours ago

Hinckley

"New to the scene and fab in particular- trying to make the best profile (and first impression) possible; would love to have imput from my “target audience” I guess 😂 anyway- I hope you guys like what you see x"

Your last statement about being given a chance sounds desperate.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
15 hours ago

Hull

It's fine, take out the adult child bit - no need to hide what you are into, we are into the same, be proud of it and if people don't accept it, you don't want to meet them.

Nude pic wouldn't go amiss tbh.

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By *455IDY OP Man
15 hours ago

durham

Thank you for all the great advice- I’m a little self conscious hence the lack of nudity (I have some dick pics on the friends photo but nothing of my body) but if you all think that could make my profile stand out more I’ll see what I can come up with

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By *aithRestorerMan
15 hours ago

Bolton

"Thank you for all the great advice- I’m a little self conscious hence the lack of nudity (I have some dick pics on the friends photo but nothing of my body) but if you all think that could make my profile stand out more I’ll see what I can come up with "

I really dont think nude pictures are needed pal, keep them in friends inly and when asked for them produce them

For a new profile, this is great, clear and concise. The only pic I woudl remove is from 26th April, it's a gym flexing pic, the lighting is a tad off with it and makes you quite squat(which looking by your other pics is not the case).

You have a good bio, its good you have face pics as most people dont do this(even i dont anymore).

I get a right wholesome type vibe from you, keep attending clubs and getting yourself known, but as a starting point you are doing great. Good luck, be respectful and above all else have fun.

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By *ifestyle1Man
14 hours ago

southeast

I really dont think nude pictures are needed pal, keep them in friends inly and when asked for them produce them

You have a good bio, its good you have face pics as most people dont do this(even i dont anymore).

I get a right wholesome type vibe from you, keep attending clubs and getting yourself known, but as a starting point you are doing great. Good luck, be respectful and above all else have fun."

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By *ifestyle1Man
14 hours ago

southeast

Wounder if im worth here now after great times ive joing fab and things have changes

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By *harAndBryCouple
8 hours ago

Downham Market

Up there in the top 5% of profiles. Decent pics that give an idea of your body shape, clear face pics and sensible text.

We might be unusual in regards to couples, in that we don't know what you'd write to make us want to pick you, as we go for physical attraction first, then as long as we can hold a conversation and get along long enough to have a drink, we're happy.

Only minor niggle on your profile...would you really meet an 18yr old or a 99yr old? It's just a minor detail.

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