FabSwingers.com forum: Just starting out

By *eney OP Couple
3 days ago

west mids

Me and my hubby have been looking at venturing out with our sex life for a while, we wanted to start with a woman to join us for our first experience of it but this seems to be an impossible experience.

We have signed up to lots of different sites and spoke to loads of (what we thought were genuine people - how wrong were we!) we would chat for ages and exchange pics but when it came to asking to video call or meet up we got ghosted every time😩

This is our last go at joining a site and trying to meet genuine people. Has anyone else experienced this as much as us?

Any suggestions on the best ways to meet people would be great appreciated x

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By *ouplususCouple
3 days ago

Cheshire

We’ve found that going to clubs and meeting people face to face then creates opportunities for more meets, plus lots of messages to filter out the genuine from the not so…

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By *issmorganWoman
3 days ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, you'd be better trying to meet a bi fem in the real world ie at a club.

Most couples on fab want an ffm, so ladies are in high demand, as other ladies and men also want them.

Remember, it's not easy because they'd need to fancy and be comfortable with 2 people, if they look to meet a couple.

I'm not your target audience, but all I can say is make sure you're clear on what you're offering them and don't make it just about your fantasies.

On threads like this , couples have said they've been more successful at clubs meeting a lady who joins them.

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By *r_magic_tongueMan
3 days ago

Hull

Hi all, experienced guy with over 15yrs meeting couples and ladies.

If looking for a woman, I'd say upfront that a phone call is expected between the ladies after the 1st couple of messages on here.

It gives all involved extra confidence that all parties are who they say they are and can expedite things. It's also important for your safety, know whom you're chatting to!

From experience, I know that the majority of 'women' and 'couples' on here are actually men. As soon as a phone call is requested they ghost you. They just want sex chat & photos to wank over.

Do your due diligence, go at your speed and choose wisely. If anything feels wrong at any time, listen to your gut.

Clubs can be a good start, but not everyone likes to be public like that. Good luck in your search everyone!

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 days ago

Midlands

Most women who are open to meeting couples prefer to do so at a club, so they can have a real life chat get a feel of their personalities. Unfortunately the "women" you've been chatting to are likely to be Men who get a kick out of swapping sexy messages.

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford

OP, as others have said, clubs are your best bet for meeting genuine people. However, same as on here, single women are the smallest, and the most sought after, demographics so an effort is definitely needed to attract them. Have you considered maybe meeting a couple?

Even if nothing happens in the club, you might get some contacts for future possibilities.

As a side note, I am not a fan of calls/video calls, and would not entertain them with anyone. So you might to rethink whether it's a deal breaker for you or not.

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