FabSwingers.com forum: Voyeur meets

By *amcpl4 OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Looking for advice on the best way to go about this from people who have experienced this. We're both keen on being watched in a live situation by either a male or female but aren't really sure on the best way to go about it. How did anyone go about their first time doing it, did you use a club setting or a private setting like a hotel room? What are the pros and cons to each setting? Thanks in advance

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By *annyJ000Man
4 weeks ago

St Albans

Club setting for your first time, just make sure boundaries are set if you only wish to be watched. I remember my first time in this situation, was so erotic..

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

How do you set boundaries in a club?

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By *annyJ000Man
4 weeks ago

St Albans

If you go to a room leave the door open, someone will be there watching in seconds! Explain to them that you want to be watched, and not touched, they can pass that message on while you focus on enjoying yourself…

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Good advice, thanks

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By *annyJ000Man
4 weeks ago

St Albans

Until then, are you still enjoying the cams?

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yes, we love camming

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By *ourpornfixMan
4 weeks ago

East Cheshire

I prefer the privacy of a hotel room where you're meeting someone after a time of getting to know them. You can set expectations and boundaries up front, and meet them beforehand in the bar or wherever.

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By *uernseyFun50Man
4 weeks ago

Guernsey

"Yes, we love camming "

Me too. Would love cam to cam with you.

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By *lley-CatMan
4 weeks ago

Folkestone

I've been to a couple of clubs where one of the rooms has a stable-type door.

People who want to be watched but don't want others joining in can leave the bottom half closed and the top half open.

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By *ain debsMan
4 weeks ago

waterford

Personally we have experienced this ,found a guy set down ground rules no touching wanking for him was optional,met in ours cuppa to get aquatinted upstairs we fell into our own world barely noticed he was there great experience did meet twice more gave him a little more leeway overall great experience

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By *irebrand 1263Man
4 weeks ago

near you

Love to watch a couple play.

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
4 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.

Hugely erotic.

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By *entmike76Man
4 weeks ago

bury

Love watching people play

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By *uckurcumMan
4 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

I've had guys come in and watch me toy my arse and or just watch me wank ....it's all been predetermined what's going to happen ..some want to just watch n wank, cum then go. .others want to get more involved ...

Always make it clear what the narrative is ..it's your space their being invited into ...

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By *ohn 66Man
4 weeks ago

South Birmingham

"If you go to a room leave the door open, someone will be there watching in seconds! Explain to them that you want to be watched, and not touched, they can pass that message on while you focus on enjoying yourself…"

You might also chat to someone you like the look of, and explain the scenario you are after. Two advantages to this approach;

Firstly, before you even start playing in a private room you know there is someone who already knows to not let anyone enter your room, and

Secondly, the conversation you have will not only make your boundaries really clear, that chat might be a real turn on for all of you.

I've been in this scenario before and absolutely loved everything about it xx

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By *enmoss123Man
4 weeks ago

Hackney

"I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.

Hugely erotic. "

Willing to volunteer to do this if you need another guy 😘

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4 weeks ago

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By *done777Man
4 weeks ago

Northwest(Derry/Donegal)

Have had men & women come in & watch me play (all pre arranged) such a thrill being watched & seeing their expressions as I play

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By *he Gentleman.Man
4 weeks ago

Sitlington

I'm a voyeur and from my experience it's hard to find people who just want to be watched. I'm happy with only watching and pleasuring myself at the same time. Occasionally it leads to more, which is always nice but, if not I'm equally happy. Set boundaries beforehand and you'll find you will soon relax into it.

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By *uddle4uMan
4 weeks ago

Purbeck

I been to clubs and had the pleasure of being allowed to watch, some in communal areas and some in private rooms with a window with oneway glass or with curtains left slightly open to give that peeking tom vibe where only one person can see

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By *easeNtemptCouple
4 weeks ago

halifax

We’ve been watched in clubs before, would definitely like to find a local voyeur for private meets though

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By *acko452Man
4 weeks ago

maldon

I’d love to sit in same room and just watch..

Any Essex couples up for this get in touch

J x

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By *he Gentleman.Man
4 weeks ago

Sitlington

"We’ve been watched in clubs before, would definitely like to find a local voyeur for private meets though "
Happy to oblige and close enough to you.

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By *andy IanMan
4 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

I’ve experienced this a few times over the years most meets being in a hotel or their own homes. The important thing is to choose guys/ladies/couples who fully understand and accept that voyeurism is the only thing on offer. Agree if they are allowed to strip and pleasure themselves or each other when watching.

In clubs it’s normal to have strangers watch you have sex which could be in a private room with viewing windows.

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Thanks for everyone's input, some good advice for us to think about

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.

Hugely erotic. "

We love the thought of this

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.

Hugely erotic. "

So, so, hot! I'd love to be watched by a woman like this or watch each other while in our cars in a car park, or next to each other in neighbouring cubicles...you get the idea 😁

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By *ayingthepipeMan
4 weeks ago

N wales

I watched a young couple a few times , they asked me to sit on a chair in there front room and just watch they gave me their phone to take pictures and videos it was absolutely amazing the 3rd time I was asked to take my clothes off and join them for some oral fun , I genuinely didn't expect it

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By *ittleJohn5Man
4 weeks ago

Wickham Market

Still looking for that exclusive couple to let me watch

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By *annaPlayABCCouple
4 weeks ago

Bacup

"Looking for advice on the best way to go about this from people who have experienced this. We're both keen on being watched in a live situation by either a male or female but aren't really sure on the best way to go about it. How did anyone go about their first time doing it, did you use a club setting or a private setting like a hotel room? What are the pros and cons

to each setting? Thanks in advance "

Couple of years ago now we thought bringing a 3rd in to the bedroom sounded like fun so said something along them lines in our profile (and status too) stating specifically that we expect/would not want to touch them/them interact with us etc. We were not bothered if they wanted to play with themselves (would have even supplied kitchen roll for any spills) LOL.

But only responses we had were from males who were happy to watch..to begin with and then 'when my gf sees their appendage she wouldn't be able to help herself'! So many messages received all sounding very familiar to each other..hence to say all those senders were blocked.

I think ideally someone who we could 100% trust not to approach even though it's what we would post 'if' the thought ever entered our heads again.

I find though males do tend to push/want for more then get huffy when you remind them what was on offer in first place.

For us it would most likely be a quick social to see if we actually got on then back to ours if all happy..simply because of my 'size insecurity' we wouldn't dream of going to a club but maybe you are confident which always a plus thing.

Hope you find what you are looking for with this

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By *easeNtemptCouple
4 weeks ago

halifax

We were watched by multiple people in Cupids last night, we put on quite the show

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
4 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

Years ago when I had an affair at work he would often come into my office and stand at the side of my desk.

He’d watch as I hitched up my skirt and slid my hand inside my underwear and discreetly masturbated to a muffled climax, then he’d leave.

Both found it so erotic, and the sex later that day was off the chart!

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By *irebrand 1263Man
4 weeks ago

near you

"Years ago when I had an affair at work he would often come into my office and stand at the side of my desk.

He’d watch as I hitched up my skirt and slid my hand inside my underwear and discreetly masturbated to a muffled climax, then he’d leave.

Both found it so erotic, and the sex later that day was off the chart!"

Very hot

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By *ovelifexCouple
4 weeks ago

Swansea

This was the basis of our first encounter. Invited a guy over with boundaries very clearly set beforehand. Mrs enjoyed throwing herself around the bed to make a show for him and then invited him to finish over her. So hot.

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By *uernseyFun50Man
4 weeks ago

Guernsey

"This was the basis of our first encounter. Invited a guy over with boundaries very clearly set beforehand. Mrs enjoyed throwing herself around the bed to make a show for him and then invited him to finish over her. So hot. "

Very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"Years ago when I had an affair at work he would often come into my office and stand at the side of my desk.

He’d watch as I hitched up my skirt and slid my hand inside my underwear and discreetly masturbated to a muffled climax, then he’d leave.

Both found it so erotic, and the sex later that day was off the chart!"

Wow, just wow! So, so hot!! I need to watch and be watched 😁

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By *ig licks40Man
4 weeks ago

Scotland

My first ever experience watching was in a hotel. Exchanged messages weeks before the planned meeting. Drinks before hand at the hotel bar to break the ice was the perfect setting. The couple in question were very friendly newlyweds and put up a hot show for 3 rounds. I could say it was the most hottest experience I’ve had in person without partaking.

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By *ike Hunt888Man
4 weeks ago

Lancashire.

Had one voyeur meet want to try some more, very sexy.

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By *ozzy4Man
4 weeks ago

everywhere as travel for work

Wow, I'd love you to come and sit on my coach when I'm parked up and do it and then just leave when you're finished.

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By *ozzy4Man
4 weeks ago

everywhere as travel for work

I've done this a few times with couples where I've just watched and occasionally been either finished off by the wife or myself while watching.

I work in travel and stay hotels regularly so have been lucky to be able to accommodate for free.

I'd love to do it again and do travel to your area.

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By *icemember7Man
4 weeks ago

Worcester

The couple I met to watch them, invited me to meet them at a McDonalds to check me out, then when they were happy invited me back to their place, we all stripped and they gave me a camera to photograph them said I could play with my cock. then they fucked.

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By *he Gentleman.Man
3 weeks ago

Sitlington

"Years ago when I had an affair at work he would often come into my office and stand at the side of my desk.

He’d watch as I hitched up my skirt and slid my hand inside my underwear and discreetly masturbated to a muffled climax, then he’d leave. Excellent. Love this.

Both found it so erotic, and the sex later that day was off the chart!"

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By *ertiebassett61Man
3 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Would love to watch a couple. Have watched my wife with other guys but she doesn't do this now 😔

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Clubs tend to have areas with specific rules.

Areas where people can watch, but nobody can invite to join.

Areas where if you go, you'll have people ask to join in.

Its all about knowing the club and its specific rules.

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By *ardnutsMan
3 weeks ago

pensby

Went to nudist beach in southern spain last week. Saw a group of guys standing wanking so wandered over. A couple were naked and playing with a big cocked black guy. A number of guys including me watched whilst wanking. They did everything but fuck. None of the watches even tried to touch.bit of an unwritten rule of respect. Unless invited you don't touch. Was amazing. The respect given was spot on loved it and I cum when she did as she finger fucked herself as her husband and the black guy cum over her. Perfect day that was. Five guys watching and wanking. No awkward moments .

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By *andy IanMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I watched a young couple a few times , they asked me to sit on a chair in there front room and just watch they gave me their phone to take pictures and videos it was absolutely amazing the 3rd time I was asked to take my clothes off and join them for some oral fun , I genuinely didn't expect it "

This sounds amazing

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Mrs loves the thought of this, did you do it at home or in a hotel? X

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By *amcpl4 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Went to nudist beach in southern spain last week. Saw a group of guys standing wanking so wandered over. A couple were naked and playing with a big cocked black guy. A number of guys including me watched whilst wanking. They did everything but fuck. None of the watches even tried to touch.bit of an unwritten rule of respect. Unless invited you don't touch. Was amazing. The respect given was spot on loved it and I cum when she did as she finger fucked herself as her husband and the black guy cum over her. Perfect day that was. Five guys watching and wanking. No awkward moments . "

Love this!!

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By *orthampton jamesMan
3 weeks ago

Northampton

Any couple's looking for a discreet respectful man to heighten their experience of a voyouer meet please pm me

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By *orkshire500Man
3 weeks ago

Hull

Like to watch

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By *ichaelsmyMan
3 weeks ago

douglas

i guess a voyeur meet was probably my strangest ever meet with a couple from here.

the husband sat on the sofa, fully dressed, took no interest in anything going on around him. not even sure that he watched or anything.

i never did understand what he was getting from the experience.

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By *assionatecouple123Couple
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

We have been watched before at a hotel by an older single guy we met on fab. Chatted for a while to get a good feel about him and then met to check him out.

By the time we met up at the hotel it felt comfortable and relaxed.

He filmed us and masterbated as we fucked in front of him. As he was so well behaved I allowed him to play with my wife’s tits as she was being pleasured.

It was a very horny experience and our first introduction into the world of swinging.

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By *andy IanMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *adbod2015Man
3 weeks ago

Nantwich

Some good advice on here, definitely something I would enjoy doing again (the voyeur side) with a genuine couple.

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3 weeks ago

I would love to watch a couple of they want to be watched. Happy with no touching or asuch as they want. Anyone in Sheffield want this, outdoors or a hotel I can host?

Would love to watch a woman like this too but somewhat rarer I would imagine.

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By *rasshopper201Man
3 weeks ago

kendal

"I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.

Hugely erotic. "
was this watching the male or female very sexy with either

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By *lue peter321Man
3 weeks ago

LIVERPOOL

Would love the chance to view you discreet respect always x peter

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
3 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

"I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.

Hugely erotic. was this watching the male or female very sexy with either "

Me (Emma)

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By *ozzy4Man
3 weeks ago

everywhere as travel for work

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By *weetButNaughty95Couple
3 weeks ago

Cannock

Go to Townhouse, Birkenhead.

There's loads of play rooms designed to be watched by others. And people aren't pushy, no one will just join in unless you gesture them too.

So have fun, enjoy having a little audience and be safe.

And if your feeling upto it, who knows you may decide to try other things.

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By *PS81Man
3 weeks ago

Ashton

hey, I'm local ish, only an hour away, I'm definitely interested but can't message you.. check my profile, if you're interested, let me know, if not, that's cool too

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By *PS81Man
3 weeks ago

Ashton

I've sent you a pm 🤞🏻

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By *endall_IronbridgeMan
3 weeks ago

Shropshire

I meet a couple from here wanted to try we meet for a chat agreed what would happen that weekend they came over had few beers and they began was all very natural very sexy we continued to meet for several years after

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By *etmebeinurefantasiesMan
3 weeks ago

witney

I would absolutely love to meet a couple who would like to be watched. Especially if (obviously after concent), we arranged it so I was caught watching them, cock out and the fantasy scenario unfolded from there. It would be amazing

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3 weeks ago

Love that idea!!

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By *ohn1953Man
3 weeks ago

Abergele

You best go to a club and play on the open beds, that’s what I use to do when I use to go to clubs and met a woman or couple that was happy to go on the open beds because I just loved being watched because it was a big turn on for me, I know some use private rooms to play but if you like being watched the open beds are the best or a adult cinema is another good place to be watched too

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By *ohn1953Man
3 weeks ago

Abergele

"How do you set boundaries in a club?"

It’s simple if a guy gets to close tell them to back away and just watch, normally a guy should ask before touching unless ask too join you and that goes to other couples too and that’s the rule in every club . It’s you that set the boundaries and No mean No .

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By *akedMMan
3 weeks ago

Witney

I would so much love to watch a couple in person. I would like to be able to get naked and wank . Hopefully not just a one off

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
3 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

We enjoy the club scene and this is one of the reasons why... love being watched and love to watch.. a big turn on for us xx

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If at a club, choose the right voyeur ally, who will manage and understand that if boundaries are not respected, the shows is over and will convey this to the wanking dead

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By *adbod2015Man
2 weeks ago

Nantwich

This is definitely something I'd be interested in, preferably with a regular couple but not against different ones also.

I told the story in another thread but I watched an ex of mine and it was hot. We had split up but still friendly and at a party/BBQ she ended up being dared to take her tits out, she was quite shy so I was surprised she did. Fast forward the evening a bit and she ended up being dared to suck a cock that wasn't mine.

She chose a guy who's gf was there as we knew they were swingers and respectful. She sucked his cock in front of us all until he came.

Later on in time she let me watch her fuck another guy in our friendship group. I didn't join in just sat across the room and watched them, it's a horny experience and I'd love to do it again with a couple.

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By *rivemecrazy3773Man
2 weeks ago

SUNDERLAND

That is a great story. Really sexy

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By *andy IanMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *orkshire500Man
2 weeks ago

Hull

Sounds good

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