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By *heSuccubus OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Darlington

Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.

It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?

I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out

Thank you xx

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By *ittleJohn5Man
5 weeks ago

Wickham Market

Go with a silicone one with multiple base rings

First

The when have the size sorted go with metal

My personal favourite

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By *haznsteCouple
5 weeks ago

plymouth

You can get a few cheap cages on eBay to try out. Definitely recommend trying. We have for the last few years and really enjoyed it

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
5 weeks ago

Rotherham

Is your ultimate goal occasional chastity around meets or long term chastity?

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By *achel loves toysTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Merth Tydfil

I have tried a few and found the stainless steel most comfortable for me x

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By *heSuccubus OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Darlington


"Is your ultimate goal occasional chastity around meets or long term chastity?

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The former, leading to the latter x

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By *otfunx1Man
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Iv found it leads to longer term and control

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By *ev_1Couple
5 weeks ago

Bickliegh

Look at lockthecock site

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
5 weeks ago

keady

How big is his cock

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By *iscreetfunin24Man
5 weeks ago

Halesowen

I'm upto two days in my plastic one, works for me.

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By *mandamark99Couple
5 weeks ago

Bridgnorth

mark is locked 24/7 as part of our female led relationship. Start slowly. The metal cages are really suitable for long term wear. It depends what you’re looking for. mark now wears the holy trainer version 3. I like it because it has an integral lock and easier to get through airport security.

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By *oltonman69Man
5 weeks ago

Blyth

I like my metal one, love the weight of it, keeps me aware that my cock is locked

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By *ilverfox for youMan
5 weeks ago

Hull

Do you have to wear a waist band to keep flat ?

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By *idsAndyMan
5 weeks ago

Worcestershire


"mark is locked 24/7 as part of our female led relationship. Start slowly. The metal cages are really suitable for long term wear. It depends what you’re looking for. mark now wears the holy trainer version 3. I like it because it has an integral lock and easier to get through airport security. "

I love that you don't even remove it for the airport

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By *oyforGoddessMan
5 weeks ago

Chester Le Street

I've worn both plastic and metal. We've found plastic when worn for a while can be quite smelly. When showering, the metal one allows the cock to be cleaned better. Also think the weight of the metal one is more of a reminder to the wearer of his place in the relationship

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By *strokeC100Couple
5 weeks ago

chester

Weight can also cause it to sag a little , which is why some come with an additional belt to support it . We don’t care for the look of that , so if you are going for metal I’d make sure it was lightweight.

Agree with Amandamarks wise advice above . We currently use a Holy Trainer knock off from Amazon. Pretty good for several days , usually five or so here , before a couple ‘ free’.

Have pics and happy to share experiences if you’d like to dp.

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By *0scpl1Couple
5 weeks ago

leeds

The metal ones are more hygienic too as can be washed easily

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By *issyNicoleTV/TS
5 weeks ago

cork

I have a pink plastic one.its light and comfortable for long-term use,and discreet,it's called the feminizer v3.

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By *1nkseekersCouple
5 weeks ago

Bridgwater

We've gone with plastic for any kind of prolonged use

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
5 weeks ago

Rotherham


"Is your ultimate goal occasional chastity around meets or long term chastity?

The former, leading to the latter x"

I've been in chastity since 19 when I started my first of teo cuckold relationships, I prefer plastic myslef, and that's been my go too.

I have tried many styles sizes and materials over the years all have merits and disadvantages especially important for long term use . You'll probably go through a few before settling on yours .

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.

It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?

I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out

Thank you xx"

Does he have a profile here op? If so it might be best for him to ask, then he can ask any specific questions and give the info needed for the right advice maybe.

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By *heSuccubus OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Darlington


"Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.

It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?

I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out

Thank you xx

Does he have a profile here op? If so it might be best for him to ask, then he can ask any specific questions and give the info needed for the right advice maybe. "

Thank you for your reply.

We do have a couple's profile but in our relationship, this is an area in which I take the lead and make the decisions

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By *heSuccubus OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Darlington

Thank you all so much for taking the time and effort to reply and offer advice and recommendations.

I decided on the Holy Trainer and feminizer v3 to start out with and we'll go from there.

Once again, thanks to you all xx

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
5 weeks ago

Sheffield

I d love to be caged for someone

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By *artytymemeMan
5 weeks ago

Mansfield


"Thank you all so much for taking the time and effort to reply and offer advice and recommendations.

I decided on the Holy Trainer and feminizer v3 to start out with and we'll go from there.

Once again, thanks to you all xx"

Make sure you show him off in it.

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
5 weeks ago

East Anglia


"Thank you all so much for taking the time and effort to reply and offer advice and recommendations.

I decided on the Holy Trainer and feminizer v3 to start out with and we'll go from there.

Once again, thanks to you all xx"

Don’t forget to post pics he is lucky you have taken control of his cock

My Mr has learnt to live with his on all the time x

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By *ourpornfixMan
5 weeks ago

East Cheshire

Yes. we'd quite like to see how you have him caged.

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By *heSuccubus OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Darlington

I guess it would be rude not to share

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By *inkybimale31Man
2 weeks ago

hampshire


"Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.

It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?

I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out

Thank you xx"

So I am mostly a 24/7 chastity boy/girl now

Ideally you need to take measurements and get the right fit i also found that a larger cage at night to sleep in helps then over time the normal day cage will become a permanent cage and will only have to take it off for daily cleaning under your supervision of course

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By *eorgia82TV/TS
2 weeks ago

sunderland

I see you’ve already made your choice but I personally preferred the plastic one over the steel and didn’t feel very restricted with the silicone one.

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By *strokeC100Couple
2 weeks ago

chester


"I guess it would be rude not to share "

I think you made a good choice. How is he progressing in it? I would expect a big improvement in behaviour generally , particularly obedience to instructions and eagerness to please.

Have you shown pics somewhere? I couldn’t see. But we know what a looked cock looks like I guess!

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By *njoysfunMan
2 weeks ago

telford

Personally when I was in one I enjoyed the steel one as I liked the feel and weight of it and it held me in place when I wore it out

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By *otfunx1Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

She is caging me more and more now. Loves the tease and control she has

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By *tephanie 9090TV/TS
2 weeks ago

BISHOP

Stephanie just loves being caged, the denial is absolutely fabulous...XX

It concentrates your mind on only one thing. Your lovers satisfaction...

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By *ookingtojoinsomefunWoman
1 week ago

St Albans

My fwb wants me to cage him which I am willing to do but where do I start? How long should I leave him to start with? Or is it a case of how long he can last?

Sorry total beginner here lol

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By *heekycppl2016Couple
1 week ago

Worthing

How do you size and what is better metal v plastic x

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By *aveJones76Man
7 days ago

Rotherham

So wish my Mrs would lock my tiny useless cock away for good.

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By *heekycppl2016Couple
7 days ago

Worthing

Chastity back ring size. Normal to have small balls and smallish cock but large back ring?

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By *anus7Man
7 days ago

Chester

Choosing the right size base ring,

(40-42 mm is best IMO) and stainless is best,for the reasons stated,but plastic is ideal if you need to go through airports.

As an additional ordeal,try the ones with a piss pipe fitted,or small spikes inside the base ring..

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By *ee And MikeCouple
6 days ago

Cannock

As a cock caged cuck I feel naked without it, you become used to wearing it and the constriction it offers.

Metal cages are best but too impractical for everyday wear so a plastic ‘holy trainer’ style seems best for that.

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By *ohncukMan
4 days ago

london

Such a lucky hubby to have a lady into this

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
4 days ago

Staffordshire


"Such a lucky hubby to have a lady into this "

100% this. So wish Mrs N would lock me up but it's always at my behest and it just doesn't feel like I am a proper cuck

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By *ohncukMan
4 days ago

london


"Such a lucky hubby to have a lady into this

100% this. So wish Mrs N would lock me up but it's always at my behest and it just doesn't feel like I am a proper cuck "

Looks like you getting some good fun tho

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
3 days ago

drogheda

Plastic or silicon first, then metal.

Metal is super. Cold when it goes on but warms up. And allows no movement.

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By *omRachCouple
3 days ago

Wirral

I have worn a steel one on occasions when asked to and found them practical and easy to keep clean

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By *otfunx1Man
3 days ago

Edinburgh

She put me back in mine last night as we were browsing new ones. Now looking at nub one

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By *ust want fun 888Man
3 days ago

nearby

I am a bit nave through this, what exactly do cages do?

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By *eesepoutTV/TS
3 days ago

Stirlingshire


"I have tried a few and found the stainless steel most comfortable for me x"

agreed. You'd think that silicone or plastic would be better but I found them because the stick to skin and dont breathe as well more uncomfortable for longer wearing.

Metal was a game changer. Can go a long time wearing it. But I do like a girly pink elasticated belt to hold it in place better, metal obviously is heavier.

Try places like "lock the cock" as its got guides for sizes too. x

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