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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, a friend of mine (mr) keeps going on about how wild his sex life is, now I just listen and think wow you have no clue how dull that. Sounds even tho he thinks its realy great he keeps saying im boaring (lol) if only he knew. But recently he has talked about him and his missus swinging and I dont know if to tell him about fab ?? Mrs just says up to me lol that helps alot just dont know if this would be a good idea as he is realy open about things and im actualy very private lol. Still makes me laugh how he is under this illusion that im dead nieve and boaring lmao xxx thanks for the help guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, a friend of mine (mr) keeps going on about how wild his sex life is, now I just listen and think wow you have no clue how dull that. Sounds even tho he thinks its realy great he keeps saying im boaring (lol) if only he knew. But recently he has talked about him and his missus swinging and I dont know if to tell him about fab ?? Mrs just says up to me lol that helps alot just dont know if this would be a good idea as he is realy open about things and im actualy very private lol. Still makes me laugh how he is under this illusion that im dead nieve and boaring lmao xxx thanks for the help guys xxx "

It sounds like he's probably massively indiscreet if he's constantly going on to you about his sex life...if not being considered boring is worth sacrificing your privacy for then go ahead...we just like to smile to ourselves at the irony when it happens to us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can of worms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, a friend of mine (mr) keeps going on about how wild his sex life is, now I just listen and think wow you have no clue how dull that. Sounds even tho he thinks its realy great he keeps saying im boaring (lol) if only he knew. But recently he has talked about him and his missus swinging and I dont know if to tell him about fab ?? Mrs just says up to me lol that helps alot just dont know if this would be a good idea as he is realy open about things and im actualy very private lol. Still makes me laugh how he is under this illusion that im dead nieve and boaring lmao xxx thanks for the help guys xxx

It sounds like he's probably massively indiscreet if he's constantly going on to you about his sex life...if not being considered boring is worth sacrificing your privacy for then go ahead...we just like to smile to ourselves at the irony when it happens to us..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is what I have been thinking lol xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hi guys, a friend of mine (mr) keeps going on about how wild his sex life is, now I just listen and think wow you have no clue how dull that. Sounds even tho he thinks its realy great he keeps saying im boaring (lol) if only he knew. But recently he has talked about him and his missus swinging and I dont know if to tell him about fab ?? Mrs just says up to me lol that helps alot just dont know if this would be a good idea as he is realy open about things and im actualy very private lol. Still makes me laugh how he is under this illusion that im dead nieve and boaring lmao xxx thanks for the help guys xxx "

Those who talk about it, aren't getting it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can of worms."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely would not tell him! Like others have said he does not sound particularly discreet. Some things are just best kept private

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


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It sounds like he's probably massively indiscreet if he's constantly going on to you about his sex life...if not being considered boring is worth sacrificing your privacy for then go ahead...we just like to smile to ourselves at the irony when it happens to us..."

Me too, I have one friend who knows I'm adventurous and openminded towards sex, but even she doesn't know the extent! I like the fact it's between us without other people judging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, a friend of mine (mr) keeps going on about how wild his sex life is, now I just listen and think wow you have no clue how dull that. Sounds even tho he thinks its realy great he keeps saying im boaring (lol) if only he knew. But recently he has talked about him and his missus swinging and I dont know if to tell him about fab ?? Mrs just says up to me lol that helps alot just dont know if this would be a good idea as he is realy open about things and im actualy very private lol. Still makes me laugh how he is under this illusion that im dead nieve and boaring lmao xxx thanks for the help guys xxx "

If he and his wife are genuinely interested in swinging the chances are they will come across Fab with or without your help, if not there are plenty of other sites for them to check out and/or use.

What you do is your business, does it make any difference to you that he knows. Like others have said, I would just sit back, feel smug and take the "if only you knew" approach.

Those who are genuinely having fun and enjoying it generally dont shout it from the rooftops, they dont feel the need!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Don't shatter his illusions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for the responses guys I think I will carry on letting him think we are boaring lol seems more fun just hope we dont bump into him at a club lol

Thanx again xxx

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Makes me think of an ex who went around telling all his mates that we'd fucked and "it was so good he made me black out" - when in actual fact, I just fell asleep...

Most men who feel the need to boast have nothing to boast about. Remember before you out yourself that it could all just be lip-service.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it....really not worth the questions afterwards. Your business is your business.....x

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By *exy n up 4 itCouple
over a year ago

western isles

is there any possibility that he knows or at least suspects about you being into swinging and is doing a bit of fishing and trying to get you to come out?

His approach does seem a little forward and may be his clumsy way of trying to get to the truth.

I wouldnt tell him if it was me and may even feign a lttle shock and annoyance at his sexual tales to attempt to put him off the scent..................

best of luck whatever you decide

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"is there any possibility that he knows or at least suspects about you being into swinging and is doing a bit of fishing and trying to get you to come out?

His approach does seem a little forward and may be his clumsy way of trying to get to the truth.

I wouldnt tell him if it was me and may even feign a lttle shock and annoyance at his sexual tales to attempt to put him off the scent..................

best of luck whatever you decide "

Very astute, hadn't thought of that!

Maybe he does know the OP is a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I hope not thank you so much guys xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him you heard about this site from you carnt remember who who said they stumbled across it just block newbies if he comes on then fish find out his name and block him that way he can be on and cannot see you thats what I would do have done to be honest ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they new to swinging? My hubby made this mistake with a friend who who was interested in the lifestyle but the wife was not so keen on the idea yet. She was very insecure about it all. It caused an argument between them. I felt obligated to talk to her about it from a women's point of view and kinda explain our personal views about it. I wasn't to happy about bringing them into our personal life like that but they are good friends. Then she propositioned me

Which made it even more awkward because i don't find her attractive in the least. Had to kinda let her down easy....so i say keep it a secret unless of course you find them attractive and are interested in helping them live their fantasy because thats probably where the conversation will lead i bet

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