FabSwingers.com forum: The bigger guy (not cock)

By *oc101 OP Man
3 weeks ago

sheffield

Wondering if there actually are women out there that like the bigger guy.

I'm an easy going guy but seems like people don't get past the initial view of me.

Yes it's hard for a single guy, used to have a friend but she now settled down and off the site.

Thanks

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By *abulincsCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincoln

Height wise yes as I’m tall myself but if overweight big no I like fitter guys like hubby

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By *oc101 OP Man
3 weeks ago

sheffield

That's my downfall I know I'm overweight and working hard on it but that's all people see. And I get it. Don't like what you see then won't go anywhere

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Nobody is everyone's cup of tea, but I'm sure theres lots of ladies that like the larger guy.

It's not criticism, but its a common thing that people don't like solo accounts having pictures of other people in them....that may be worth researching.

Good luck with your search.

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By *oc101 OP Man
3 weeks ago

sheffield

Cheers if I take the friend out if definitely not have any views never mind message.

Definitely alot harder being solo now.

And taking a decent pic well that's not great. But I'll keep hoping

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
3 weeks ago

South East

I’m a bigger guy and never really had a problem meeting women be it in the vanilla world or swinging. I’m 6ft5” 22st with broad shoulders and a belly, so I’m not everyone’s type and that’s fine but there are plenty of women that like my type as well. My Mrs is stunning so it is possible

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By *oc101 OP Man
3 weeks ago

sheffield

Not as tall but definitely heavier. Great when I played rugby.

Hope you don't mind but I agree. Your Mrs is stunning

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
3 weeks ago

South East

"Not as tall but definitely heavier. Great when I played rugby.

Hope you don't mind but I agree. Your Mrs is stunning "

Don’t mind at all, I’m in full agreement lol

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By *apperleymanMan
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Confidence.. it beats all other attributes (as long as it doesn’t venture into arrogance) if you’re happy in your own skin then that is in itself attractive.

You’re not going to be for everyone but you will be just what a lot of women are looking for..

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
3 weeks ago

South East

"Confidence.. it beats all other attributes (as long as it doesn’t venture into arrogance) if you’re happy in your own skin then that is in itself attractive.

You’re not going to be for everyone but you will be just what a lot of women are looking for.. "

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
3 weeks ago

Newport

It seems like ton fab it's more acceptable to like Bbws than big men which is harsh. I'm a bi hubby and I like bigger men and bears but I'm not really looking for me I'm looking for both of us. But there's definitely women out there who like bigger men just not as many as men who like bigger women.

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By *andL237Couple
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We feel it’s about the person, not their size in any sense of the word but each to their own. Some like gym fit and some prefer personality over aesthetics and the “perfect“ person

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By *aandLoCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

I love bigger guys so was interested to see your body shape. Didn't get beyond your first few photos and as they all seem to contain someone else I didn't notice you, just stopped looking. That's far more off putting for me, not the body shape of a guy.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
3 weeks ago

South East

I am a fan of big guys- my own big lad being the sexiest man in the planet! However reading your bio, describing various types of women as “experiences you’d like to achieve” is pretty degrading and dehumanising. I’d rethink your wording there as I doubt I’ll be the only one that is turned off by that.

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By *ENW coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

west lancs

Big guys work for us

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

It is not a deal breaker, as such but a factor.

If I really really got on with someone then I’d consider it. But for random hook ups no

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By *ose and her beastCouple
2 weeks ago

Watford

I prefer bigger guys myself but there are alot of people on here with very specific wants and needs

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By *an1978Woman
2 weeks ago

Gwynedd/ Powys Border

"I am a fan of big guys- my own big lad being the sexiest man in the planet! However reading your bio, describing various types of women as “experiences you’d like to achieve” is pretty degrading and dehumanising. I’d rethink your wording there as I doubt I’ll be the only one that is turned off by that. "

I agree with the above...

I went to your profile, went to pics, thought personality depending it isn't a problem, then read the profile text

I wouldn't necessarily change it, if that is what you're like then it will find like minded people.

As for the being bigger there are ways around it if you feel it is in the way, lady on top, lady on table with man standing, I can't explain the perpendicular spooning but it is great :D

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