FabSwingers.com forum: Glory holes and dark room etiquette

By * Couple From Europe OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Based Hull/ Travel Humberside- Leeds

Hi,

Just wondering if there is any glory holes etiquette? Is it ok for male to explode etc? Also for female glory holes/pizza ovens- what is the best way to use one for a female if she only wants safe sex with condoms?

As for dark rooms- do you enter one and start asking if anyone is ok to be touched etc or is it the go in and explore by touch?

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By *rasshopper201Man
4 weeks ago

kendal

I’ve always gone into dark rooms with the intention that’s it’s fair game to touch simple reason that all are in there to have sex if they only want to pick out the right people then the bar or lounge are there as for gloryholes I’ve always exploded using them that’s what there for but as for pizza oven well I’m sure it’s only pure etiquette to wear a condom unless other wise instructed not to the one which I’ve seen in Blackpool was a queue of men waiting for there turn and hubby making sure they all had condoms on

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

I think you have to accept that if you go into a dark room, then you're going to get touched by people who haven't asked, because you can't sensibly chose who can and can't touch you.

Last time I went in one, there was a guy who kept on trying to grab my cock, so we left...

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By *abellavitaCouple
3 weeks ago

West Sussex

As mentioned by someone else, it's hard to dictate rules in a dark room but there are different ways of approaching. Anyone with any decency would start with gentle stroking and touching of non intimate areas. The build up is half the excitement.

We've been in dark rooms where a guy will walk up and try to put his hand straight in her knickers. Completely ruined the experience and we left.

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By *entdingdongCouple
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

The dark room thing we have done but not always easy to ensure whats going inside pussy so we prefer and have enjoyed the female glory hole, and yes we have enjoyed the one in Blackpool,as hubby can ensure I can enjoy all the pleasure with condoms used. Mind you on one occasion at the same time I enjoyed sucking one from the other side of the barrier at the same time and enjoyed a nice load of spunk over my breasts, whilst being fucked by some really good cocks the other end.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When in a dark room I always want to say, 'Take your hands off, no not you, but you.'

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By *inky PerkyCouple
3 weeks ago

Narnia

Gloryhole etiquette is to knock on the wall just before you cum so it's not an unwanted surprise. Never liked dark rooms.

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By *ispleasureonlyCouple
3 weeks ago

yeovil

Sorry we are new to the world of this. Any locations south west way?

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By *he MinionMan
3 weeks ago

Surrey

I have only been in a proper dark, dark room once and was asked to join a couple who were also wanted to try it for the first time. This was at Ignite.

With my limited experience of dark rooms, I would say that by entering you are giving consent to be touched by anyone.

The couple i went with, she didnt enjoy it so all 3 of us left pretty quick

Never used a gloryhole or a dutch oven but the women i have been with who have, always say have a partner there to make sure condoms are being used, simply because you cant see.

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By *akat158Couple
3 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Next time we go back to Chams, we're going to ask a similar question about the dark room they have with the round bed in the middle.

From watching, it looked like anyone on the middle bed could interact with one another. People sat round the outside interacted with partners.

So we copied that when we joined the middle bed.

But afterwards we thought 'what if the people we watched at the beginning all knew each other and we just committed a faux pas?'

So will find out for sure when we go again.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
3 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

The dark room at Chams isn't very dark. I'd say that rough rules for the round bed are:

1) single males only get on the bed if invited,

2) for couples the show awareness of other couples on the bed, and preferably ask before joining in. Though a smile may substitute for asking with care.

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By *mbersquirterCouple
3 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

We love to try them out probably but before we do it, we like to know the rules and how to do it safely so we can enjoy it xxx

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By *ccasional.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

midlands, but travel to clubs

We never saw that round room at chams, but go again in 3 weeks, so will look out for it

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By *quarius1Couple
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

It’s right next to the bottom of the stairs (in the same section as the showers)

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By *aughty-oneMan
3 weeks ago

Stansted

"We never saw that round room at chams, but go again in 3 weeks, so will look out for it"

If it’s your first time at Chams, as it’s such a maze of a club it can be easy to not find certain rooms or areas.

The round room is tucked away off the back staircase and is more a dimly lit group/ orgy room, which may not be the best place for those that are not familiar with club etiquette or rules.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
3 weeks ago

walsall

Regardless of what room it is we would still like to be asked before someone starts playing or touching

Non consent in any form shouldn't be tolerated x

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By *ebauchery DivineWoman
3 weeks ago

Down in Dickleburgh Drive

"Next time we go back to Chams, we're going to ask a similar question about the dark room they have with the round bed in the middle.

From watching, it looked like anyone on the middle bed could interact with one another. People sat round the outside interacted with partners.

So we copied that when we joined the middle bed.

But afterwards we thought 'what if the people we watched at the beginning all knew each other and we just committed a faux pas?'

So will find out for sure when we go again."

The round room at chams isn't a proper dark room. You can see everything that's happening in there, unlike proper dark rooms that are usually pitch black.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
3 weeks ago

Somerset

We don’t do dark rooms or pizza ovens but both enjoy glory holes together and would be very happy if those on the other side were to cum. We have not found the round room at Chams either!

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
3 weeks ago

keady

Love sucking in the glory holes

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By *ohn8210tCouple
3 weeks ago

Warwick

Can someone elaborate on the difference between a female glory hole and a pizza oven please. Or is the the same thing?

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By *ccasional.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

midlands, but travel to clubs

"Can someone elaborate on the difference between a female glory hole and a pizza oven please. Or is the the same thing?"

Same thing. They are designed for lady to lay down behind a wall, with her lags, pussy and ass sticking out through an opening that resembles a pizza oven. This allows guys to fuck her without her having any idea who it is

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By *ohn8210tCouple
3 weeks ago

Warwick

Ok thank you . Fiona really likes the idea.

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By *enlikesbothMan
3 weeks ago

york or visiting

"Ok thank you . Fiona really likes the idea. "

Ha me too! Where’s all the pizza ovens in Yorkshire then!

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By *NT!Couple
3 weeks ago

Bristol

We really enjoy the glory holes, but the only etiquette faux pas that irritate us is when the guys hang around at the door waiting for us to leave so they can introduce themselves.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
3 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Ahhh us too!!! Hate that, love sucking on some random cock, but if we wanted to see or do anything with the rest of their body, we wouldn’t sit the other side of a cock sized hole! Lol

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
3 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Have used the dark rooms years ago at abfabs but fuck was it aggressive… it wasn’t ‘let’s have fun stranger in the dark larks’ more like ‘ah she’s female… I fuck that now’

The dark rooms at pleasures are much more fun, and respectful.

Think the point is, it’s not the dark rooms concept, but the people inside it!

Always observe who’s going in and out before venturing in maybe!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Coventry

"Hi,

As for dark rooms- do you enter one and start asking if anyone is ok to be touched etc or is it the go in and explore by touch?"

1. Groy holes are a bit of a big boys/girls rules environment, both side of the wall. All who enter walk into a space based on some basic assumptions and very little else. So whichever side of the wall you go you have to be ok with that and free just to let yourself go a little. Don't go into a glory whole unless you are totally ok with receiving pleasure from whoever is behind that wall (whatever their gender). It's totally OK to explode (unless to do otherwise has somehow been communicated). They are in control of your cock with the understanding you may cum (which is also normally their objective). Be respectful by ensuring your cock is clean and fresh. Personally I don't like glory holes, I find them very impersonal which I get is sort of the point but it don't float my boat.

2. Female glory holes we tried. What work well was me standing next to the hole ensuring order and everyone who wanted to join in was wearing unused protection. Always watch the put on a clean one out the packet and ensure they put it on correctly. So you need to keep your wits about you and an eye on everyone as you do occasionally get someone trying to do something they shouldn't (for example using the condom they've just fucked another woman with). But on the whole the guys are fine, behaved and you share a few smiles from the shared enjoyment of watching her fucked over and over again. I enjoyed it. But again it's a little impersonal and not so much a winner for us.

3. Dark rooms again, big boys/girls rules. Especially if we are talking proper pitch black dark rooms where you literally can't see anything (we've only ever been in one that dark). Again you have to be totally ok with being touched by anyone. Obviously if you decide you don't want to be touched by the person you've encountered you can just politely move their hand away and say no thank you. It's kind of hot the prospects of hands touching you out of no where. Or the being totally able to discover a stranger by the feel and contors of their body. However if you have family who attend the same club (as sometimes happens) best to stay away from the dark rooms

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By *imi123Couple
3 weeks ago

derby

Chams round room, while not completely dark, is our favourite. We have had some great times in that room

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
3 weeks ago

Leicester

"Chams round room, while not completely dark, is our favourite. We have had some great times in that room "

Us too. I think it's fair to say that fun can also be had around the edges of the room, not just on the round bed. We had a memorable session there once that happened on that sort of triangular bed/shelf in the corner opposite the door

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
3 weeks ago

Leicester

We have tried a female GH once and it was hot. would be interesting to do it again in a venue and at a time when there was a better quantity and quality of gents though

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By *stwo80Couple
3 weeks ago

yorkshire

"Chams round room, while not completely dark, is our favourite. We have had some great times in that room

Ooooh that triangular shelf has been the place for fun on a few occasions for us too

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I'd love to try a glory hole, but I want to know who's on the other side.

I'm straight, so its never going to happen sadly.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
3 weeks ago

Leicester

"I'd love to try a glory hole, but I want to know who's on the other side.

I'm straight, so its never going to happen sadly. "

But surely the whole point of a glory hole is that you DON'T know who is on the other side

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I'd love to try a glory hole, but I want to know who's on the other side.

I'm straight, so its never going to happen sadly.

But surely the whole point of a glory hole is that you DON'T know who is on the other side

To a degree yeah I agree.

But as a heterosexual man.....I'd like to know its not another man on the other side.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

With a dark room, If I go in there I expect to be touched.

However, I’m more likely to allow the touching to continue if the guy asks first.

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By *he MinionMan
3 weeks ago

Surrey

I often wear a light up tongue stud. So if i keep my mouth shut the dark room stays dark.

If i'm curious to know who else is in there, i open my mouth and it illuminates the room nicely 🤣🤣

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
3 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"However, I’m more likely to allow the touching to continue if the guy asks first.

But doesn't asking destroy some of the anonymity? You can tell a lot from someone's voice.

(I'm thinking that I must brush up on my Keir Starmer impression...)

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By *olly rogeredCouple
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

We love the semi dark room at Chams, even though we don’t swap, we have a great time with everyone around us particularly when there is another couple on the sofa next to us. The reopened dark room at Infusions is fun too, it’s cozy and properly dark!

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By *1bttmMan
3 weeks ago

Shoreditch east London

"Gloryhole etiquette is to knock on the wall just before you cum so it's not an unwanted surprise. Never liked dark rooms."

Really? I've been using them for "many many" yrs including the original ones not in sex club! I've never experienced or heard that.

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By *r_K85Man
3 weeks ago

bedford

"I'd love to try a glory hole, but I want to know who's on the other side.

I'm straight, so its never going to happen sadly. "

Same, i wanna try it but knowing its a woman on the other side.

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By *plelikesfun123Couple
2 weeks ago

Basildon

"We really enjoy the glory holes, but the only etiquette faux pas that irritate us is when the guys hang around at the door waiting for us to leave so they can introduce themselves. "

We both love playing with cocks through a glory hole. But hate the guys wanting outside for us to go in or after playing the guys waiting outside to say hello.

We have been to clubs overseas where they have separate entrances to either side of the wall. Haven't found any clubs in the UK with a setup like that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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2 weeks ago

Central

I think it's more appropriate to indicate that you are there and potentially up for action, than fully diving in - so hold back from full-on gripe. You might have had time for your eyes to adjust and they might not even have got their balance and bearings. If it's a gloryhole, you can flash your wares or a finger, the latter to invite their entry..

It's polite to indicate you're about to cum - as some suckers will enjoy sucking but won't want to swallow.

I've not used dark rooms much but getting ambushed as soon as you enter, by those who have lay in wait, is off-putting. It could suggest desperation or trying to beat others to you.

It could be the 1st time in the room for someone and they won't know the layout, etc - so letting them settle in and be more comfortable, is priority.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"We really enjoy the glory holes, but the only etiquette faux pas that irritate us is when the guys hang around at the door waiting for us to leave so they can introduce themselves "

This is so true. A minority of guys just don't understand that the whole point of the glory hole is the anonymity

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By *ee And MikeCouple
2 weeks ago

Cannock

We first encountered a ‘pizza oven’ whilst on holiday in Germany a few years ago, didn’t know what is was called then !

Interesting scenario and play, don’t know if it was a continental thing, but most guys seemed to want to fuck bareback, but the mix of ages of guys and cock types gives a great thrill to the experience !

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