FabSwingers.com forum: Any tips

By *andyman2-4-7 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Hi just wondering why I’m finding it so hard to get a meet on here is it this hard for everybody or am I doing something wrong 😅

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Most people find it hard to get a meet off here, and you've only been on site for 6 weeks. What were you expecting when you joined?

Women and couples do read profiles and they tend to make decisions very quickly whether they want to invest in conversation with the person. Do you think your profile makes you stand out from thousands of other single men profiles? Do you let your potential play partner(s) know what you can offer them, sexually? Your age range is rather restrictive, too, but it's your choice.

Also, you cannot accommodate. Many will see it as "married/attached and playing behind their partner's back" which is not necessarily always the case. You can explain in your bio why you cannot accommodate but you don't have to, again it's your choice.

It is best to treat Fab as "catch up service" with people you met in real life, either in clubs or at organised socials, rather than rely purely on it to get meets. Though clubs/socials are not everyone's cup of tea.

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By *enAndJadeCouple
4 weeks ago

Somerton

You’ve asked for feedback so I’ll be honest - your photo would mean I wouldn’t proceed in any contact because it looks like I’d either been heavily edited or is fake in some way - it feels sus from the outset.

I don’t feel any sense of your personality from the profile. You only have that one pic and your bio is very short and fairly generic. There’s nothing that would make me interested in exploring further.

I’m sure you have better photos you could use which say more about you as a person or what you can offer.

Best of luck.

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By *oiluvfunMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Hi just wondering why I’m finding it so hard to get a meet on here is it this hard for everybody or am I doing something wrong 😅"

You made the basic error of being a solo male in Fab mate. Try coming back as a woman, where your "why can't I get a meet/why does nobody answer my messages" will become "Not meeting anyone new/too many messages to reply to all"...

Get out in the real world mate! If you're looking to meet women, you need to put yourself where women are. That just isn't in Fab

Look at Fab as a cheeky way to pass the time while you're online. There is so much more to life than this app. Good luck mate

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By *acavityMan
4 weeks ago

Redditch

Profile is bland

Not offensive, but doesn’t stand out.

It’s better than the average, but you need to polish it, refine it until it is great.

And there are hundreds of single men clamouring for attention of a small number of women and couples. So

Tell them why they should pick you, what you can do to make them happy and be clear about what you want in return.

This may reduce the quantity of people who are possibly interested, but the quality is much better

Good luck, we all need it

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