FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Advice

By *editerraneanMatt OP Man
4 weeks ago

Northampton

Heyy Guys, hope you're all enjoying the lovely weather.

Would love some profile advice, I know coming to forums for advice is brutal but im here for it haha xx

By *elaninMaverickWoman
4 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Heyy Guys, hope you're all enjoying the lovely weather.

Would love some profile advice, I know coming to forums for advice is brutal but im here for it haha xx"

Unfortunately, a lot of women on here are middle-aged and are used to men communicating with words...not just visuals.

I'm autistic, and my brain doesn't connect to visuals at all.

But I get it. Your generation has lost the art of writing and using words.

We've done you a disservice.

On the plus side, you can learn to communicate by writing, so I suggest starting off with some videos/reels/shorts about it and practice writing about 30 minutes a day. You don't have to be a poet or an author but basic communication requires filling out a bio, profile, emails, etc. If you want kids, you have to write an application for their nursery and school place, describing your child.

Good luck. Your photos are good.

By *eeshellsCouple
4 weeks ago

Reading

You seem to be relying on your pictures. That's not going to work on a huge chunk of the women on here. Lots more info about you, what you're looking for and most importantly what someone is going to get from meeting you.

By *harAndBryCouple
4 weeks ago

Downham Market

"Heyy Guys, hope you're all enjoying the lovely weather.

Would love some profile advice, I know coming to forums for advice is brutal but im here for it haha xx"

Lose the emojis on the pics - crop, blur, etc, looks much more "grown up".

Write a profile.