FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Advice Please!

By (user no longer on site) OP
4 weeks ago

I'm asking for genuine advice please, what's wrong with my profile? I'm not getting any responses other than no response or not my type (not even a wink lol)

thanks... why!? What am I doing wrong?

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By *inkn12Man
4 weeks ago

London/ Sunderland

It’s not you bro it’s the state of this site atm, too many time wasters unfortunately

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By *inkPomPomWoman
4 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Its the emoji faces guys, they're not hot

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By *ngry IngridWoman
4 weeks ago

Cardigan

You've been here 7 weeks which is no time at all.

Your photos are ok apart from the emoji faces so maybe think about changing them for something less emoji like. Not saying you have to show your face but consider photos without faces or blur it out.

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By *ercuryMikeMan
4 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

3rd time you’ve asked for profile advice in the last 2 days.

Ok they were in different forums and one had no response but really?

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By *redBlogs123Man
4 weeks ago

here and there

Your profile is your shop window. My experience having been on and off this site for a good few years is that not all single females go window shopping. (Purely my opinion I'm sure there's single females that do). You have to go on the "charm" offensive. Take time, a lot of time messaging profiles within a reasonable radius of your location. Don't send some throw away one liner, crude opening or something you wouldn't say to the person face to face at a bar/coffee shop. Make your message relevant to the profile you're engaging with, be respectful and if it's a couple then address both. Ask open ended questions and let them know what you're interested in, attach tasteful recent pictures. Check your sent messages after a week or so if it's still unread and you're still interested in them a polite bump might help, you'll be aware women can get hundreds of messages so this might get your unread message back to the top of their list, but this could be a controversial approach but I've had some success in the past. Treat no reply as a no thanks. Woman and couples simply don't have the time to reply to every single message, and for god sake don't remessage over and over trying to persuade the recipient otherwise. If a meet is really what you want then you could always get over to your local club on a newbie night.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Its the emoji faces guys, they're not hot"

Yeah I thought this too. If you're going to cover your face, use a blur tool. The emojis are a bit childish (no offense intended, just my view).

Your profile reads well. Maybe have more torso pictures up also, thighs and bum are always nice to see too!

Good luck!

Freyja x

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By *harAndBryCouple
4 weeks ago

Downham Market

"What am I doing wrong?"

Why would anyone offer any advice when you've been asking the same question for three days and not even had the manners to acknowledge people's replies?

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
4 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Sadly mate you probably never will , I haven't met any woman /couples by meeting on fab over year ,I get more Action on Tinder , Hinge , Pof, When I was on here as a couple it was amazing so many meets , club meets , private party's.loads of verifications,sadly when you're not a couple profile all those people you met show there true colours .

Single guys not many people on here looking for us .

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By *CExeCouple
4 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

You literally have Within Temptation club on your doorstep. Get along there, get chatting to folks and get to know people on the scene. Treat it like networking; chatting to people, having a drink and seeing if you're the right fit. Forums are all well and good, but as a single bloke, you're up against it and have to up your game and get out and about.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"User no longer on site"

Well there's a surprise. I'm not going to reply to these flakes anymore, far too tedious.

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