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"Idiots I’ve let any one down by not showing up dreamers all of them " Do we have to put the words in a different order, to make a sentence that can be understood? | |||
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"Idiots I’ve let any one down by not showing up dreamers all of them " So you let a lot of people down then? | |||
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"I want to organise mmmmmf By I keep reading on here then men don’t show. Is that your experience?" I always show | |||
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"I want to organise mmmmmf By I keep reading on here then men don’t show. Is that your experience?" My first threesome was supposed to be a gangbang for the wife of a couple, but the other two guys didn’t turn up. That’s my one experience of guys not showing up? 🤷♂️ There are plenty of people in here hosting private gangbangs regularly, perhaps contact them directly, and ask their advice? Many will steer you towards the club scene, which does have some advantages, but you are always limited to who is there on the night, and they may not be to your taste…..👍 | |||
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"Yeah...some of them turn up with no shoes 🤣🤣🤣. One day FAB will figure out how to edit posts" Or users will spot the ‘Preview post’ tab before posting…..🤭 | |||
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"If I agree to meet I'd definitely turn up. I hate the thought of letting people down." This is so me too. I am very upfront, if i wont come, i'ld let you know if i say i will show up, expect me to. I dont have much time for fun anyway, so im not wasting it for nothing. | |||
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"Men dont need to be with you to ejaculate Its enough if they get you to titilate them Then on to the next adventure " 🤭 | |||
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"I want to organise mmmmmf By I keep reading on here then men don’t show. Is that your experience?" 60-70% of our single guys meets don't turn up, or go radio silent a few days before a meet. We tried to arrange a gang bang once - invited 32 people, got ten confirmed to attend, three actually turned up. One was someone we asked to come a bit early to help out, one came, got a sick, shot and left within minutes, one was on a half hour excuse from a wedding so didn't hang around. Definitely NOT a gangbang. | |||
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"Maybe because the right men can’t message you !" People have their filters set so the right men (for them) CAN message. "Will turn up" doesn't trump "must be attracted to". | |||
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"It's not something I've ever wanted to do before, so I'm talking from a position of some ignorance here. But I've seen MM couple profiles on here that claim to be proficient in organising gangbangs. They often have veris from people who have used their 'services' in the past. It might be an idea to contact one of those profiles and meet up with them to talk about what you're after and get an idea of how reliable their contacts are. It also takes all the hassle of organising it if you leave it to them! " To be fair, considering the OP initial requirements this is a great suggestion to get the numbers required. Just got to hope when they turn up she is comfortable and attracted to the chosen ones. But a good suggestion which guarantees the guys are experienced in these situation too. | |||
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"I want to organise mmmmmf By I keep reading on here then men don’t show. Is that your experience?" Apparently roughly 50% of men invited will be a no show. So if you want 5 men invite 10, if you want 10 men invite 20, etc. | |||
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"I haven't tried myself but I have heard that out of every 10 men who sign up for a gangbang: - Four like the idea as they have seen it in porn, but when it comes to the day they chicken out. - Four get all excited, wank, cum and that's that. - One of them has a genuine excuse and can't go. Finally one shows up for the event. So the moral of the story I think, is to invite a lot!" 100% this! Not only for gangbang meets but meets in general. Many (not all obviously) use sites like this as wank fodder and chicken out after they blow a load. It looked good on porn or in their head, but when it comes to delivery, they fall up short. Clubs are a better way, but then that can be random too. Verified folks in private meets also, but string this up is always a difficult task. | |||
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"...It looked good on porn or in their head, but when it comes to delivery, they fall up short. Clubs are a better way, but then that can be random too. Verified folks in private meets also, but string this up is always a difficult task. " On the porn thing, I sometimes meet a guy who works doing these things, and he says they are really not a turn-on and its a real effort to stay hard while you wait about. Also they will often break and restart as no-one is ready. I don't think some guys realise that! | |||
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"...It looked good on porn or in their head, but when it comes to delivery, they fall up short. Clubs are a better way, but then that can be random too. Verified folks in private meets also, but string this up is always a difficult task. On the porn thing, I sometimes meet a guy who works doing these things, and he says they are really not a turn-on and its a real effort to stay hard while you wait about. Also they will often break and restart as no-one is ready. I don't think some guys realise that! " Very true, it's not all blowjobs and threesomes 😂 | |||
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"I find it hard to believe a well veriied guy (not just 1 or 2, or by cam verification) would not show up without a valid reason. I will always tell the person I am about to meet if there might be an issue days in advance. But I do show up every time if I give them my word. Mulitple verifications lets me know they are real and they meet at the least." The AA does a roaring trade whenever we arrange a gangbang. I start with 20, reconfirm on the day expecting a 3/4 drop out rate, invite another 10. Last time… 2 showed up. We provide all the information, offer video calls to make sure they know they aren’t being stitched up, a pdf of parking, the front door and contact details. We have a hard 15 minute arrival window which puts many off. If they’re going to be late it’s not going to happen. We’ve had far too many come late hoping for a 1 on 1 rather than the group that is discussed. Also, keep having to go to the door and let people in which disrupts the flow of things. Organised gb teams or clubs on GG nights are far easier!! | |||
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"The AA does a roaring trade whenever we arrange a gangbang. I start with 20, reconfirm on the day expecting a 3/4 drop out rate, invite another 10. Last time… 2 showed Organised gb teams or clubs on GG nights are far easier!! " That’s exactly my experience too. For many years ‘arranged a meet, did not turn up’ has been a category on Fab’s profile reporting form. Does anyone use it? | |||
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" For many years ‘arranged a meet, did not turn up’ has been a category on Fab’s profile reporting form. Does anyone use it?" We do. And that's exactly why we keep all correspondence and arrangements in Fab messaging. Take it easy from the site and admin can't see the conversations leading up to a no-show. | |||
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"This pisses me right off as I don’t get any offers I’m here but if I did I would 100% show up It’s so annoying 😡" With you on that one. Free and able and willing but no invites. | |||
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"Idiots I’ve let any one down by not showing up dreamers all of them Do we have to put the words in a different order, to make a sentence that can be understood? | |||
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"Idiots I’ve let any one down by not showing up dreamers all of them Do we have to put the words in a different order, to make a sentence that can be understood? sorry | |||
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"You just need to invite men with recent verifications, contact those people who left them, arrange a meet, invite the aforesaid men plus more for those who will inevitably drop out. " 🤣 no way! Is that the key to getting people to turn up? If only we thought of that! Thank you for the advice. (For the avoidance of doubt, we used to only invite those verified and those that respond to meets with the it availablity. This makes little difference. Those without veris are, more recently, more reliable than those with veris as I suspect they need the veri). | |||
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"Yet another single guy bailed on us at the last minute today, was supposedly meeting tomorrow. Had lots of excuses from other guys before but this one seems genuine, but as we don't know him of course we don't know for sure. Frustrating though, that's the fifth or sixth time this has happened to us now." Sorry to hear that guys. It is incredibly difficult to find genuine people, we've had similar issues with our couples profile. I hope you find what you're looking for. | |||
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"If i agree to meet, then I can guarantee I'll be there" That's exactly what every person that's stood us up has said. | |||
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"No shows have been a disadvantage for a lot of singles on here, men and women. There are a lot of fantasists! " ------ Sadly 100% correct and it spoils it for us real nice genuine, reliable ones who never fail. | |||
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"Idiots I’ve let any one down by not showing up dreamers all of them So you let a lot of people down then? " ----- Come on be nice fabbers, we all really know it was a slight mistype | |||
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"Yeah...some of them turn up with no shoes 🤣🤣🤣. One day FAB will figure out how to edit posts" ------ I agree Fab should allow 1 edit or delete . Not just delete. We all have fat finger silly moments. Even me and I'm PERFACT | |||
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"But you have blocked guys lol xx" ------ And that maybe why, because knob ends do not show. | |||
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"I would say build up a group of regular single meets then open it up to the ones you meet for a go. Jumping straight in with randoms will mostly fail with no shows. " Sensible answer that | |||
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"I want to organise mmmmmf By I keep reading on here then men don’t show. Is that your experience?" Do it at a club it will be easy | |||
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"I want to organise mmmmmf By I keep reading on here then men don’t show. Is that your experience? Do it at a club it will be easy " Agree, a club is best. We only meet new guys at clubs, there are too many fakers, and they end up spoiling any plans. | |||
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