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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok does my profile seem fake to you???

Please let me know because as far as I'm concerned I'm real as hell and have happened to have bad luck on this site for the past 11 months... I know a few people would have given up but I'm not that way inclined to give up when something is too hard...

Yes I have no veris and I'm trying to get some but no one wants to give me the time of day because of it... How can I possibly change this because I'm more than happy to prove I'm a real person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are one of hundreds of single males here even i have dry spells suck it up relax and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand that... But how can one prove there real if no one in 11 months wants to give them the chance and be single minded to automatically assume there fake

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

You've posted on here so by definition you must be a real person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True but a lot of people would still be skeptical

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By *gents 3 and 4Couple
over a year ago

truro

Take no notice, we get it on a daily basis doesn't bother us any more,haters gone hate and all that let them get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take no notice, we get it on a daily basis doesn't bother us any more,haters gone hate and all that let them get on with it. "

Looool love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come and see me....then I'll verify you

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Make use of all the site tools available. Get yourself known. Attend socials where possible. Post in the forums, use the chat rooms.

A lot of single males are unsuccessful because they act like a cold calling salesman. The odds of getting replies to randomly sent messages are pretty low.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trust me if I was able to travel that far soon I would !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x"

Wow really may have to take it down... May me look like a lucky dip loool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make use of all the site tools available. Get yourself known. Attend socials where possible. Post in the forums, use the chat rooms.

A lot of single males are unsuccessful because they act like a cold calling salesman. The odds of getting replies to randomly sent messages are pretty low.

"

Yeah I understand what your saying fully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x

I

Wow really may have to take it down... May me look like a lucky dip loool"

Don't you dare take it down.... Some of us haven't finished perving yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how the hell you hav'nt managed to meet anyone yet!

Id only be calling someone fake after id google reversed all their images and found them on 100s of worldwide porn sites.........it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x

I

Wow really may have to take it down... May me look like a lucky dip loool

Don't you dare take it down.... Some of us haven't finished perving yet "

Lol yes please keep it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been said many a times before

its all about patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I've been to clubs and played plenty and have never bothered to ask anyone to verify me, personally as I'm not bothered by them anyway

Are half of them real anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff"

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beautiful bodies while we're playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beautiful bodies while we're playing "

I think what he meant was that because he looks good, and has no verifications, people are more likely to assume that the OP is a fake...I think! You know how the saying goes, if something looks too good to be true....etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that... But how can one prove there real if no one in 11 months wants to give them the chance and be single minded to automatically assume there fake "

Have you tried attending some swinger clubs - that then gives you the chance to get noticed, chat, play and then go from there ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess my pics are staying up by popular demand lol

And I have never been to a club but was thinking of trying one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"been said many a times before

its all about patience

"

I understand patience but I also believe 11 months is a bit too long (personal opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok does my profile seem fake to you???

Please let me know because as far as I'm concerned I'm real as hell and have happened to have bad luck on this site for the past 11 months... I know a few people would have given up but I'm not that way inclined to give up when something is too hard...

Yes I have no veris and I'm trying to get some but no one wants to give me the time of day because of it... How can I possibly change this because I'm more than happy to prove I'm a real person?"

Get yourself on cam and just have fun. Someone will verify you before long i'm sure.

I know it's not the be all and end all of course, but I suspect this will help a bit.

We've pm'd you too. Get in touch if it's of any interest to you mate. The offer will stay open.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Insulted by being called a fake? Nahhhh, been called much worse than that...

If thats all I get called I consider it to be a good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been said many a times before

its all about patience

I understand patience but I also believe 11 months is a bit too long (personal opinion)"

been here for nearly 4 months only done socials

no 1v1 meets

but thing is i dont go round and moaning about it

it takes time to get to no people

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

Have you tried attending socials or parties?

I'm not just using this as an opportunity to promote the BMFC as there are loads on offer out there for you to choose from .. But it maybe one solution to your problem ..

Unfortunately, this site DOES have a proportion of wannabes and fakes but that doesn't mean everyone without a verification is one!

But reading verifications is a tool that some people use to help them make an informed decision when chosing a playmate .. Fact!

So, in my opinion, I think you are the only person who can solve your problem ..

Attend a social or party, meet people and if they are happy to do so, ask them to leave you a verification ..

I leave one for every one of my guest that asks me, after they have attended a BMFC party and I KNOW that it DOES make a difference, especially for the single guys!!

Take care and good luck

Helen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beautiful bodies while we're playing

I think what he meant was that because he looks good, and has no verifications, people are more likely to assume that the OP is a fake...I think! You know how the saying goes, if something looks too good to be true....etc etc."

Oh lol ok

Well look the offer still stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beautiful bodies while we're playing

I think what he meant was that because he looks good, and has no verifications, people are more likely to assume that the OP is a fake...I think! You know how the saying goes, if something looks too good to be true....etc etc.

"

yeah that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make use of all the site tools available. Get yourself known. Attend socials where possible. Post in the forums, use the chat rooms.

A lot of single males are unsuccessful because they act like a cold calling salesman. The odds of getting replies to randomly sent messages are pretty low.

"

Good advice. Swinging is a scene, not just a website. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that... But how can one prove there real if no one in 11 months wants to give them the chance and be single minded to automatically assume there fake "

if i were closer to you then i'd definately meet you and verify you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your more patient than me I would have packed it in by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess my pics are staying up by popular demand lol

And I have never been to a club but was thinking of trying one"

I'd meet you if you was nearer as your hot

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x"

Ha ha I fabbed a cock pic. I want to know what all the tattoo writing says. Is it your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP book a train ticket and meet one of the ladies on this thread before it gets to 12 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod the train he needs to get his car full of fuel and head up the A1

Then he can head west afterwards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod the train he needs to get his car full of fuel and head up the A1

Then he can head west afterwards lol"

Hey don't forget us southerners..... Salisbury is definitely closer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 months and no meets. Sorry but you either:

A) Fake

B) Timewaster

C) So far up your own booty that you think no-one is good enough for you

Even swamp donkeys can get meets if they throw enough mud at the wall. Some of it will stick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x

I

Wow really may have to take it down... May me look like a lucky dip loool

Don't you dare take it down.... Some of us haven't finished perving yet "

... im one of them still looking n wishing lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok does my profile seem fake to you???

Please let me know because as far as I'm concerned I'm real as hell and have happened to have bad luck on this site for the past 11 months... I know a few people would have given up but I'm not that way inclined to give up when something is too hard...

Yes I have no veris and I'm trying to get some but no one wants to give me the time of day because of it... How can I possibly change this because I'm more than happy to prove I'm a real person?"

Go to a club, meet people that way, and if they are on Fabs ask them to veri u

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You don't look fake to me, you look rather yummy actually.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I understand that... But how can one prove there real if no one in 11 months wants to give them the chance and be single minded to automatically assume there fake

if i were closer to you then i'd definately meet you and verify you x "

Me too! Although the verification might just say 'Sat and looked at this guy naked for 4 hours. Mmmm!'

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By *DoorsDownMan
over a year ago

Windsor


"Ok does my profile seem fake to you???

Please let me know because as far as I'm concerned I'm real as hell and have happened to have bad luck on this site for the past 11 months... I know a few people would have given up but I'm not that way inclined to give up when something is too hard...

Yes I have no veris and I'm trying to get some but no one wants to give me the time of day because of it... How can I possibly change this because I'm more than happy to prove I'm a real person?"

Well there goes my theory it's only the hot black guys with huge cocks getting any action on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"11 months and no meets. Sorry but you either:

A) Fake

B) Timewaster

C) So far up your own booty that you think no-one is good enough for you

Even swamp donkeys can get meets if they throw enough mud at the wall. Some of it will stick!"

Oh thanks... How lovely... Just to let you know in none of them things if anything I've had my time wasted with people telling me lets meet up then when I'm telling them lets do it they start ignoring me or deleting me my messages... Oh and just to add I'm very down to earth... I know a lot of people would think oh nice body... Nice cock... He must be full of himself.... Not me at all I was raised better than that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm beginning to think me living in London is holding me back... All the fun people in this post are all outside...lool

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

When you do this swinging tour of yours, stop by Yorkshire please! You are absolutely yummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I could take a week off work to travel id have a big map for all you lovely people and a whole load of petrol lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'm beginning to think me living in London is holding me back... All the fun people in this post are all outside...lool "

The regions are where it's all happening!

Take a look in meets, UK and regional forums for socials - there are all kinds; ones in private venues, pub ones and even camping trips. You can have a great laugh, make new friends, learn about the scene, get veris and who knows what else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beayutiful bodies while we're playing "

Me

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beayutiful bodies while we're playing Me "

Nice try but you've had 4 meets in 9 weeks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm beginning to think me living in London is holding me back... All the fun people in this post are all outside...lool

The regions are where it's all happening!

Take a look in meets, UK and regional forums for socials - there are all kinds; ones in private venues, pub ones and even camping trips. You can have a great laugh, make new friends, learn about the scene, get veris and who knows what else... "

I've noticed loool and I need to explore a bit more into this scene...

Sheffield... I knew I should have followed my friend up there this weekend lol damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beayutiful bodies while we're playing Me

Nice try but you've had 4 meets in 9 weeks! "

Oh yeah sorry forgot

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have "

Whinging with 4 veris already!

It just goes to show that perceptions can be wrong - youth and beauty are not always winners in this world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have

Whinging with 4 veris already!

It just goes to show that perceptions can be wrong - youth and beauty are not always winners in this world."

Was only joking hun xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have

Whinging with 4 veris already!

It just goes to show that perceptions can be wrong - youth and beauty are not always winners in this world. Was only joking hun xx"

I know, but as I say it does just show that looks are not everythings.

(disclaimer: this bears no relation to the pretty boy gym bunnies I stalk via my hotlist and friends list... )

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you can travel, there is a social in Southend soon. It's not a million miles away from you, and there are plenty of cheap hotels in the area, or the last train back is just after 11, but I'd be more inclined to get a hotel, just in case!!

It would be a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have

Whinging with 4 veris already!

It just goes to show that perceptions can be wrong - youth and beauty are not always winners in this world. Was only joking hun xx

I know, but as I say it does just show that looks are not everythings.

(disclaimer: this bears no relation to the pretty boy gym bunnies I stalk via my hotlist and friends list... )"

lol im sure they will fogive u ..My point was that the op has everything going for him and still.no meets ..He has to be doing something wrong cause just posting this thread on here he could have a meet a day lol

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By *ot30scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Oxford, London

I'll go on cam with you to...ahem...verify you if you fancy!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have

Whinging with 4 veris already!

It just goes to show that perceptions can be wrong - youth and beauty are not always winners in this world. Was only joking hun xx

I know, but as I say it does just show that looks are not everythings.

(disclaimer: this bears no relation to the pretty boy gym bunnies I stalk via my hotlist and friends list... ) lol im sure they will fogive u ..My point was that the op has everything going for him and still.no meets ..He has to be doing something wrong cause just posting this thread on here he could have a meet a day lol "

Wrongs can be righted.

So a teensy piece of advice: on many previous threads lots of people have mentioned how irritating they find the abbreviation hun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks fine to us, but this 'I can be quite dominant ' from your profile would put us off, but thats just us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have

Whinging with 4 veris already!

It just goes to show that perceptions can be wrong - youth and beauty are not always winners in this world. Was only joking hun xx

I know, but as I say it does just show that looks are not everythings.

(disclaimer: this bears no relation to the pretty boy gym bunnies I stalk via my hotlist and friends list... ) lol im sure they will fogive u ..My point was that the op has everything going for him and still.no meets ..He has to be doing something wrong cause just posting this thread on here he could have a meet a day lol

Wrongs can be righted.

So a teensy piece of advice: on many previous threads lots of people have mentioned how irritating they find the abbreviation hun...

"

i am very sorry will not happen again .. Lol god its so tempting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the OP been verified yet after all these offers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP..

Do you use stick on tattoos ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Ok does my profile seem fake to you???

Please let me know because as far as I'm concerned I'm real as hell and have happened to have bad luck on this site for the past 11 months... I know a few people would have given up but I'm not that way inclined to give up when something is too hard...

Yes I have no veris and I'm trying to get some but no one wants to give me the time of day because of it... How can I possibly change this because I'm more than happy to prove I'm a real person?"

if being called a fake by one person is the worst insult you have heard... then i have one word for you...

really?????

some people get beat up and create drama over the smallest things... I do wonder hope people cope with the "biggies" in life...

move on.... simple as

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Ok does my profile seem fake to you???

Please let me know because as far as I'm concerned I'm real as hell and have happened to have bad luck on this site for the past 11 months... I know a few people would have given up but I'm not that way inclined to give up when something is too hard...

Yes I have no veris and I'm trying to get some but no one wants to give me the time of day because of it... How can I possibly change this because I'm more than happy to prove I'm a real person?"

Believe it or not, I think age has something to do with it - when I first started swinging (not on Fabs) no one would touch me purely due to my age (I was no where near 30 at the time).

Even a close friend today admits openly she would not touch me as I was so young. The only thing I can think of is:

1) Go to socials: even verifications from socials count.

2) Refine your searches for people willing to meet under-30's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the OP been verified yet after all these offers??"

I wouldn't bet on it. Yawn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To the OP..

Do you use stick on tattoos ?"

Naaaa never all my tattoos are purely hours under the needle lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has the OP been verified yet after all these offers??

I wouldn't bet on it. Yawn."

I'm at home now so I'd happily go on cam to get verified shortly as I'm always using my phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the OP been verified yet after all these offers??

I wouldn't bet on it. Yawn.

I'm at home now so I'd happily go on cam to get verified shortly as I'm always using my phone"

Haha you go for it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I understand that... But how can one prove there real if no one in 11 months wants to give them the chance and be single minded to automatically assume there fake "

Sorry, any man that states he'll guarantee great sex is delusional and a braggart...and not for me. I wouldn't be tempted to put you to the test.

Tone it down a bit, if you're trying to impress couples tone down the pics too...hubbies might be a tad intimidated .

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tone it down a bit, if you're trying to impress couples tone down the pics too...hubbies might be a tad intimidated .

Good luck."

Sod the hubbys!! keep the pics

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beautiful bodies while we're playing "

Actually, when I saw the op picture I did think his body would put people off. How many times have we seen threads from women saying they look at verifications and if there are slimmer women the person has played with they feel intimidated. Men also state the same.

Nowt as queer as folk!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"When you do this swinging tour of yours, stop by Yorkshire please! You are absolutely yummy "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Tone it down a bit, if you're trying to impress couples tone down the pics too...hubbies might be a tad intimidated .

Good luck.

Sod the hubbys!! keep the pics "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its because you have a good body I think. No offence but in the picture where you have just your body I thought you were tinie tempah as some pictures have recently popped up of him all buff

Having a good body puts people off?!

Okay fellow fabbers. Anyone who has the problem of having a bloody great body and can't get meets, please step forward. Men and ladies welcome. It's a chore but I promise I won't comment on your disgustingly beautiful bodies while we're playing

Actually, when I saw the op picture I did think his body would put people off. How many times have we seen threads from women saying they look at verifications and if there are slimmer women the person has played with they feel intimidated. Men also state the same.

Nowt as queer as folk! "

aww no one should feel intimidated because it not always the looks that attract people...

im going to go on cam if anyone wants to veri me ill be very grateful

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Way too young for me but OP you have been given some great advice. Swinging is more than being on fab, don't limit your options to just here. I think you would have a great time in a club or social. .

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

Bangor


"ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x"

We have taken chances on unverified guys only to be all dressed for sex and no show, not so much as a text or phone call and as our playtime is limited, we now only meet guys with a verification as meeting in person.

It may be different if it's a single guy meeting a single lady! i know it takes balls to knock on someone door and say Hi, I am here to fuck your wife! lol

Many guys like the idea,when in reality but can't go through with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know it takes balls to knock on someone door and say Hi, I am here to fuck your wife!"

Wow, I never thought of it like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know it takes balls to knock on someone door and say Hi, I am here to fuck your wife!

Wow, I never thought of it like that!"

Lol yes I agree. So to all the lovely guys who have gone through that pain to please me, I say a big thank you

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"ive met lots of unverified guys on here, never get why people are so hung up on those with no verifications, we all had to start somewhere

Personally its that cock that put me off, I looked 10 m ins ago and my eye are still watering lol x

We have taken chances on unverified guys only to be all dressed for sex and no show, not so much as a text or phone call and as our playtime is limited, we now only meet guys with a verification as meeting in person.

It may be different if it's a single guy meeting a single lady! i know it takes balls to knock on someone door and say Hi, I am here to fuck your wife! lol

Many guys like the idea,when in reality but can't go through with it. "

I think you may have a valid point as I meet unverified men all the time and yet to meet a no show. I think meeting a couple proves too much for the faint hearted!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

im going to go on cam if anyone wants to veri me ill be very grateful "

Sorry but single guys can't get verified on cam...

from FAQs:

FAQ

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam or phone. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

Note: no phone verses either now.

But looks like plenty of the girlies here will enjoy watching anyway

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

If only you were 10 years older OP...... I'd put you through your paces lol.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If only you were 10 years older OP...... I'd put you through your paces lol. "

ahh man thats a shame you look yummy :p

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"If only you were 10 years older OP...... I'd put you through your paces lol.

ahh man thats a shame you look yummy :p"

Ahhhh thanks

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By *DoorsDownMan
over a year ago

Windsor


"You are a good looking guy ..A cock that most guys would like to have .A good body .And you cant get a meet in 11 months .What chance have us mere mortals have "

You have a great body too...just sayin'.

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

Mate I'm having the same issue as you lol join the club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet someone on this thread isn't verified any time soon.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Bet someone on this thread isn't verified any time soon."

Well the OP is! Who says moaning on the forums doesn't work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bet someone on this thread isn't verified any time soon.

Well the OP is! Who says moaning on the forums doesn't work? "

Webcam hardly counts!

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By *DandPokeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

For profile doesn't look fake to me. Looks good. Your cock is massive and would be a bit off putting to me. There IS such a thing as Too big! But everyone's different I guess. Maybe some of the guys in couples would feel a bit intimidated by having that cock in the bedroom? Lol

I would say get in chat and on cam and get some verifications that way?

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London

It happens unfortunately. My wife was on here with me previously, now its just me and my FB Bren instead of the three of us. We think that someone local took a dislike to us as we didn't want to play with them, and it led to Admin reclassifying our profile as a single man and rejecting ALL of our photos (even though they CLEARLY showed us playing as a couple) - apparently the reason for them doing this was that our photos were on 'other websites' without our knowledge I'd hasten to add.

Su was wavering as to whether to stay on here anyway (as she has her own FB who she's very attached to, and isn't really looking for action), so Admin's action was the last straw for her. So now its just Bren and me, and Admin still class us with a single man profile!!! Maybe we need to go and shag Admin to prove who we are...Admin, that is an open invitation

Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not surprised admin won't change it,every verification is all about you with no mention of your female friend.....I did only skim the veris though

Set up a couples profile,get photo verified as a couple and then they may take you seriously as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks good to me. Well written, good picures that as the reaction on this thread shows are appreciated by their target audience, you can accomodate. It all looks good, so after 11 months without a meet the cynic in me would wonder why that is? Which I know is harsh, and I know is unfair, but we'd be suspicious that you would not meet.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If you contacted us I would probably be cynical and wonder why after nearly a year you have had no luck at all.

Your profile reads ok, your photos look fine...Sorry I would be a bit cautious!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you contacted us I would probably be cynical and wonder why after nearly a year you have had no luck at all.

Your profile reads ok, your photos look fine...Sorry I would be a bit cautious!"

Trust me... I wonder the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm beginning to think me living in London is holding me back... All the fun people in this post are all outside...lool "

Don't forget to visit the Midlands too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from my experience sa single guy on fabs, I'd say you get out what you put in.

Totally understand that we all have busy lives away from here and we cannot always have time for this. In your situation I'd recommend you go to parties and attend socials as people who are also in here will verify you. Whether it be in the chatrooms or on the forums, let your personality shine through and communicate effectively. Be cheeky, witty or whatever you need to be to show others you're worth meeting.

As a single guy I also was prepared to travel as meets usually do not fall on your lap (if only) So I was travelling up and down the country, one time being picked up, to get to meets and attend parties.

You have a good body, a pet women would love to play with and can accommodate. I only had 2 of three (couldn't accommodate). But I was getting meets within weeks of joining fabs and putting in the work like a self-employed plumber.

So I really don't think there is an excuse for not getting any meets for a single guy that has those favourable attributes in their favour. It's not an attack on you, just giving you my opinion.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking from my experience sa single guy on fabs, I'd say you get out what you put in.

Totally understand that we all have busy lives away from here and we cannot always have time for this. In your situation I'd recommend you go to parties and attend socials as people who are also in here will verify you. Whether it be in the chatrooms or on the forums, let your personality shine through and communicate effectively. Be cheeky, witty or whatever you need to be to show others you're worth meeting.

As a single guy I also was prepared to travel as meets usually do not fall on your lap (if only) So I was travelling up and down the country, one time being picked up, to get to meets and attend parties.

You have a good body, a pet women would love to play with and can accommodate. I only had 2 of three (couldn't accommodate). But I was getting meets within weeks of joining fabs and putting in the work like a self-employed plumber.

So I really don't think there is an excuse for not getting any meets for a single guy that has those favourable attributes in their favour. It's not an attack on you, just giving you my opinion.

Silk "

I agree with that 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been told I must be a bloke because I can't drop everything and go on cam?!

Do some people not have a life outwith here?!

Jeezo

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I always find it funny when you get accused of being fake, check their pics out and turns out they are the fake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking from my experience sa single guy on fabs, I'd say you get out what you put in.

Totally understand that we all have busy lives away from here and we cannot always have time for this. In your situation I'd recommend you go to parties and attend socials as people who are also in here will verify you. Whether it be in the chatrooms or on the forums, let your personality shine through and communicate effectively. Be cheeky, witty or whatever you need to be to show others you're worth meeting.

As a single guy I also was prepared to travel as meets usually do not fall on your lap (if only) So I was travelling up and down the country, one time being picked up, to get to meets and attend parties.

You have a good body, a pet women would love to play with and can accommodate. I only had 2 of three (couldn't accommodate). But I was getting meets within weeks of joining fabs and putting in the work like a self-employed plumber.

So I really don't think there is an excuse for not getting any meets for a single guy that has those favourable attributes in their favour. It's not an attack on you, just giving you my opinion.

Silk

I agree with that 100% "

You talk a lot of sense......I have offered to meet with the op but he hasn't taken Me up on my offer.... My conclusion is he must be fake!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speaking from my experience sa single guy on fabs, I'd say you get out what you put in.

Totally understand that we all have busy lives away from here and we cannot always have time for this. In your situation I'd recommend you go to parties and attend socials as people who are also in here will verify you. Whether it be in the chatrooms or on the forums, let your personality shine through and communicate effectively. Be cheeky, witty or whatever you need to be to show others you're worth meeting.

As a single guy I also was prepared to travel as meets usually do not fall on your lap (if only) So I was travelling up and down the country, one time being picked up, to get to meets and attend parties.

You have a good body, a pet women would love to play with and can accommodate. I only had 2 of three (couldn't accommodate). But I was getting meets within weeks of joining fabs and putting in the work like a self-employed plumber.

So I really don't think there is an excuse for not getting any meets for a single guy that has those favourable attributes in their favour. It's not an attack on you, just giving you my opinion.

Silk "

No I agree with this fully but my issue is I've never really been a go to a club person but I have been thinking to try it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speaking from my experience sa single guy on fabs, I'd say you get out what you put in.

Totally understand that we all have busy lives away from here and we cannot always have time for this. In your situation I'd recommend you go to parties and attend socials as people who are also in here will verify you. Whether it be in the chatrooms or on the forums, let your personality shine through and communicate effectively. Be cheeky, witty or whatever you need to be to show others you're worth meeting.

As a single guy I also was prepared to travel as meets usually do not fall on your lap (if only) So I was travelling up and down the country, one time being picked up, to get to meets and attend parties.

You have a good body, a pet women would love to play with and can accommodate. I only had 2 of three (couldn't accommodate). But I was getting meets within weeks of joining fabs and putting in the work like a self-employed plumber.

So I really don't think there is an excuse for not getting any meets for a single guy that has those favourable attributes in their favour. It's not an attack on you, just giving you my opinion.

Silk

I agree with that 100%

You talk a lot of sense......I have offered to meet with the op but he hasn't taken Me up on my offer.... My conclusion is he must be fake!!!! "

Noooooo I do but I'm just thinking when will I have the time to travel so far but there may be a time soon lol

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