FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong?

By *hicklipsmagic OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

6'3 Caribbean man that loves to please and is very chill. Not the best with words but we all have our faults. I'm athletically built and like to mix it up in the bedroom.

Sounds like a catch right? Lol but on this site I'm like the rotten fruit nobody wants to touch.

What am I doing wrong.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
6 weeks ago

Hull

Can't tell without knowing how you approach people. Remember you are 1 of 1000s.

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By *all me FlikWoman
6 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

As you have four meet verifications you probably aren't doing anything wrong.

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By *ncomplicatedManMan
6 weeks ago

Bridport

We all go through patches of not feeling confident. You have two choices: Treat this site more like an optional adjunct to your life and get out more, focus on making light conversation with interesting people IRL, or fully commit to turning yourself into a 'studmuffin', a term I apply to any man who with a combination of classic dominant style, tattoos and a Mars-leaning astrology signature somehow magics dozens of eager and hot women out of thin air. You can be anyone you choose to be, so at what level of gutsiness do you make that choice?

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By *hicklipsmagic OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

That was years ago and only through someone else. We also met at a party. On here is where I don't seem to get any luck. I tend to get judge by my cover...

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By *hicklipsmagic OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

"We all go through patches of not feeling confident. You have two choices: Treat this site more like an optional adjunct to your life and get out more, focus on making light conversation with interesting people IRL, or fully commit to turning yourself into a 'studmuffin', a term I apply to any man who with a combination of classic dominant style, tattoos and a Mars-leaning astrology signature somehow magics dozens of eager and hot women out of thin air. You can be anyone you choose to be, so at what level of gutsiness do you make that choice?"

Second one sounds fun, how do I go about that. Don't need loads though just one hot women will do. I'm not greedy lol

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
6 weeks ago

marlborough

The issue is expectation.

If people’s expectations aren’t met on Fab, they start complaining that there is something wrong. Chill out

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By *ncomplicatedManMan
6 weeks ago

Bridport

Women are attracted to a variety of traits, if you're looking for one woman to fulfill all your needs then you might be expecting too much from one relationship. As I indicated previously, Mars-dominant men develop and work on a range of behaviours that are highly attractive to sexually powerful women: agency, autonomy, physical prowess and muscular bodies, assertiveness with a hint of controlled aggression and so on. Commit to an exercise regime, join a dance class, or yoga if that's more your thing, and get physical. There are other planets too, of course!

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By *enAndJadeCouple
6 weeks ago

Somerton

I think your profile is decent. You come across as intelligent. It’s way better than a lot of profiles on here.

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By *essTTWoman
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

"6'3 Caribbean man that loves to please and is very chill. Not the best with words but we all have our faults. I'm athletically built and like to mix it up in the bedroom.

Sounds like a catch right? Lol but on this site I'm like the rotten fruit nobody wants to touch.

What am I doing wrong."

The fact that you think you're a catch based on physical attributes is probably where you're going wrong

I've know men who are short and/or fat on here and they do really really well.

Its not always about looks.....

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By *inkPomPomWoman
6 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Your profile is fine 💕

Maybe change the pic with the dvd for ref but other than that you look sexy and seem like a lovely guy

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By *hicklipsmagic OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

"Your profile is fine 💕

Maybe change the pic with the dvd for ref but other than that you look sexy and seem like a lovely guy "

Haha yeah been meaning to change that. Camera not been in play much recently lol

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By *hicklipsmagic OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

"I think your profile is decent. You come across as intelligent. It’s way better than a lot of profiles on here. "

Thank you

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By *inkPomPomWoman
6 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Maybe just refresh it then? and get on the forums and chat a little more, get to know people

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