FabSwingers.com forum: Presumptuous throat fuckers.

By *x Smith OP Man
6 weeks ago

East Lancs area

I've really been put off giving head when I'm at clubs, especially darkrooms. Normally I love to open my gullet for pretty much anyone equipped with a penis but too many people think it is an invitation to get rough and can't take a hint that you might need a few seconds to catch your breath and control your gag reflex. This happened to me. They were at my vocal chords for fully 20 seconds and ignored my hand pushing against their hip for the last three thrusts. So I pressed harder and they finally backed off. I gave my mouth to someone standing next to them, and they waited impatiently before grabbing your my head, holding it down and thrusting as fast as they can. So I pushed back again, harder, stood up and walked away, wondering, should I have punched them in their knackersack?

Take a fucking hint. A push with the hand against the hip means back off now. Not in three thrusts time. Back. The. FUCK. Off. NOW!

AND GET YOUR HAND THE FUCK OFF MY HEAD! That needs full eager consent giving first, otherwise, absolute utter heinous cuntery.

Respect gets you more head.

It is worse in darkrooms — I think that they think that they can get away with it.

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By *econdSideQuestWoman
6 weeks ago

SWANSEA

Grab their ball sack and yank if they don't get the message

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I hate that some guys just want to throat fuck, I have a strong gag reflex so can’t do it but love giving long relaxed head

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
6 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

Go and take a look at the "Hot Videos" page and it will shock you how many include gagging or slapping.

Maybe it's just me getting old, but I do wonder what happened to wanting to give your partner pleasure...

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Grab their ball sack and yank if they don't get the message "

Was about to say this. He will think twice about thrusting if you’re holding the balls.

Oh and I wouldn’t have gone back. That level of disrespect without checking boundaries? Fuck no. He’d have had himself a rather loud bollocking too

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By *herrybakewellCouple
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I honestly read threads like this and question why I want my wife to be meeting people.

Its fucking madness.

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By *ack DawXXXMan
6 weeks ago

Weybridge

Porn has had a bit of a detrimental effect on sex.

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By *ylvieMWoman
6 weeks ago

Aylesbury

This is 100% my pet peeve.

I've stopped play before in a full swap because the man wouldn't stop doing it.

No means no FGS and I won't do anything with my mouth in a meet (unless I know them well)because men have done it too much for me to trust them

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By *01_manMan
6 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

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By *01_manMan
6 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Had this happen one or twice, I warn them it’s my fist in face with out exception, and I’ve done this a few times.

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By *elaniejayTV/TS
5 weeks ago

London

I have experience of this. I was chatted up by a very fit guy in a Soho club a while back and he was very nice, saying how sexy I looked in my little pink dress and white heels. Anyway we went back to his place. Now I like doing oral, it turns me on when my partner is turned on by what I'm doing, and I think I'm quite good at it, so much so I have to sometimes tone it down if I want it to last longer. The problem was when I started he kept trying to push his cock deeper in my mouth even though I said he didn't like it. Then he pushed me back on the bed and basically was trying to fuck my mouth! I managed to wriggle free and told him I was leaving. He was all apologetic and said he was so sorry, he got over excited but by then I was not in the mood for anything. He tried to stand in the door way to stop me leaving but I said I would scream if he didn't move (he lives in an apartment). So he got out of the way. I know I shouldn't have gone back with him but it was a nice place. Lesson learned..

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By *oiluvfunMan
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

I mean; I’ve pushed enough women off my cock, because they couldn’t control their teeth……? 🤷‍♂️

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By *onyHoveMan
5 weeks ago

North East

The head holding thing has always annoyed me.

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By *rasshopper201Man
5 weeks ago

kendal

I’m the same love giving head but hate being face fucked as I can’t take anything touching my throat

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By *morousCouple8Couple
5 weeks ago

Cumbria

This worries me so much I tell people in advance it’s a hard no and it’s why I won’t use glory holes etc

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By *elaniejayTV/TS
5 weeks ago

London

"Porn has had a bit of a detrimental effect on sex."

I kind of agree but the other day I saw an exhibition at the British Museum and it had like 600 year old Samurai porn books, and they were super spicy with some 'advanced' positions, some with the girl needing to be very 'bendy'!

So nothing new I guess

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
5 weeks ago

Cardiff

I relate but different situation. 3 times, that's me saying 3 'stops' to actually ... stop doing XYZ. Guy kept telling me if I relaxed it would be fine. Stop.. means STOP fucking hell.

Not on.

I'm so sorry this happened to you x

Mrs

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
5 weeks ago

your bed

As a guy I would generally always let the lady lead. I think it can be tricky when a woman wants the guy to lead, as it means you have to interrupt what you are doing to say is this ok or is that ok.

But it's always best to ask first.

And that to me starts with something as simple as touching and kissing, never mind blowjobs or deep throat.

Anything like face fucking or things that go outside the bounds of hot teasing or flirting , need a secondary check either by someone asking for it or asking permission.

Kissing someone is not an open invite to all other activities.

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By *aandLoCouple
5 weeks ago

Southampton

"I relate but different situation. 3 times, that's me saying 3 'stops' to actually ... stop doing XYZ. Guy kept telling me if I relaxed it would be fine. Stop.. means STOP fucking hell.

Not on.

I'm so sorry this happened to you x

Mrs "

That's a sh##ty thing to happen to you. Sorry you've had that.

The first time a guy says 'if you relax, you'll enjoy it' I will be straight out of there. They clearly don't understand consent.

Why do some people think they know what others should enjoy?! x Lo x

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
5 weeks ago

brighton

"I mean; I’ve pushed enough women off my cock, because they couldn’t control their teeth……? 🤷‍♂️"

That's not the same thing. That's a lack of technique, not a lack of respect and consent.

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By *napologeticallyUS55Couple
5 weeks ago

Ipswich

The consent thing is so sexy. The mindset behind behaviour that happens without consent is deeply disturbing.

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By *napologeticallyUS55Couple
5 weeks ago

Ipswich

No. Is a full sentence.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
5 weeks ago

South East Wales

I mean it’s bad enough he didn’t stop when you were signalling with the taps.

But to forcefully grab you and pull you back after saying no, that’s assault. No other word to describe it.

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By *exleysexykingMan
5 weeks ago

Bexley

Porn expectations.

Slapping faces with penis also disgusting from porn

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By *napologeticallyUS55Couple
5 weeks ago

Ipswich

"Porn expectations.

Slapping faces with penis also disgusting from porn "

I used to like the old pornography. Where they would have a cheesy conversation and try and act - in fact when we do role-play, we sometimes have those conversations like the Plumber coming round, et cetera. It’s all just a bit in your face now.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bristol

My first swallowing experience was like this.

I was... performing a 'normal' cock sucking when he felt he was about to cum.

Then...

Hands on the back of my head, cock inserted and then the whole twitching ejaculation as I gagged hard.

Mixed emotions...

Yes... non-consensual, not what I was expecting...

But... kinda enjoyed it.

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
5 weeks ago

Cardiff

"I relate but different situation. 3 times, that's me saying 3 'stops' to actually ... stop doing XYZ. Guy kept telling me if I relaxed it would be fine. Stop.. means STOP fucking hell.

Not on.

I'm so sorry this happened to you x

Mrs

That's a sh##ty thing to happen to you. Sorry you've had that.

The first time a guy says 'if you relax, you'll enjoy it' I will be straight out of there. They clearly don't understand consent.

Why do some people think they know what others should enjoy?! x Lo x "

Thank you x agreed!

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By *ohnysteMan
5 weeks ago

newcastle under lyme

Wells said . In swinging you take the lead from your partners responses.

I went to Chameleons many years ago and a guy wouldn't back off when she couldn't handle his cock in her pussy straight off despite being told. In the end he made her bleed and thanks to a distinctive tattoo we able to avoid him like the plague on future visits.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
5 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

No doesn't just mean no. It also means "why the hell didn't you notice before that I wasn't enjoying it, and stop without me having to tell you?".

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By *elaniejayTV/TS
5 weeks ago

London

Mixed emotions...

Yes... non-consensual, not what I was expecting...

But... kinda enjoyed it.

Oh, that does sound a bit rough! Must admit, most guys that I meet, they usually ask me if they can cum in my mouth, if they want to. I usually say yes. As previous messages though, I hate that forced gagging that some guys find is a turn on for them. A little gag is fine btw, but I consider it my signal to them that it is far enough..

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By *akat158Couple
5 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"Wells said . In swinging you take the lead from your partners responses.

That sounds more like a sexual assault.

What's this tattoo look like so we can avoid them as well?

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By *ean154Man
5 weeks ago

City.

"Grab their ball sack and yank if they don't get the message "

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By *ean154Man
5 weeks ago

City.

"I mean it’s bad enough he didn’t stop when you were signalling with the taps.

But to forcefully grab you and pull you back after saying no, that’s assault. No other word to describe it. "

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By *orphia2003Woman
5 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I've warned people clearly to never grab my head or in any way restrict my movements if I'm giving you a BJ.

So if I vomit on you, bite you or in any way injure you, the fault lies with you only.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Unfortunately the last time someone did this I vomited. Absolutely gross and a mood killer and I was mortified. Not everyone can take it that hard and rough and it’s call a gag reflex for a reason.

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
5 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Unfortunately the last time someone did this I vomited. Absolutely gross and a mood killer and I was mortified. Not everyone can take it that hard and rough and it’s call a gag reflex for a reason. "

You shouldn't be the one mortified!

Mrs

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By *corcherMan
4 weeks ago

Loughborough

Porn gives people unrealistic expectations of what real sex is.

I've found it's more fun when you're talking to the person you're having sex with. "more like that", "do that again", "do you want to try this", etc.

The whole banging away like they've got somewhere else to be doesn't do much for me

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By *cKinkyboyMan
4 weeks ago

Whitley

This is one of my peeves. Especially when you’ve told them beforehand you don’t want then to do it and they still try to ram their cock down your throat.

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