FabSwingers.com forum: Women looking for a specific size.

By *agE97 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Gwynedd

Sooo we've come across this situation.

Where a couple has shown a geniuine interest in us, read our profile, fabed pictures of both of us and sent very genuine messages of interest and wanting to play, great.

On reading their profile it's made very clear that the lady is looking for VWE and specifies a certain size with a plus.

What to do.......?

We'd rather be honest and messaged back letting them know that hubby's not quite what she's looking for in that specific size department (he's well above average btw) and we get ghosted haha!

We're not bothered by this at all, just find it strange after generated interest and messages based on profile and fabed pics of said body part 😜

We know she was after specifics, but what is classed as VWE??

What would you do?

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By *ercuryMikeMan
7 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

Yep, what exactly is VWE if they don’t specify I don’t normally message if I see this.

And what about if its average length but has some girth, could that be VWE.

Got to be specific with what your looking for folks.

Plus, hopefully im not alone in this, but the length isn’t always the same it all depends how interested / excited I am, and can vary quite a bit.

I may be thinking into this too much.

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By *artorialMan
7 weeks ago

weymouth

Agree without specifics it's just an ethereal concept. Alternatively it could just be a fella masquerading as a couple to get his rocks off

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By *agE97 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Gwynedd

As we said did specify a size (length)

When replied back being honest that I wasn't quite that length (not far off haha) the chat ended.

They are a genuine couple.

But yeah what is VWE??

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By *agE97 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Gwynedd

She did specify the size (length) she was looking for.

The question is more of a "what would you do" as in tell them you dont measure up to her expectations and what is (size) is classed as vwe.

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By *ellhungvweMan
7 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If someone has put a preference then you should respect that preference, whatever it is. Honesty is the best policy.

As to the actual size requirements: if she has said what she is looking for then that is what she counts as VWE.

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By *agE97 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Gwynedd

Yes, that's why we did reply and be honest.

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By *awpleasureMan
7 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"If someone has put a preference then you should respect that preference, whatever it is. Honesty is the best policy.

As to the actual size requirements: if she has said what she is looking for then that is what she counts as VWE."

This is the best answer. VWE is subjective.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We find that often these comments are more aimed at when people are looking for single men.

We don't discuss dick size on our profile as we have far more to offer than a specific amount of inches.

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By *ddieg85Man
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

According to the site glossary "VWE

Very well endowed. Refers to a gentleman's penis, usually one over 7" in length. VVWE revers to a Very Very Well Endowed gentleman. More V's equals more length. As in "Only VVWE guys need apply"."

But I agree it's subjective in reality.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
7 weeks ago

Norwich

This is engineering. If you want a particular size you have to specify measurements. Nobody would get away with ordering a big RSJ, would they?

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By *agE97 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Gwynedd

In that case I am VWE haha, but wasnt quite what she was looking for.

It was just the level of flirt and messages that went on, without any mention of said issue. She obvioulsly seen my pics as she fabed them.

It was us that pointed out the "issue" and be honest about it.

Didn't think it was that much of a deal breaker to just end a convertstion with no sort of reply or a "ok thanks for being honest"

Ah well we carry on

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

To be honest we just ignore accounts that make those requirements.

I'm not getting my tape measure out for some random couple on the Internet.

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By *agE97 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Gwynedd

We do as well.

It's them that messaged us, and in fairness they do have a very lengthy (no pun intended haha) profile, the type where you sort of have enough after a bit.

We persevired as the chat was going very well and we thought we would take another look at the novel of their profile haha! Then found the deal breaker 😜

But yeah like you the tape measure can stay in the box and let the appreciative moans of a lady be the proof.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"We do as well.

It's them that messaged us, and in fairness they do have a very lengthy (no pun intended haha) profile, the type where you sort of have enough after a bit.

We persevired as the chat was going very well and we thought we would take another look at the novel of their profile haha! Then found the deal breaker 😜

But yeah like you the tape measure can stay in the box and let the appreciative moans of a lady be the proof. "

We had a similar experience but it was over my height.

They viewed our profile.

They messaged first.

They arranged the social.

I pointed out I wasn't 6ft.

Then they replied saying I wasn't enough for her lol.

I almost enjoy pointing out to those who message first now reasons why I'm likely not suitable based on their bio.

Mr.

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By *orkshire Gent78Man
7 weeks ago

Halifax

Do guys actually measure thier odn dicks ?

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

The outcome was expected and reasonable. It's all good. 🩶

You did the right thing by being truthful and candid, otherwise the conversation would have been protracted and pointless. You weren't ghosted (that's not ghosting): you were incompatible and therefore, on the back of your honesty, the conversation fizzled out accordingly, albeit abruptly.

"...what is classed as VWE?" — it's a moot point and irrelevant. If you're asking the question then just assume you aren't well endowed.

You asked "What would you do?". I would do the same as you: just be upfront and move on. I've been in similar situations.

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By *un couple 2Couple
7 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

im not hugely endowed, but never had any complaints, probably average or just below average, depending on who your asking

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By *ung nine inchMan
6 weeks ago

leeds

Mrs has preference we Asian mf couple she love bwc 9”+

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By *oop87Man
6 weeks ago

Salisbury

Never had complaints.

I did have an ex that was so tight once though. It was fun. Just hurt to be honest

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
6 weeks ago

Sutton

A very subjective term , could it be 7 or 8

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By *ire_and_Ice_2025Couple
6 weeks ago

Kernowfornia

"Do guys actually measure thier odn dicks ? "

Not with any degree of accuracy in my humble experience 🙊🤣

🧊

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By *manteeCouple
6 weeks ago

Manchester

VWE is 8" plus

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple
6 weeks ago

London

B says he’s average, he knows that other cocks are bigger and he’s also very confident about talking with couples and ladies. So if someone says VWE we move on xx

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By *reekyDeekyMan
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

VWE is actually probably only 6.5" and above. There are actually plenty of studies and data on this on this. Both on women's preferences (this study shows women ideal preference is just above 6" which is considered above the global average:https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26332467/#:~:text=Affiliations,/12.2%20cm)%20sexual%20partners) a site called calcsd where you can look at western, eastern and global averages.

I have a big ass cock, im a regular in swingers clubs and I dont see many guys larger than me. I'm not even close to 9 inches. Lol apparently the only pornstar with a legitimate 9" cock is Mandigo. There is a site where there is a competition which offers 10k to anyone with a legitimately measured 9" penis and the prize is still unclaimed.

And even as a well endowed gentleman, I avoid profiles which makes specific expectations of penis size. I find it kinda lame. Ironically when in clubs I've had two women who claimed they weren't that impressed by my considerable size lol. Neither could fit even the tip of my dick in their mouths

Swinging should be about attraction and mutual satisfaction, penis size scores rather low when it comes to achieving either.

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By *awpleasureMan
6 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"VWE is actually probably only 6.5" and above. There are actually plenty of studies and data on this on this. Both on women's preferences (this study shows women ideal preference is just above 6" which is considered above the global average:https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26332467/#:~:text=Affiliations,/12.2%20cm)%20sexual%20partners) a site called calcsd where you can look at western, eastern and global averages.

Swinging should be about attraction and mutual satisfaction, penis size scores rather low when it comes to achieving either. "

6.5 is just above average and can be considered pretty big but no way is 6.5 VWE. Perhaps it is to a few but the majority would say no.

This is just my guide. Others will agree or disagree

4" and under Small

4-5 Below Average

5-6 Average

6-7 Above Ave and/or Pretty Big

7-8 Big or Well Endowed

8-9 Very Big or VWE

9-10 Huge or VVWE

10-11 Monster or VVVWE

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By *otwife Happy LifeMan
6 weeks ago

plymouth

"There are actually plenty of studies and data on this on this."

Yep, and they're completely worthless bullshit.

HOW could you ever have a survey where a representative sample of men get fully aroused while professionals measure them???

It's a joke.

And as for self-measurement - the delusions of most on here claiming sizes like 8 or 9 inches is something to behold.

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By *andy cock queenTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Aldershot.....Hants

It means....A Big Cock..

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By *igBeardyDanMan
6 weeks ago

Bilston

Its all subjective im 8 inches and to big for some and to small for others. If your looking for vwe just put down a minimum length then people will know.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
6 weeks ago

Hatfield

""There are actually plenty of studies and data on this on this."

Yep, and they're completely worthless bullshit.

HOW could you ever have a survey where a representative sample of men get fully aroused while professionals measure them???

It's a joke.

And as for self-measurement - the delusions of most on here claiming sizes like 8 or 9 inches is something to behold."

Go private for the survey the nurses will get you aroused …..

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Do guys actually measure thier odn dicks ? "

No, this is strictly forbidden. It can only be measured in person by another man, all other results will be rejected.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
6 weeks ago

Hatfield

"Do guys actually measure thier odn dicks ?

No, this is strictly forbidden. It can only be measured in person by another man, all other results will be rejected."

Does a remote control or energy drink bottle count as measure device ?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

VWE is a dealbreaker for me...if you havent got at least A levels I'm nit interested

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 weeks ago

Coventry

Simply just message and say Mr is this size, put the ball in their court and remove the elephant from the room. If that's a no just saves problems down the line. Which would be hard to understand but everyone has preferences and some people's are quite specific.

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By *ctionSandwichCouple
6 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Wear the lady like a hat?

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By *agE97 OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Gwynedd

It's more of a case how well the conversation was going between us both couples.

Really flowing, face pics sent, they replied back saying we were just their type etc

So we decided to have another look at their profile and bio (believe us when we say, it was a very long winded one), where right at the end it said that the Mrs only played with guys of a stated a specific size.

To which we replied (being honest) saying that her expectaions would not quite (but not far off haha) be met, and that was it instant end of convo, which we found a little rude given how well the previous 30 or so previous messages went before hand!!

But all is well and good and thanks to you all for your geniuine input and reply, and please remember us if you woukd like to play with a well above average but below vwe happy couple

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By *lectrictouchMan
6 weeks ago

inverarary

Maybe you could

Describe what lush means to you guys !

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By *reekyDeekyMan
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

They're not surveys. Urologist measure penises to ensure condoms are properly sized

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By *it62Man
5 weeks ago

leeds/Bradford

Swinging should be about attraction and mutual satisfaction, penis size scores rather low when it comes to achieving either.

6.5 is just above average and can be considered pretty big but no way is 6.5 VWE. Perhaps it is to a few but the majority would say no.

This is just my guide. Others will agree or disagree

4" and under Small

4-5 Below Average

5-6 Average

6-7 Above Ave and/or Pretty Big

7-8 Big or Well Endowed

8-9 Very Big or VWE

9-10 Huge or VVWE

10-11 Monster or VVVWE"

Medical studies are not far off from the post listing sizes

Although 10 and upwards are not generally outlined as these are apparently extremely few and far between

I think that those looking for large cocks are searching for a badge or testing their own thresholds

I am by no means on the large side but have had no complaints and many compliments

Surely it is about the satisfaction achieved, ideally mutually?

Anyway,one person's opinion is their's and their's alone so who am I to say what people should desire?

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By *r SensualMan
5 weeks ago

London

Each to their own, have your preferences and what not that’s cool. But for me, I tend to swerve profiles who explicitly state “size requirements” for potential suitors.

It’s shallow and surface level in thinking. I have a lot more to offer within a sexual experience with someone than just the size of what I’m packing in my trousers.

If anything, highlighting that is just a useful way to filter people out.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
5 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

I measured myself a long time ago, and it came out as 7", which according to what you read on here isn't that big.

But at clubs I get random women commenting on my size. I also get some women who are concerned that I'll be too big for them, so I certainly don't want to be any bigger.

So most of the measurements you see on here are probably completely bogus.

(By the way, if anyone is wondering, I may have a big cock, but I'm a rubbish lover...)

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bristol

"A very subjective term , could it be 7 or 8 "

I'm not a woman, but...

That's the size I like.

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By *ieandteaseMan
5 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"VWE is 8" plus"

My fb says its like this

Under 6 hopeless

7 is a man

8 is WE or hung

9 is VWE or well hung

Into double figures is a horse.

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By *eakingTogetherMan
5 weeks ago

St Helens

"We find that often these comments are more aimed at when people are looking for single men.

We don't discuss dick size on our profile as we have far more to offer than a specific amount of inches. "

Is there any reason why single men wouldn't have the same viewpoint?

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By *un couple 2Couple
5 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

Sam measured mine not long after we first met, even though she was a virgin then, she told me i satisfy her easily, but im small in comparison to other guys, her mates boyfriends etc. ive always wanted to be bigger, but she reassures me, i satisfy her, Thank god.

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By *b1980Man
5 weeks ago

Burnley

Wife measured me and she was a virgin then I shared her and she said your massive but she enjoyed smaller more

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