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Men’s profiles that are actually couples?

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By *eautyandthebeast86 OP   Couple
7 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We have come across a few single men profiles but they are actually a couple. We understand that some couples ALSO have solo accounts as well as their couple profile because they also play solo but we are talking about a single male profile who is in a couple but doesn’t have a another couples profile and just uses that ?

What are your thoughts, this is also why we have kept our single man filter off because these couples would be blocked from messaging etc if we blocked men?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Why would a couple choose to have a single male profile ?

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By *yeball91Man
7 weeks ago

southampton

Sometimes the guy sets up the profile first & then the partner joins after, and they then don’t want to loose veri’s / friends etc

I’ve also seen the reverse where a couple profile is now just a single male

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By *homas400Man
7 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

Yes I've experienced this a few times . I've had messages from single men that turn out to be a couple. They usually want to talk about their partners or share photographs. They also want to check the suitability and character of men before arranging a meet with their partners. Like you I've taken off the 'block single men' filter for this reason.

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By *ercuryMikeMan
7 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry


"Why would a couple choose to have a single male profile ?"

My thoughts exactly, as a single bloke I would have so many more options if I was still in a couple.

Never mind just how much easier getting to certain clubs would be.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds


" They also want to check the suitability and character of men before arranging a meet with their partners. "

But they could do this with a couples profile.

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By *homas400Man
7 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo


" They also want to check the suitability and character of men before arranging a meet with their partners.

But they could do this with a couples profile. "

Thats true. Maybe they are just single men pretending to be a couple after all. A couple I met up with last year said they had arranged to meet with a couple but only the man turned up. He said his wife couldn't make it. It was obvious to them at that point that he'd not been honest with them.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

I wouldn't engage with a single male profile saying he's a couple

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By *issmorganWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm always deeply suspicious of men who have a single male profile, yet claim they're a couple.

Get a joint profile with pics of both people on then.

Also, if they message me they can get past my no couple filter, so it's annoying.

I had such a profile wink me yesterday, it was undoubtedly just a man. The pics & the way it was written gave it away.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
7 weeks ago

Narnia

Sounds very fishy to me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds


"Sounds very fishy to me. "

A sole profile 🐟

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
7 weeks ago

Hatfield

You’ll catch a few on the way to school in fishnet Friday

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By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds


"You’ll catch a few on the way to school in fishnet Friday "

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By *icolerobbieCouple
7 weeks ago

Walsall


" They also want to check the suitability and character of men before arranging a meet with their partners.

But they could do this with a couples profile. "

Maybe it’s a way of being even more discrete and avoiding all the hassle from single fellas. I don’t know the answer to be fair, but we did meet a guy a few years ago, and then met him and his wife for a good few outdoor activities!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Yes I've experienced this a few times . I've had messages from single men that turn out to be a couple. They usually want to talk about their partners or share photographs. They also want to check the suitability and character of men before arranging a meet with their partners. Like you I've taken off the 'block single men' filter for this reason."

We've had messages from men who want to check our character and suitability for their partner. It's always a big no from us, if she isn't on on the initial social then she's either not interested, non existent or willing to have sex with anyone he thinks is ok. Doubly no if he says he wants to 'try us out' first 🤦

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By *icolerobbieCouple
7 weeks ago

Walsall


"Yes I've experienced this a few times . I've had messages from single men that turn out to be a couple. They usually want to talk about their partners or share photographs. They also want to check the suitability and character of men before arranging a meet with their partners. Like you I've taken off the 'block single men' filter for this reason.

We've had messages from men who want to check our character and suitability for their partner. It's always a big no from us, if she isn't on on the initial social then she's either not interested, non existent or willing to have sex with anyone he thinks is ok. Doubly no if he says he wants to 'try us out' first 🤦"

Have to agree with the trying us out first!

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By *oiluvfunMan
7 weeks ago

Birmingham

There are a lot of couples ‘presenting’ as a single guy profile in here, but avoiding a mailbox meltdown by showing pics of the lady.

I’ve chatted with quite a few, and have met two couples off the back of it. We all use Fab in the way it works for us 😉👍

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By *oiluvfunMan
7 weeks ago

Birmingham


" They also want to check the suitability and character of men before arranging a meet with their partners.

But they could do this with a couples profile.

Thats true. Maybe they are just single men pretending to be a couple after all. A couple I met up with last year said they had arranged to meet with a couple but only the man turned up. He said his wife couldn't make it. It was obvious to them at that point that he'd not been honest with them."

Voicenotes are the quickest, easiest way to confirm the wife exists 😎👍

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