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Wife dipping her toe in

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By *ndyg292 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

scotland

Ok this has probably have been asked hundreds of times so apologies in advance.

The past while, my wife of several years has intimated interests in sex with another female. For context we’ve been married over 10 years, kids and nothing even mentioned about anything else though I’d say we have a very good sex life.

So anyway, recently we’ve discussed something on the back of a film and she’s disclosed if anything, she’d be interested in a threesome with a female. Thought nothing of it but peeked my interest.

Fast forward a few months and we ended up in a strip club where she was open with everyone that she was bicurious. Had a dance and she loved it but was left a bit down (like all us guys due to no contact).

Anyway, where do we go from here? Both of us have no experience in this but want to investigate it more. From my view, I want to be involved but not that bothered about any real sexual contact with any other woman but again, if in agreement wouldn’t say no.

Where do we go from here? Surely some tips and advice can be given? Live in Scotland if that helps but in same time, not looking for offers or anything just now. Just how we could progress this if we feel ready.

Thanks in advance

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
7 weeks ago

Leicestershire

We woukd suggest, have a good look round and find a good 'dress' swingers club to go to on a night where single females will be present.

Go with the intention of staying in the bar and just chat to people. Treat it as a night out. Every club we've been to we have found people are usually willing to chat.

What you are looking for is not unheard of but is challenging to find. Usually single ladies that are interested in playing want to play with all involved in oir experience rather than feel like they are 'performing' but it is out there.

Talk to a few and see if you can all find common ground. The more you get out there, the more comfortable you will both be. No shoukd exoect anything of you, just be sure to pick a club with a really good reputation.

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By *eeshellsCouple
7 weeks ago

Reading

Might as well close the thread due to PC's excellent reply.

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By *hitelotusMan
7 weeks ago

london

The innocent wife concept is so erotic !

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
7 weeks ago

Coventry

Another one for take her to a club. If her intrests are solely/mainly women go on a couples and single ladies only night. Generally any single lady there is specifically intrested by couples. And of course a lot of the women in couple tend to be bi.

Go with no pressure, no expectations. Let her take the lead, you're doing this mainly for her intrest. Just take a look around, see what's going on, talk to people. I nothing more it's a chance for her to see what's going, see some lady action. Plant some inspiration and show her that what she's curious of is in her grasp if she wants it.

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By *ndyg292 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

scotland


"We woukd suggest, have a good look round and find a good 'dress' swingers club to go to on a night where single females will be present.

Go with the intention of staying in the bar and just chat to people. Treat it as a night out. Every club we've been to we have found people are usually willing to chat.

What you are looking for is not unheard of but is challenging to find. Usually single ladies that are interested in playing want to play with all involved in oir experience rather than feel like they are 'performing' but it is out there.

Talk to a few and see if you can all find common ground. The more you get out there, the more comfortable you will both be. No shoukd exoect anything of you, just be sure to pick a club with a really good reputation.

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Thanks very much for the advice, very helpful.

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By *ndyg292 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

scotland


"Another one for take her to a club. If her intrests are solely/mainly women go on a couples and single ladies only night. Generally any single lady there is specifically intrested by couples. And of course a lot of the women in couple tend to be bi.

Go with no pressure, no expectations. Let her take the lead, you're doing this mainly for her intrest. Just take a look around, see what's going on, talk to people. I nothing more it's a chance for her to see what's going, see some lady action. Plant some inspiration and show her that what she's curious of is in her grasp if she wants it."

Same with this message as well, seems some sound advice there

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By *layfullsamMan
7 weeks ago

Solihull

Make a joint profile on here with her actually aware of it

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By *rivervaderMan
6 weeks ago

bolton

Start a couples account and then ask for meets in a club

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By *ickedwillyCouple
6 weeks ago

Bangor

Clubs work well for us.

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By *ickylouCouple
6 weeks ago

birmingham

It does not have to be a club. She may be more interested in a social.

Set up couples profile and go to a social. No expectations as socials are normally pure social and no play. You can get to know people and talk in a non judgmental atmosphere

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By *oorlandtwoCouple
6 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent


"Might as well close the thread due to PC's excellent reply. "

👍🤣🤣

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By *nlyliveonce69Man
6 weeks ago

carlisle

With a long since ex met other couple for same room fun only it was made very clear both men would only play own wife but females might play each other if both happy

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