FabSwingers.com forum: First bi meet with a couple

By *omo2026 OP Man
7 weeks ago

North West

Hi, I've had the ideas in my head for a while now and want to experience some soft bi play for the first time with a couple. It's hard enough to engage with people here as it is without the added complication of no experience...

I'm not interested in meeting with a male solo that's not going to happen. All the ideas and thoughts I've had are centered around a meet with a couple.

I'm not the first and won't be the last at this stage of my fab experience. Would anyone be kind enough to share advice and experiences with me that may help me out. Thanks in advance x

By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe you could mention it on your profile

By *aughtybynature73Couple
7 weeks ago

shrewsbury

Definitely mention on your profile and just go with the flow when meeting. Most straight men we've met have been really bi. Good luck

By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

Central

Good advice so far! Also, it could be helpful to get clearer about which same gender sex you'd like to enjoy,as well as any limits you may have.

You could try out clubs bi events, to get to meet others more readily. It's never a good plan to expect sex at 1st club visits, though may happen. But you could meet others, paving the way for future engagement there or privately.

By *ipstick KissesWoman
7 weeks ago

Newry

When I was here as part of a couple we almost exclusively met single bi men. We looked for guys who were relaxed, open, imaginative and able to take the initiative.

Understand first what you're comfortable doing and express this in your profile.

Communicate with potential meets

Don't be afraid to stick to your boundaries, and be respectful of theirs.

Unless you're looking for something different, seek out those who see you as an equal rather than just a titillation for them.

By *omo2026 OP Man
7 weeks ago

North West

Cheers for the advice. Now I'm looking to see it through instead of just a thought, I'll add it into my bio. X